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Topic: Threat
MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 09/02/14 06:42 PM
When a woman says yes to dating a man is it a threat to the woman? Threat has many definitions, good and bad. If, the man is truly evil, it could be a threat to her wellbeing. If, there's a strong physical/sexual attraction between the man and woman, it could be a threat to her chastity. It could be a threat to do harm. It could be, he threatened her with a good time. Please clarify. Threat noun 1. a statement of an intention to inflict pain, injury, damage, or other hostile action on someone in retribution for something done or not done. 2. a person or thing likely to cause damage or danger.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 09/02/14 06:48 PM
When a woman says yes to dating a man is it a threat to the man Haylo ..... Laughing .. If he is dating me .. Then most certainly :-) What's ya secret? confidence in my ability ... as a woman .. to enrich his masculinity not subdue it :-) hahaha do you wear your work clothes to entice his, erm, manliness?

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 09/02/14 06:49 PM
When a woman says yes to dating a man is it a threat to the woman? Only if the guy is her blood relative.

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Tue 09/02/14 07:01 PM Edited by Rock on Tue 09/02/14 07:03 PM
When a woman says yes to dating a man is it a threat to the woman? Threat has many definitions, good and bad. If, the man is truly evil, it could be a threat to her wellbeing. If, there's a strong physical/sexual attraction between the man and woman, it could be a threat to her chastity. It could be a threat to do harm. It could be, he threatened her with a good time. Please clarify. Threat noun 1. a statement of an intention to inflict pain, injury, damage, or other hostile action on someone in retribution for something done or not done. 2. a person or thing likely to cause damage or danger. If a woman says yes to a man who happens to be in the same genre as Theodore Robert Bundy, it most certainly would be a threat to her safety. (For those who don't know, the name in the above paragraph, is Ted Bundy's full given name. The man for whom the term "serial killer" was coined.) The less extreme example I can think of; a wife saying yes to her beloved and trusted husband... In the second example, how does that put the woman in danger? Now, I may be rude, crude, socially unacceptable, krass, obtuse, and extremely vulgar at times. However, I am a feminist supporter nonetheless. I just don't get the broad brush approach to the question.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 09/02/14 08:22 PM
.. ok I need a little more popcorn.. . just stop the show.. I'll be right back... don't touch that dial..lmao..

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48938	Tue 09/02/14 08:31 PM


bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Tue 09/02/14 08:32 PM
lmao!!!...always makes me laugh!!! I'm actually still confused about the question, too. I'm a dork.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 09/02/14 08:40 PM
.. what took you so long..lmao..

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Tue 09/02/14 08:43 PM
No!...but you should always try make a good judgment on who you say yes too!

plastic_pancakes Joined Sun 10/18/09 Posts: 7399	Tue 09/02/14 11:25 PM


TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Wed 09/03/14 12:19 AM
It's like a little kid asking if there's a booger man.

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4932	Wed 09/03/14 01:30 AM
When a woman says yes to dating a man is it a threat to the woman? In a civilised society I would say no. However, society is not perfect, and there is an element of risk in all that we do, which includes dating. We can only minimise the risk, or any threat to our safety, by exercising our own judgement based on our experience and knowledge of the situation we are to place ourselves in.

HoneyFly Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 1962	Wed 09/03/14 04:54 AM
^ Hi Scrub ^ To answer the q : No, it's not a threat at all. It's only a threat if the woman changes her mind at the last minute.

sunday_souffle Joined Tue 09/02/14 Posts: 8	Wed 09/03/14 05:56 AM
LMAO! Louis C.K. FTW! I think you were the only person who understood the question. Perfect answer

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Wed 09/03/14 07:23 AM
<<<<<Thinks this was a dumb question in 1st place, for if she saw or thought she saw a threat, why agree to going out? There is no logical reason.

mysticalview21 Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 5462	Wed 09/03/14 04:42 PM Edited by mysticalview21 on Wed 09/03/14 04:47 PM
Ohhh.ohh..ohhhh.. where the heck is my popcorn bucket..lol.. . ok this calls for A ..Dr Pepper.. ..ok.. and my chair!! where's my chair!! .wtf.. forget the chair.!.. I'll sit on the grass..lmfao.. continue with the show please..lol.. here I share to lol really ...what the freak!

mysticalview21 Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 5462	Wed 09/03/14 04:49 PM
No!...but you should always try make a good judgment on who you say yes too! now that sounded like the most appropriate answer :.)

Serverousprime Joined Tue 08/05/14 Posts: 1502	Wed 09/03/14 06:42 PM Edited by Serverousprime on Wed 09/03/14 06:44 PM
When a woman says yes to dating a man is it a threat to the woman? this question goes two ways. without any other context for the question, going on a date could potentially be a threat to either party, man or woman, if the date turns out to be a stalker. men get stalkers too. the other way this question could be taken is if going on a date, is it a threat to the woman. Does the woman have emotional issues that impede an ordinary relationship? has she been beaten, molested or abused, where she then perceives all males as the aggressor? in that case, the threat is not from the external environment, but because she hasn't laid the demons to rest. Yeah I would say this is the best answer here, and makes the question actually make sense. When a woman says yes to dating a man is it a threat to the woman? Threat has many definitions, good and bad. If, the man is truly evil, it could be a threat to her wellbeing. If, there's a strong physical/sexual attraction between the man and woman, it could be a threat to her chastity. It could be a threat to do harm. It could be, he threatened her with a good time. Please clarify. Threat noun 1. a statement of an intention to inflict pain, injury, damage, or other hostile action on someone in retribution for something done or not done. 2. a person or thing likely to cause damage or danger. With this definition I can actually analyse your original question. No. For the most part the intention of a date isn't to inflict pain or cause a hostile action on someone. In some cases it does happen, and those who do are the ones that need therapy. As most dates don't end in damage or danger, the second definition doesn't hold. I know this is an extremely logical approach, but my mind is in math mode. I've been working on proofs and it can sometimes take some time for my mind to wind down to average co-brain existence. MMMM Brains, oops too far. So yeah, it's not dates that you have to worry about it's "Relationships". :D

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Wed 09/03/14 06:45 PM
When a woman says yes to dating a man is it a threat to the woman? any interaction with another human being introduces the potential for a threat but I don't think it becomes a significant threat just because that interaction is with a male,,,

vanaheim Joined Sun 12/29/13 Posts: 531	Thu 09/04/14 04:54 AM
If he's bleeding from the eyes, nose and mouth at the time it's a distinct possibility O_O