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i love my fam . i dont want to see any of them in the nude or have sex with them i love my dog i dont want to have sex with her either  
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Edited by
premierblue
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Thu 10/09/14 04:23 PM
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I best not mention the Auntie/Neice role play that I love so much lol Yep, you better not mention the Auntie role. These guys are going to think you're an auntie. In the Indian context, Auntie = mature woman, 35-50 yrs. What you call a 'cougar' in the US. An auntie is 35 plus, been married a couple of years, past her child bearing duties, well to do, and with lots of money has servants for every thing, is bored and sexually frustrated. Their husbands are too busy making money, and dont have the time or inclination for sex with their wives. So where do these 'aunties' get their screws? On the sly from young guys, usually college students who are more than happy to 'service' these aunties! Just in the past week an Indian Sikh guy started a thread asking for 'mature woman, 35-50' and Basha parodied it with a thread of her own with a gender reversal! That ppl, in a nutshell, is what these guys mean with their stupid threads. |
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.. are you saying, can you have sex without love...yes... can you have love without sex...hmm..yes... can I love having sex... you betcha...
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Love always comes first. We live in a sex crazed world. My dear wife was ill most of her life. We certainly were intimate, but caring for her was my first sign of love for her! Sex is a very beautiful thing, but love must exist first1! Sex without love is meaningless.
I would give anything to love a woman again and to be loved! Loneliness is a terrible thing! |
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Edited by
mikey5360
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Thu 10/09/14 04:12 PM
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I best not mention the Auntie/Neice role play that I love so much lol Yep, you better not mention the Auntie role. These guys are going to think you're an auntie. In the Indian context, Auntie = mature woman, 35-50 yrs. What you call a 'cougar' in the US. An auntie is 35 plus, been married a couple of years, past her child bearing duties, well to do, and with lots of money has servants for every thing, is bored and sexually frustrated. Their husbands are too busy making money, and dont have the time or inclinatiom for sex with their wives. So where do these 'aunties' get their screws? On the sly from young guys, usually college students who are more than happy to 'service' these aunties! Just in the past week an Indian Sikh guy started a thread asking for 'mature woman, 35-50' and Basha parodied it with a thread of her own with a gender reversal! That ppl, in a nutshell, is what these guys mean with their stupid threads. doesn't sound so creepy now..as for some of the others....
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Not for me, but it sure in the hell is for a man
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Edited by
lastlady
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Thu 10/09/14 04:37 PM
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Exactly pennscrk
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Yes, it is important, to me it is anyways. When I love someone, I wanna be close and intimate. Maybe I'm greedy, but I want it all ... love & sex and loving sex
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Yes, it is but it has to be with the right man/woman..
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Yes or No |
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sex is not important for love.
Then remove sex from the equation and see what you end up with ... a brother-sister type of relationship. Sure you can love deeply, but you'll miss out on a very important aspect in the relationship. In a healthy love relationship you have tension of attraction (dunno the right English word for it) between partners. This attraction defines how you behave around each other, how you interact, the things you say, the jokes you make, the way you look at each other etc. etc. The natural desire to become one with the one you love so much, to melt together, become one body in love and passion and share the ultimate you can share together, mind body and spirit. When having sex with someone you love, you allow yourself to be vulnerable, to open up, literally and emotionally, if the trust is truly there, you give yourself 100%, and have a man enter your body to become one. Which is also quite something, scares some people to 'lose' themselves in another. When a man comes it's a subconscious act of giving, basically the most intimate gift a man can give a woman. Some men can't - or are reluctant - to give their seed to someone they don't love. If you take all that out of the equation, the entire relationship will change, interaction and behaviour, everything. You lose a very precious aspect of the relationship. You'll end up with a platonic relationship. Can be okay, if both are okay with that, but you will miss that precious thing. |
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In a good relationship, love grows over time. Sex changes over time.
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sex is not important for love.
Then remove sex from the equation and see what you end up with ... a brother-sister type of relationship. Sure you can love deeply, but you'll miss out on a very important aspect in the relationship. In a healthy love relationship you have tension of attraction (dunno the right English word for it) between partners. This attraction defines how you behave around each other, how you interact, the things you say, the jokes you make, the way you look at each other etc. etc. The natural desire to become one with the one you love so much, to melt together, become one body in love and passion and share the ultimate you can share together, mind body and spirit. When having sex with someone you love, you allow yourself to be vulnerable, to open up, literally and emotionally, if the trust is truly there, you give yourself 100%, and have a man enter your body to become one. Which is also quite something, scares some people to 'lose' themselves in another. When a man comes it's a subconscious act of giving, basically the most intimate gift a man can give a woman. Some men can't - or are reluctant - to give their seed to someone they don't love. If you take all that out of the equation, the entire relationship will change, interaction and behaviour, everything. You lose a very precious aspect of the relationship. You'll end up with a platonic relationship. Can be okay, if both are okay with that, but you will miss that precious thing. |
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In a good relationship, love grows over time. Sex changes over time. |
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In a good relationship, love grows over time. Sex changes over time. blah blah ... these days men have headaches, not women... |
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i would like to see you naked hhahahahahaha
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sex is not important for love.
Then remove sex from the equation and see what you end up with ... a brother-sister type of relationship. Sure you can love deeply, but you'll miss out on a very important aspect in the relationship. In a healthy love relationship you have tension of attraction (dunno the right English word for it) between partners. This attraction defines how you behave around each other, how you interact, the things you say, the jokes you make, the way you look at each other etc. etc. The natural desire to become one with the one you love so much, to melt together, become one body in love and passion and share the ultimate you can share together, mind body and spirit. When having sex with someone you love, you allow yourself to be vulnerable, to open up, literally and emotionally, if the trust is truly there, you give yourself 100%, and have a man enter your body to become one. Which is also quite something, scares some people to 'lose' themselves in another. When a man comes it's a subconscious act of giving, basically the most intimate gift a man can give a woman. Some men can't - or are reluctant - to give their seed to someone they don't love. If you take all that out of the equation, the entire relationship will change, interaction and behaviour, everything. You lose a very precious aspect of the relationship. You'll end up with a platonic relationship. Can be okay, if both are okay with that, but you will miss that precious thing. Good to see someone in their 50's give such a well thought out mature response. |
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yes.
dr phil said that women use sex to get love and men use love to get sex. hmmm |
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In a good relationship, love grows over time. Sex changes over time. Based on empirical data, do you mean the women you've known don't want it with you "anymore" or not ever again in their lifetimes? |
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Who wants sex? I just want to cuddle.
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