Topic: I Hate Being Single...
mnhiker's photo
Thu 09/27/07 04:36 PM
Geez. Who doesn't?

Trizar's photo
Thu 09/27/07 04:37 PM
seems hard to find the one you want!!

caamken's photo
Thu 09/27/07 04:39 PM
first quit winning about whoo is me crap cause women, I mean everyone does not care to hear it. Most people are looking for positive people to surround themselves with.

second before you can be good has a couple you need to learn to be good with yourself. Otherwise you become some jealous person cause they have a life with out you. Has you know that drives them away also.

learn to relax and deal with what life gives you, and only then you find the right person for you

ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Thu 09/27/07 04:41 PM
Tru but being my ag and bein single is rough...

MiSSLiNDS's photo
Thu 09/27/07 04:41 PM
i AGREE.. WELL SAiD!

MiSSLiNDS's photo
Thu 09/27/07 04:43 PM
noway OH MY GOODNESS.. BEiNG SiNGLE AT 19?? ARE YOU KiDDiNG? SOOOOO! TRY BEiNG A SiNGLE MOTHER AT 19 WiTH A USELESS BOYFRiEND!

ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Thu 09/27/07 04:43 PM
I hear you...its rough then I bet

no photo
Thu 09/27/07 04:45 PM
it is hard to find the rite one, but I would rather be single than pass the time with some one who isnt exactly what im looking for. I love my life my job and my kids. the only thing missing is someone to share it with but like unsure said I dont "need" a man to make me happy, it would just add to it. already happy with my life :smile:

DTHRomeo's photo
Thu 09/27/07 04:46 PM
You get used to it

Right?

caamken's photo
Thu 09/27/07 04:47 PM
being single at your age is easy. millions of things for young people to do . Think when you are in your late 30's thru 60's and all your friends are married going out on couples night and your not asked cause you don't have significant other. be real it is all cool. go to gyms work out your fraustrations. stop being so desparate and relax people will just come into your life that you never expected when you are relaxed

ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Thu 09/27/07 04:51 PM
Thats true

eileena9's photo
Thu 09/27/07 04:52 PM
I totally agree with caamken....being single as young as you are is easy....you are free to do anything you want to do....being older and alone and not having someone to share things with is tough, I went thru it for 12 years...

LightVoice's photo
Thu 09/27/07 04:54 PM
Caamken does have a really good point...... I know that right now it seems like the worst fate of all to be single.. in all honesty though hun, it's NOT. I realise you may think that folks are delusioned when we say "at your age..."... that is not true either. See.. those of us that say that WERE your age once :smile: We've been there... and a whole lotta miles since. So when we say... enjoy being young, you have plenty of time for *The One* to enter your life.. we do not say this with anything other than compassion & experienced knowing.

Seems there are several aspects of your life that you are less than happy about. For now... accept the emotional support of your friends and make a conscious effort to get the other areas of yoru life in order & harmony. Because then.. not only will you be ready to make the BEST of any relationship... but you will also be in a position to offer THE BEST of YOU to your partner.

Blessings~ flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Thu 09/27/07 04:59 PM
I juss wish my life could come 2gether and work outt ya know

caamken's photo
Thu 09/27/07 05:02 PM
only you can bring it all together and make it happen.

no photo
Thu 09/27/07 05:05 PM
I agree with caamken...flowerforyou

ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Thu 09/27/07 05:05 PM
Tru im juss hoping this all works outt soon for me

Jess642's photo
Thu 09/27/07 05:06 PM
Reasons, seasons, lifetimes...

Everything passes...feelings of separation, isolation...singular.

We are not alone, we are not separate...only your mindset.

Step into you, discover you, embrace this time to grow...

Step away from people who attempt to reduce you, by creating feelings of inadequacy...

Be all of you...

flowerforyou

Brian65's photo
Thu 09/27/07 05:07 PM
Thats deep

ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Thu 09/27/07 05:09 PM
WOW that was go0d...and its an eye opener