there are few questioons i would like to ask and i need honest answers please.
how can distance relationship work??
how can i express my feelings from a long distance?
can i find someone real online?

of course

lots of trust. and lots of work. just like any relationship.

yell really loud!

if you look closely, yes


you're welcome.

yes as long as shes completely honest and loyal and 100% real.....and not screwing anyone else

Hmmm..love with two people should prevail...meeting sight unseen..words typed expressing undying love...lmao..!!

Yes, of course you can.
Keep in faith, you'll found your soulmate, soon or later.
My friend ( also from Indonesia ) finally found her soulmate ( from USA )on okcupid, and on january 2015, they will be married, and then after married, she will moving to USA.
So dont lose hope, and just be patience.
Finally, the best of luck to you, hope you finding what you are looking for on mingle2 or elsewhere.

A LDR can work but you both have to be fully committed, myself and my partner are now over 5 months into a LDR .....lots of contact is the key.....10% of our relationship is here for all to see on mingle, we even started our own thread. The other 90% is offsite.....viber, skype, phone calls.....we are in touch with each other all day, 24/7 sometimes.....
We also made a firm goal of meeting in person this happened just over 3 weeks ago....and went very well....we have set more goals for the future....

You express your feelings the same way you would any relationship using the various tools available these days.....

Yes there are many real girls on this site....I made a point of any one interesting had to join in on the forums for me to then take an interest in them....most declined.....but well I am a very happy man right now, cause my partner joined in the forums and the rest is history....
Good luck and cheers man.....

^^^^^ he said everything already.. didn't even give me a chance to talk..

thank you for the wonderful message...yes i agree with what you said about LDR...as we all know that LDR is too risky because you'll never know what will happen...but with trust and using all the means to communicate with each other im very sure that it will work and will lasted til the end.

it can work just as any other relationship, just depends on partners, if they want to work on it and how they click (is that the right expession?) to each other. My relatives met more then 45 years ago, didn�t have all what we have, just letters, got married after two years and they love each other now just as in the beginning. Nowadays connection is much easier so there is no reason why shouldn�t it work out for any of us. Just it needs trust, commitment and patients.

With the right people yes it can work out very well. Both must be honest to the n-th degree and each needs true empathy for the other.

Not impossible but not easy either. Sooner or later, someone will need to make a move to the other person's location for it to work in the long term.

if one ask's the questions you do...

then no, it will not work for you.

you said you wanted honest.

or is honest just deemed to be "that which one self wishes to hear".

oopsie

Well.....those arranged marriages that people did back in the days before electricity seem to have worked. But then again I hear Joan of Arc was promised to some dude....she went all crazy and led a revolution just to get out of it. But yeah....it could work.

op easy answer yes and no ... all depends on the time you can put into your relationship and total honesty and if you don't have that or feel that to make each other feel secure to work toward a future ... no ...
will never go far always being insecure about one or the other ...is not always a nice way to start to have a LDR...

If the feeling means so much then the distance should mean so little.

But and this is a big but, some are luckier than others, in that those who can take time off work whenever they feel like and hop on a plane with no financial worry would find it easier than those who would struggle. Yep, it's cruel world sometimes.

Every great journey begins with a tiny step of course.

Hold on, consulting my Magic 8-Ball.

A long distance relationship is not an easy option, and needs to be well thought out before entering in to. You must be prepared to relocate if your partner cannot, because if all goes well you will want to be together at sometime in the future, and if that is in another country there is even more to consider, the language, employment prospects, visa, and relocation costs. In my opinion LDR's can and do work when the two people involved want them to work. You can learn a lot about each other before you even decide to meet up which is good, but to meet up can cost a lot in time and money in travel and accommodation if you live very far apart, or in different countries. You both need to keep in contact by emails, texts, phone calls, skype calls, and meet up as often as you can to keep the relationship alive. Online on a dating site must be the best place to find some one, and when you do just be careful until you are sure your new future partner is real, genuine and wanting a long distance relationship.

Welcome to Mingle2 and good luck in your search.

Would help if HE doesn't do that either

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Well..
Beyond the first few months of giddy affection and the feeling of butterflies, few ---if any---romantic relathionships are easy. Sure some look that way, but usually that's because two people are putting in a lot of work behind the scenes.

Long - distance relationships are even more difficult to maintain, and the reason why they can fail are numerous. Many long- distance relationships certainly succeed, but they require careful navigation from the people involved to steer through the obstacles brought on by geography.

Of course with the right mindset, plenty of emotional preparation and lots of work throughout, long-distance relationships can and do work out.

Peace&Patience to you all.