ladies... would you be mad and/or offended if your man went to a strip club?
and if so why?!

I rarely get 'mad',,,,Im kind of big on retaining my emotional energy

however, the details would matter

if this was something he engaged in before we met with a group of friends where he was only being 'entertained'

wouldn't bother me if he didn't mind taking me from time to time


if this was something he had been engaged in for the purpose of picking up ladies or getting tail

we would have a serious problem if it continued


if this was something he only started doing since our relationship began

also, a serious problem

Why get angry, if they are going to do it at least they are letting you know LOL

I we are married ,as long as he isn't spending the bill money and he comes home to me then I wouldn't get mad!

If we are just dating then yes I will be mad and prolly dump him

I think strip clubs are kinda fun...Some ladies are real classy on that stage...I never had a problem with any man I have been with going to a strip club...I would sometimes take my dates to them as well...the women are just working girls...don't think it's any different than going to a bar or out to dinner...some bartenders and waitresses are pretty ladies too...if your happy with who you are it shouldn't bother you...

Pffft.
He's taken.
Not dead.

Obviously you've never been in the ones that are in my area.
As long as the guy I'm with just looks and isn't in one all time I would have no problem with it.

he wouldn't let me know for sure..

we have two here...one is a real professional classy place...the other one....hmmmm I think maybe if my man went there it would bother me...eww...nasty place....

Don't know really ... Have never met a man who went to strip clubs. Wouldn't even know where to find one. Swingers club, yes, but strip club?
I never really understand how this works in the US? I always get the idea that going to a strip club is as normal as going to McDonalds, Kentucky Fried or Walmart or a pub :/

I don't think I'd be okay with my man doing that, just like I wouldn't be okay about my man going to a swingers club. Not that he'd get in on his own anyway, lol

think of it as strip club being professional teasers, with the occasional score

compared to a swingers club where the primary objective is to score,,,

I wouldn't be cool with a spouse going to a swingers club alone,, that kind of defeats the swinger purpose anyhow,,lol


I would be alright with a non spouse(no rings or shared life) going wherever they want,, depending upon the REASON for going,,,(hooking up is a noo )

I would rather have the woman i'm with do a strip tease for me rather then ever goin to a strip club