Topic: what annoying thing..
soufiehere's photo
Fri 10/17/14 06:10 PM

Awww ((Soufie))......I've dated one or two of those myself....Fortunately didn't get trapped into marrying one though...I'm sorry you did!flowerforyou

I walked the day he turned violent. Filed for divorce
within the hour. Never looked back.

And you are right NoMindGamesPlease, you can learn to
spot being in the presence of a sociopath.

Get away as fast as you can.

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Fri 10/17/14 06:22 PM


Awww ((Soufie))......I've dated one or two of those myself....Fortunately didn't get trapped into marrying one though...I'm sorry you did!flowerforyou

I walked the day he turned violent. Filed for divorce
within the hour. Never looked back.

And you are right NoMindGamesPlease, you can learn to
spot being in the presence of a sociopath.

Get away as fast as you can.


Thanks. That is a good advice.

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Fri 10/17/14 06:25 PM


Awww ((Soufie))......I've dated one or two of those myself....Fortunately didn't get trapped into marrying one though...I'm sorry you did!flowerforyou

I walked the day he turned violent. Filed for divorce
within the hour. Never looked back.



:thumbsup: Strength!:wink:

MariahsFantasy's photo
Fri 10/17/14 06:27 PM
Slept with another woman. That's hella annoying.

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Fri 10/17/14 06:31 PM

Slept with another woman. That's hella annoying.


Damn, I had that one too!!:cry:

Hi (((((Audrey)))))...xoxoxo!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 10/17/14 07:08 PM
Most annoying ... with a narcissist this list is endless ...
Him changing moods when it suited him, within a split second, was very exhausting. From raging madman to dead calm. Could just flick a switch.

Erm.. I never got used to him brushing his teeth in the shower. But compared to the NPD chit, that was peanuts.
That he sexually harassed my daughter for years on end, isn't high on my list of fun things in life either.
TBH I don't even think I know all the chit that SOB was up to. With a narcissist you just never know.

To end on a positive note: I'm happy, I'm positive, I'm over him and I'm strong.
flowerforyou

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Fri 10/17/14 08:44 PM
It was an accumulation of so many things. In the end I got tired of babysitting him and his violent temper tantrums.

Hallelujah!!

bashajones's photo
Fri 10/17/14 09:15 PM
In the end, all he did was look at me...and it drove me bonkers...laugh

panchovanilla's photo
Fri 10/17/14 10:04 PM
My ex fiancee lived 250 miles from me.
She would call me, insisting that I just had to come right away.
So I would. When I got there, she would go to sleep.
She would sleep for 2 days.
So while she slept I would clean her apartment, do her laundry,
do her grocery shopping, fix her car, etc.
Went through this routine about 50 times.

So who was the stupid one??slaphead
rofl

Amelinng's photo
Fri 10/17/14 10:19 PM

My ex fiancee lived 250 miles from me.
She would call me, insisting that I just had to come right away.
So I would. When I got there, she would go to sleep.
She would sleep for 2 days.
So while she slept I would clean her apartment, do her laundry,
do her grocery shopping, fix her car, etc.
Went through this routine about 50 times.

So who was the stupid one??slaphead
rofl


No....that wasn't stupid, just the love blind you then!
But then you did wake up...that's why she is now an EX!!

Amelinng's photo
Fri 10/17/14 10:28 PM



I had an ex, who unfortunately, learned to talk, but never learned to shut up.
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Literally, from the nanosecond her eyes opened in the morning, until she drifted off to sleep at night.
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I've avoided hyper- kinetic personalities ever since.


Oh...the wiring issue, maybe?

Men and women express their taught and feelings in different ways. It can cause a misunderstanding. But when there is a will, there is also a way.

Women sometimes speak too much because they are not satisfied with something. When the rant stops it usually means they gave up trying to deal with it, whatever it may be.

Sometimes men do not hear or do not want to hear when they are asked (not) to do something in plain English. Some men simply do not listen, some act as if they do not understand and ask for an explanation.
When they get an explanation, if they still stick to (for example) an annoying habit they have, women sometimes continue ranting, as if it will change anything. Once they realize it won't change a thing they become silent. That's not a good sign.

Of course, I do not know anything about you or about your ex, so I am talking generally. Do not take it personally, please.



You've brought up valid points for normal situations, and I've taken nothing personally.
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However, she was that way to everyone, rather she was happy, sad, angry, or glad. It's just the way she was.


I think it would be preferable having someone speak rather than someone who doesn't and expects you to understand what he wants.... too bad I am not a 'mind reader'!



jacktrades's photo
Fri 10/17/14 11:35 PM
A heavy smoker and it was always I am out, I left them somewhere,I was late for work because I had to stop to get some more. Eating and having her fan the smoke from my face and meal, smelling it on her breath and clothes when she kissed me. I could go on and on I felt like a hostage to those damn cigarettes.

pkh's photo
Sat 10/18/14 05:32 AM
Theres many things dont know how I lasted as long as I did. But when I didn't want to have sex which was often because he abused me he would stand at the head of the bed and jack off. As sick as soufies I know. Not enough class to go to the bathroom he was a total loser

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Sat 10/18/14 09:12 AM

A heavy smoker and it was always I am out, I left them somewhere,I was late for work because I had to stop to get some more. Eating and having her fan the smoke from my face and meal, smelling it on her breath and clothes when she kissed me. I could go on and on I felt like a hostage to those damn cigarettes.


As a smoker I can relate to this. I am aware that non-smokers hate the smell of tobacco.
That's why I clearly stated in my profile that I am a smoker and looking for the same.
It makes no sense to cope with it. No sense to me as a smoker and even less sense for the person who hates it.
It simply wouldn't work, so why pretend and lie to myself or anyone else?

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Sat 10/18/14 09:14 AM


My ex fiancee lived 250 miles from me.
She would call me, insisting that I just had to come right away.
So I would. When I got there, she would go to sleep.
She would sleep for 2 days.
So while she slept I would clean her apartment, do her laundry,
do her grocery shopping, fix her car, etc.
Went through this routine about 50 times.

So who was the stupid one??slaphead
rofl


No....that wasn't stupid, just the love blind you then!
But then you did wake up...that's why she is now an EX!!


I agree!

no1phD's photo
Sat 10/18/14 09:30 AM
Wow... gobs of toothpaste and snoring..hmm.. what was I thinking..lol..... some of you have had truly annoying partners... my heart goes out to all of you.... I wish your next partners to be a lot less annoying....wow....

.. my ex never knew when to stop talking..... she talked on the phone with her friends constantly... we would have dinner guests over... she would talk to them right up to the point they were leaving.... and even as they were walking down the sidewalk she would still be talking to them.... they would be getting in their cars trying to make their getaways....lol.. and she would still be talking to them...lmao..

premierblue's photo
Sat 10/18/14 09:31 AM


surprised You dated Howard Hughes!!???!!!!

Gladly would have exchanged the two as Hughes was not a sociopath :-)

Howard Hughes was a narcissist. Most billionaires are!

premierblue's photo
Sat 10/18/14 09:33 AM

My ex fiancee lived 250 miles from me.
She would call me, insisting that I just had to come right away.
So I would. When I got there, she would go to sleep.
She would sleep for 2 days.
So while she slept I would clean her apartment, do her laundry,
do her grocery shopping, fix her car, etc.
Went through this routine about 50 times.

So who was the stupid one??slaphead
rofl

It took you 50 times before you realised why she wanted you to come over, lmao!!!

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Sat 10/18/14 09:37 AM

did your ex partner or lover..
.. do! that would drive you absolutely bonkers.... my ex used to snore like a truck driver. and she would leave gobs of toothpaste in the sink... drove me .. bonkers...lol




Lies, secret, betrayal, backstabbing, not Being able to stay away from alcohol, messing around every time i wasnt there...the list goes on.....to make it worse all this was what she thought as normal behaviour...

MariahsFantasy's photo
Sat 10/18/14 10:27 AM


Slept with another woman. That's hella annoying.


Damn, I had that one too!!:cry:

Hi (((((Audrey)))))...xoxoxo!


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Hey (((Leigh))) flowers