That's cool War -- I hear ya

When I first joined JSH, I didn't have a pic up. I've made a lot more friends on here since I did post one, one of me at work. Maybe the ladies think I'm a doctor --I'm not. Just a lab worker. I just thought that if I was seeing what the women I was talking to looked like, it was only fair that they saw me.

I only told a few people what I do, I don't want everyone on here hating me.

knoxman whats up haven't seen ya in a bit hope alls well

Hey, Caamken ,how's it going?

I've been here. Just not posting as much, especially in Current Events. WAY too much hatred in there ! I've been more reading posts and e-mailing back & forth with people. Thanks for asking .

yeh I can relate with some people having a chip

haven't quite figured out why but then just move past em


take care bud

I'm sorry you ladies are so attractive. I really am. I'm also really sorry I'm so ugly.

Hey Ya'll... What's happening...

I'm just cruising by to say hi..

Well, if you're not going to post a pic, or have a nicname that at least alludes to your sex, then at least chose an icon that give us a hint, i.e. pink, blue etc.

ahhhh does this mean I have to get rid of the orange midget devil?

yes, exactly... Medina Man...

at least some kind of obvious clue...
for people to know something about you...

although, recent photos would be the best...
not much to ask...nothing more and nothing less....

no...Snuggles...you don't have to get rid of him..

cause you have other photos of you in your gallery...
Like I do, in my gallery...of me.....

I think my recent photo is scaring them...
Maybe I'll go blue???
Naw I like bear pics too much...

ok ill keep mine off

"although, recent photos would be the best...
not much to ask...nothing more and nothing less...."


Noooooo fooling..I have nothing older than a few weeks\coupla months at most, I am still amazed at profiles with photos that are three, four or five years old. In this day and age, its impossible not to post something current.
You read a profile that is suggestive of someone who insists on honesty, or "if you're playing games move on" etc etc...yet no photo

Yes, Medina Man
It is so sad and a waste of people's time,
when others are so deceptive ...

I spoke with someone on this site recently
who has a friend in his list of friends ..

who in reality , is absolutely nothing like her photos...
at least a hundred pounds heavier & 20 plus years later...

and I said to him, Why do you put up with it?
It's deceptive and it's wrong...

and if you let her think it is okay...
then others are going to waste their time
with someone elses's dishonesty and treachery...

ms teddy we like the bears 4u!

I don't know. I've never really thought that looks were all that important to me....at least in terms of classic concepts of physical beauty. On the other hand, I really think you can tell something about a person by their face....eyes are supposed to be the window to the soul. A person can have a 'kind' face. I like being able to see the pics. But, whether or not I'm interested in someone has less to do with their physical beauty & more to do with who they are.

I get that all the time. I'm finding women that want to use me as their whimsical personal toy.

It makes me feel so cheap, used, easy.


IT"S SOOOOO COOL!