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With all that has happened in my life I'm good in my skin.... But as always im just being me.....
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Edited by
fleta_n_mach
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Sat 10/11/14 02:42 PM
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My bad! It is a poorly constructed thread. It is instinctive, human, (and cliche') to say "IDGAF what people SAY!" ......but you do. There are reasons, I don't get very deep in response. I might not crawl back out, I've spent a few years sorting myself out. It matters to no one but me. I've searched the depths of my Ego, which leads me to examine others. I can hold everyone around me and myself to too high of standards, inevitably driving myself nutz. So I have dragged myself from nutz-dom. Now I just DGAF. for example: When trolls on another site made face in the hole porn pics of me and posted them, I thanked them for using a better body than my own.  Then I proceeded to contact the host site that housed the pics and had them removed.
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Ohhh.. mittens would be nice... . that reminds me... would you have time to knit me a nice.... long sock.. I only need one...   ..
must keep all of me warm... 
Are you fundraising for cancer?
I would post a link, but I don't think Mingle would let me... Soo Google buzzfeed men cancer awareness. Welllll I enjoyed it. 
.. but what about my sock.....?.. . are you going to . knit me one or not.... winter is coming and quick.. ....lol.. |
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ive come to terms with the fact that im not going to be rich thin or tall, but that's fine because im not poor I could outrun most in a race and as long as they have stepladders I can reach the top shelves in supermarkets. if people don't like it they can well kiss my sizable round behind lol. I like you mom333 
A friend in high school used to say to me, "I wish I could be like you and not care about what everybody else thinks". I guess I just rolled my eyes or ignored the comment, but of course I 'care' if someone says mean things to, or about me. I just dont need to conform to what they want me to be. I dont honestly see a point in that. I hate spiteful gossip and i work with a woman who cant get enough of it. constantly complaining and planting seeds of discourse. *gah* drains us of our energy to be around such negativity. I keep away from folks like that as much as possible. She keeps trina facebook me. no. have a nice day. Im very happy and comfortable in my own skin. I dont know why anyone would choose otherwise so maybe its hormonal or something. ...and I am so not cool. 
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My bad! It is a poorly constructed thread. It is instinctive, human, (and cliche') to say "IDGAF what people SAY!" ......but you do. DILLIGAF ... Kenny Bloody Wilson ... Must say I care less about what ppl think than I used to. But still, we're not hermits, but social beings, part of all kinds of social settings, so yes, other ppl's opinions & views can have impact. .. but what about my sock.....?..
. are you going to . knit me one or not.... winter is coming and quick.. ....lol.. And there's me thinking men putting socks in their boxers was a joke ... I just finished a cowl shawl, but I spose that would be a somewhat over the top .. |
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KUDOS....for G..ing a FLUCK!
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lmfao. My mom still says Dilligaf, because her mother said it, and so on.
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KUDOS....for G..ing a FLUCK! 
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I can barely see the "L" in "Cool"........I'm so far away these days.
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I take showers at the gym. Sometimes a big one catches my eyes & then I'm so uncool and drop the soap.
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lmfao. My mom still says Dilligaf, because her mother said it, and so on.
Yeah, it is rather catchy. Had the same prob with "the effing cat's back" (Kenny Bloody Wilson) ... every time my cats came in
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I'm comfortable with me. I am an enigma. Haha.
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.. well I'm here stuck on the couch..
and in a great deal of pain... it's making me a bit sentimental... so here I go..lol..ohhh...  .
throughout my childhood.. and early teen years.. I often felt like an outsider... like somehow I didn't quite fit in.... I didn't do the same things other boys did... I wasn't in a rock band.. I didn't play sports... didn't like hunting or fishing much... and was never much of a car person... mechanically inclined so to speak... I was tall and thin... and somewhat feminine.... but masculine at the same time...lol.. I was raised in a house with four sisters.... so relating with girls.. always came easier than relating with boys.. growing up I always had two or three best friends... that were males.. ... we always hung out and did guy things ride our bikes throw rocks.. . go roller skating on Saturdays.... but without them I would spend a majority of my time alone... always wandering.. somehow feeling as though I was looking for something... . never really . knowing what it was I was looking for.... I realize now I was looking for some sort of social acceptance.... but as we grow older... we become more comfortable with who we are... you begin to realize.... that social acceptance.. begins with accepting who you are... becoming comfortable with in your own skin.. .... I still do not fit into any social mold.. . but I am very fine with that... and through business dealings and.... more social interacting... I am now much more confident and comfortable.... and do not seek out... accolades from others.... although I do still feel sometime... as if I am looking for something.... something that I have lost.... perhaps that person to better me to complete me..... that person I may be able to share all of myself with..... 
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Wow, that sounds ... very familiar ...
Maybe you're a high sensitive person? Many, if not all, HSPs have this kind of background ... Not a 'disease' or anything wrong, just very sensitive and often intuitive ppl that do not easily fit in social molds ... because they simply are different. |
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It all depends on the situation. Most situations I can stay cool as can be through but there are a few exceptions.
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I'm colder than a polar bears toenail.
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I'm colder than a polar bears toenail.
AWESOME!!!! |
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 quit yur braggin
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Sliding my hand between my breasts... Nope... Not cool.... But in all fairness .. It is steamy hot here today :-) I was feeling pretty cool. Until I read this. Now I have a twitch. And my eyes are watering. |
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When I was younger small things people said bothered me but after 20 yrs in the restaurant biz it toughed me up.I mean really what does it matter what they say, you have to live your life and pay your bills no matter what. One thing I have learned is that if someone says something nice about you people will forget it but when they say bad things no one forgets.
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