there has to be something there that makes you you. that does not require anyone else to do but you get into it enjoy it find yourself get a handle. then surface after you find yourself and they will come

I've been single for 3 years no wait

WOW Jess that was truly profound & empowering~!

Note to self: if I need a pep talk, email Jess!

Thankyou...but none of it is original...the sentiment is...

However, the words are a reminder to all of us.

I agree with Caamken and Jess your young yet learn to love yourself first

Ok well im doing an update....
I took a walk and ahd time to think to myself and calm down...And kinda thought everything out and what everyone said and I realized that yea "love" will come to me and I cant rush itt...And that all the other drama in my life will work its way outt

LOL you guys need to be patient. Something better always comes a long. Don't you know that you get what you put in when it comes to these types of things? I used to be like "Oh man, I am soooooooo ugly, no girls talk to me". Guess what? The weather changed, I got into the best of moods, I am getting job offers from customers, making more friends, and women are hitting on me like drunk guys do to super model looking chicks! Walk with pride, and focus on yourself. Nobody wants a needy person. You gain that confidence and you will be alright my friend. Women (atleast grown women) don't focus so much on looks, but for security (Which should be no problem so long as you can take care of yourself and always keep thriving to improve until comfortable), and a man with a great personality. I learned that not being a lady's first choice when you were a kid, helps develop a personality that will make you shine like a flaming comet once you grow into a well rounded adult. Keep your chin up, know what you want. Some things are worth waiting for.