My boyfriend was in a bad marriage and we had a wonderful relationship over two years. Month and half ago he left his wife lives in an apartment. Now he want to live alone to figure out what he want and doesn't want to be in a relationship He saying he doesn't want to go back.What should i do? Give him space or what? Please don't criticize.
Thank you

Give him all the space and time he wants.
Don't call him. Wait till he wants to speak to you.
If you see him out with another woman, walk away. Don't bring it up.
He's fragile right now and doesn't need to be harped on about seeing other women.

Poor guy. Had two women. Lost one and now he has to process his loss.

THAT WOULD SEEM TO BE THE OBVIOUS THING TO DO SINCE ITS NOT YOUR DECISION TO MAKE--ITS HIS--GET REAL AND GROW UP

If he cheated on his wife with you,
odds are, he'll cheat on you with someone else.

Tis the way it works.

Consider it a lesson learned and move on.

there is nothing you can do. we can't control what others do and why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want you in their life?

Absolutely, And noboby said it better than the late great Ann Landers.

" IF you marry a man that cheats on his wife you will be married to a man that cheats on his wife

But if it was a bad marrage...and people are cohabitiding for convenience then that's different.

No, he is not a cheating type one. He ha to do this with me, because his wife is not cooperating with him. We separated few times. He went to family therapists and wife doesn't want to go. Before he moved out he tried again talked with her go to the doctor or therapist, her reply was don't trouble me, if your troubling asking what you want leave the home. That't why he left his wife,He didn't left her for me. She is giving her time fostering dogs and volunteering.We made a mistake and tried correct it. didn't work.

So he had an open marriage, that his wife didn't want? You are the part the wife didn't want.

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

You can not control anyone but yourself.

He is trying to clear his mind of both of you.

He probably needs time and space to find his feet again and to find order in all this chaos.
Chances are very high you were just someone to lean on while (and because) he was in a bad marriage.
Prepare for the worst. I doubt he'll come back to you, he'll find himself a new partner and start afresh.
And that's good for you, like what was said: you cannot trust a cheater.
Not what you'd hoped to hear, I feel for you, but time heals all wounds. At some point you'll find someone who's worthy of you.

As good ole dear Abby would say, "wake up and smell the coffee", he dumped his wife for you, now he's dumping you for someone else.
Don't be an idiot, run don't walk away from this loser.

Probably, Thats what he want, clear his mind. I am not chasing him.

We Brock up four times. He came back to me all the time saying that he can't forget me. My heart melted for him, because he is a such a nice person never hurt me even with a word past two and half years. May be your right. Thank you

No He didn't dumped his wife. When he try things work out (therapist ect) She asked him to move out.

You are right, Thank you

Exactly!

Give him all the space he needs and I might ask... it is ok for u to move on also being sarcastic ... or does he want u to just sit around and wait ... very hard I am sure you still love him but better to know now then later...