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| Topic: Is it OK to lie to woman? | |
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... the truth..hmm.. what is the truth really... we tell little lies to ourself everyday.. I'm a great driver.. as you go down the road with your left hand blinker on for a mile..lol...
. I am a great father.. but I don't spend as much time with my children as I should... .... I'm a good friend... but when it's time to help my friend move.... all of the sudden I get a cold...lol... .. the truth... even in lies there is always some truth....  
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<----12"
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<----12" 
I tried not to...... |
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I tried not to......  because it wooda HURT!!
  shuddup!
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Edited by
dcastelmissy
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Thu 09/25/14 04:51 PM
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Tell it as your eyes behold it! If she is beautiful to you, compliment her in the things YOU find her beauty in. Personally I would rather have the truth as far as compliments go in the way I look to others, it's easier for me to get verification that I may not look good in a certain style of clothing which might compliment some women, but not necessarily me! I have no problem with that, but compliments just for the sake of being nice when it is obvious the compliment did not have truth behind it is like a newspaper article which needs editing...in a major way! Hope I don't sound confusing here.
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Edited by
valtheponytail35
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Thu 09/25/14 04:32 PM
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.. now are you telling the truth!!.. or perhaps just saying what you think they want to here...hmmm..lmao... good luck explaining this one... because whatever you say now.... they are going to have to wonder!!!.. are you truly being sincere...lmfao.. 
If that's true then you're excellent mind reader - knowing what everyone is thinking. Or perhaps (not that i'd ever doubt your sincerity here) by posting what you think they should be thinking, youre actually leading them to think the same way, and setting up yet another minefield where answers of any kind end with a boom! Not gonna step on that either, nopenope. I'd be surprised if women don't question sincerity of any man they haven't got to know in person yet. And I expect no discounts there, it's all part of getting to know process. Interesting, that this thread has an unusually high male participation, though the question was ment for women to get some female point of view on this. |
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Edited by
Leigh2154
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Thu 09/25/14 04:38 PM
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<----12"
I tried not to...... because it wooda HURT!!
shuddup!
chubbie... To self...*He said shuddup dummy!!* |
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my what thick words you use
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Edited by
stingraycity
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Thu 09/25/14 04:49 PM
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yeah it's ok to lie to women. women, children, bosses, cops...whatever...who knows what the truth is anymore anyway.
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my what thick words you use
Motif.... 
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No, I don't recommend lying to her. But what do I know??? I've gone with that philosophy, and well I'm here on M2 for almost a year now. And I've never been married.....sooo take it or don't take my thoughts on the subject.
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Edited by
Beachfarmer
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Thu 09/25/14 04:59 PM
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 oh my.....it bringths out my inner dragon
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that she's the prettiest woman you've ever met (while your eyes may disagree) that she looks thinner now (though her new pants are 2 sizes up) that she looks way younger (only when wearing a scarf) that her new short hair are the sexiest (though she had long hair almost to the waistline) To sum it up - do the compliments you (women) hear have to be truth the whole truth and nothing but truth? ;does this outfit look good on me?..me,am not a big fan of that color,or,maybe your top should of been I little more loose,but the most important thing is ,are you comfortable in it,do YOU like it?....stuff like that,you don't have to lie,but also you don't need to hurt their feelings or try and break them down either,I believe in building and not breaking people down,good topic! 
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Edited by
valtheponytail35
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Thu 09/25/14 05:09 PM
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Tell it as your eyes behold it! If she is beautiful to you, compliment her in the things YOU find her beauty in. Personally I would rather have the truth as far as compliments go in the way I look to others, it's easier for me to get verification that I may not look good in a certain style of clothing which might compliment some women, but not necessarily me! I have no problem with that, but compliments just for the sake of being nice when it is obvious the compliment did not have truth behind it is like a newspaper article which needs editing...in a major west! Hope I don't sound confusing here.
Let's see if I got it right. Man must tell the truth and that truth depends on His eyes (it's not universal). If He doesn't see, that she is beautiful then the fault must be IN HIS EYES (in his feelings for her). Is that, what you ment? And ofc- if He dont see her beautiful and she believes beauty is in the eye of a beholder, then all she has to do is replace that beholder (Him), to feel beautiful again. |
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Edited by
dcastelmissy
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Thu 09/25/14 05:18 PM
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Tell it as your eyes behold it! If she is beautiful to you, compliment her in the things YOU find her beauty in. Personally I would rather have the truth as far as compliments go in the way I look to others, it's easier for me to get verification that I may not look good in a certain style of clothing which might compliment some women, but not necessarily me! I have no problem with that, but compliments just for the sake of being nice when it is obvious the compliment did not have truth behind it is like a newspaper article which needs editing...in a major west! Hope I don't sound confusing here.
Let's see if I got it right. Man must tell the truth and that truth depends on His eyes (it's not universal). If He doesn't see, that she is beautiful then the fault must be IN HIS EYES (in his feelings for her) And ofc- if He dont see her beautiful and she believes beauty is in the eye of a beholder, then all she has to do is replace that beholder (Him), to feel beautiful again. I think you misinterpreted what I said. Let me see if I can make the point clearer. For a man to truly love a woman, she must be beautiful in her man's eyes even if the rest of the world believes she isn't. It's not about changing the one who loves you at all!! It's about being honest and telling the truth. For instance, if a certain outfit does not look good on her or if she has put on some pounds, does the man stop loving her because of the person she is or what she looks like? She has qualities within her that make a man lover her unless he is only after someone who is "eye candy". Women, or men for that matter are more than just objects! They are living, breathing human beings! They do not change within just because the exterior package has changed! Therefore, compliment the qualities within the person rather than focusing on lying about the outer package, that is, if that's truly where you are focused. I personally would rather have the truth told than to be complimented on something that is a lie. Have I made it clearer so that it is understood? Beauty, in other words, can be found in the outer package, but what is of true value is the inner package! Compliment what is beautiful to YOU! |
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but Missy!! I thought I was your eye candy...
  
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Today, at work, the cook was rushing around because she forgot to put sugar in dessert, I told her all she had to do was smile on it to make it sweet; she stopped, looked at me and smiled. She is actual pretty much a crabby person.
Actually, I am amazed at the amount of BS that hovers around women and no one calls them on it, because they want to f88k them. Meh |
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Tell it as your eyes behold it! If she is beautiful to you, compliment her in the things YOU find her beauty in. Personally I would rather have the truth as far as compliments go in the way I look to others, it's easier for me to get verification that I may not look good in a certain style of clothing which might compliment some women, but not necessarily me! I have no problem with that, but compliments just for the sake of being nice when it is obvious the compliment did not have truth behind it is like a newspaper article which needs editing...in a major west! Hope I don't sound confusing here.
Let's see if I got it right. Man must tell the truth and that truth depends on His eyes (it's not universal). If He doesn't see, that she is beautiful then the fault must be IN HIS EYES (in his feelings for her) And ofc- if He dont see her beautiful and she believes beauty is in the eye of a beholder, then all she has to do is replace that beholder (Him), to feel beautiful again. I think you misinterpreted what I said. Let me see if I can make the point clearer. For a man to truly love a woman, she must be beautiful in her man's eyes even if the rest of the world believes she isn't. It's not about changing the one who loves you at all!! It's about being honest and telling the truth. For instance, if a certain outfit does not look good on her or if she has put on some pounds, does the man stop loving her because of the person she is or what she looks like? She has qualities within her that make a man lover her unless he is only after someone who is "eye candy". Women, or men for that matter are more than just objects! They are living, breathing human beings! They do not change within just because the exterior package has changed! Therefore, compliment the qualities within the person rather than focusing on lying about the outer package, that is, if that's truly where you are focused. I personally would rather have the truth told than to be complimented on something that is a lie. Have I made it clearer so that it is understood? Beauty, in other words, can be found in the outer package, but what is of true value is the inner package! Compliment what is beautiful to YOU! well said : ) |
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Today, at work, the cook was rushing around because she forgot to put sugar in dessert, I told her all she had to do was smile on it to make it sweet; she stopped, looked at me and smiled. She is actual pretty much a crabby person.
Actually, I am amazed at the amount of BS that hovers around women and no one calls them on it, because they want to f88k them. Meh |
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Today, at work, the cook was rushing around because she forgot to put sugar in dessert, I told her all she had to do was smile on it to make it sweet; she stopped, looked at me and smiled. She is actual pretty much a crabby person. Actually, I am amazed at the amount of BS that hovers around women and no one calls them on it, because they want to f88k them. Meh Time to switch the type of women you attract to you then!! Just saying... |
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