Tuesday is the day my ambalnce chaser requests a court date.

My relief actually came when she was first served.

Just to let y'all know, I do love the woman. I would take her into my home and care for her if she needed me.

That is, up until the time I commit to another.

Nope. Won't consider legal marriage again. But, I will make sure my partner isn't left homeless after I'm worm feed.

Who here won't do marriage again?

I don't think I could. Isn't a promise good enough? Why a piece of paper all over again?

You never stop loving your ex spouses. Although, boundaries are a neccessity after it's over and done.

Congrats on untangling "stuff" and cudos for pledging friendship to the soon to be ex...

I'm ok either way....Marriage or shackin up..Doesn't affect the degree love one iota....

I'll continue repeating my mantra,
Better dead than wed.

At least until I find someone worthy of being wed to.

I think it's admirable that you would still help her.
wishing you all the best

Thanks, guys.
You ladies are very special to me and I appreciate your being there.
Have a great night.

<<<-----This girl won't even do marriage "once"....lol

I have been staying in the friendship zone and it is a nice comfortable place to be.

Financial dependence is not better than any other type of dependence and all dependence is best served via self initiative. The error many women make is to trust men who offer then financial reward rather than seeking their own. Given the divorce rate, its foolish to place ones economic future in the hands of others who have a greater than fifty per cent chance of leaving. Better to be self sufficient and then meet another person and build a life for two with both being financially sufficient than choosing to trust another for financial security and end up as the majority of women who lose 43 per cent of their lifestyle income after divorce.The advantage is a woman has her own financial future in her own hands and whether she ends up with a man or not, she will be financially secure..

I am open to getting married, but the relationship would have to be pretty danged solid for me to say "I do".

There was a time when I said "never again"... then I met the right one.

Well, four is enough for me.

I am, by no means, an innocent party. The unraveling of my last three were 98% my failure to be good man.

Don't know what it was about this last one. I stayed faithful.

Doing a twelve year stint with bedding only one woman should get me into the Guinness Book.

Actually, I proved to myself, I can be faithful. Blowing the theoryof, once a cheat, always a cheat. IMO

When it's right, marriage is wonderful. That little piece of paper represents someone cared and is committed enough to take that leap with you, and it creates a bond that is so special, it cannot be found by anything short of marriage. When it was right, I loved being married and I would do it again.

I have a very good idea I more than likely won't hook up with any woman from a dating site.

So, I can reveal this secret.

I find me a woman who will come in and love me like a wife, when I die or have to go to a nursing home, my daughters have instructions to sign my home and everything inside the fence over to her.

Don't work out, no wasting money on another divorce.

It's really not that much.

The place, 2 trucks, utility trailers, tons of tools. Saddles and tack. I love tools.

We're probably looking at just under 50 grand.