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Topic: Why some guys never get jealous?
dreamerana's photo
Fri 08/08/14 12:53 PM
when people are not jealous of their significant other it's probably because they have built trust and good communication.
at least that's what I have experienced

kc0003's photo
Fri 08/08/14 01:09 PM
speaking on this scenario, you could have just as easily not gone dancing and chosen to spend the time with him. what we do with our freedoms is up to us...

being jealous doesn't show how much one cares, it shows how insecure one is.

when someone hands you the freedom to do the things you like and be yourself, how can you view that as anything but positive? trust is a rope, if it finds its way around your neck, it is not the other persons fault, it's yours.



MariahsFantasy's photo
Fri 08/08/14 01:43 PM




I think it will be better if you ask him, right?

Im not with that guy anymore..im not with anyone..i was just wondering about the no jealousy thing in guys..

But did you asked him about it? I wonder what he said....

And I agree with Mariah.. :thumbsup:


Ya i did ask him..all he said was he trusts me..and then when we started growing apart, towards the end, he even said he knows it was atleast partly his fault for allowing me soo much freedom and all..


Well there's your answer. It bothered you, so stand up for yourself and say no, this is not what I want to do every time. And tell them how it makes you feel. Men should never push a woman to hang out with anybody if they doesn't truly want to.

Rina74's photo
Fri 08/08/14 01:53 PM
Well there's your answer. It bothered you, so stand up for yourself and say no, this is not what I want to do every time. And tell them how it makes you feel. Men should never push a woman to hang out with anybody if they doesn't truly want to.

Well he didnt push me to go out..he just let me cuz he knew how much i loved to go dancing..anyway, thanks for all your input..i appreciate it :)

Rina74's photo
Fri 08/08/14 01:55 PM

speaking on this scenario, you could have just as easily not gone dancing and chosen to spend the time with him. what we do with our freedoms is up to us...

being jealous doesn't show how much one cares, it shows how insecure one is.

when someone hands you the freedom to do the things you like and be yourself, how can you view that as anything but positive? trust is a rope, if it finds its way around your neck, it is not the other persons fault, it's yours.


Yes i see what your saying too..but its just me..i feel more cared about if a guy showed me he cares, like telling me not to go out so often for example..thats just me..giving me soo much freedom, makes me feel not cared about..

MariahsFantasy's photo
Fri 08/08/14 02:01 PM
Well he didnt push me to go out..he just let me cuz he knew how much i loved to go dancing..anyway, thanks for all your input..i appreciate it :)


That's good he didn't. The freedom to be yourself is always there. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean it's gone. Only you both know the reasons it fell apart.

I reckon the clubs in Canada look more like this


Rina74's photo
Fri 08/08/14 02:03 PM

Well he didnt push me to go out..he just let me cuz he knew how much i loved to go dancing..anyway, thanks for all your input..i appreciate it :)


That's good he didn't. The freedom to be yourself is always there. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean it's gone. Only you both know the reasons it fell apart.

I reckon the clubs in Canada look more like this




Lol very cute video...thanks :)

RainbowTrout's photo
Fri 08/08/14 02:10 PM
I had never got jealous of my ex because she had never gave me reason to distrust her. But later when I was infatuated with someone I was so jealous I couldn't help it.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Fri 08/08/14 02:13 PM
In case you want to know the difference between the words, here you go.

caring
displaying kindness and concern for others.

jealousy
resentment against a rival, or person enjoying success or advantage, or against another's success or advantage itself.

no photo
Fri 08/08/14 02:42 PM

speaking on this scenario, you could have just as easily not gone dancing and chosen to spend the time with him. what we do with our freedoms is up to us...

being jealous doesn't show how much one cares, it shows how insecure one is.

when someone hands you the freedom to do the things you like and be yourself, how can you view that as anything but positive? trust is a rope, if it finds its way around your neck, it is not the other persons fault, it's yours.





well said:thumbsup:

mikey5360's photo
Fri 08/08/14 03:28 PM
As you grow older petty emotions matter less and less, if you trust your partner.....emotions like jealousy fade away with your insecurities.

For me I discovered that shrugging of jealousy freed my mind to focus on loving more.

Rina74's photo
Fri 08/08/14 06:08 PM

As you grow older petty emotions matter less and less, if you trust your partner.....emotions like jealousy fade away with your insecurities.

For me I discovered that shrugging of jealousy freed my mind to focus on loving more.


That makes sense..and i heard it to be true, when u get older yes..i just might not be there yet lol..But i agree with u..

Rina74's photo
Fri 08/08/14 06:15 PM

I had never got jealous of my ex because she had never gave me reason to distrust her. But later when I was infatuated with someone I was so jealous I couldn't help it.


Thats true too..u should trust someone , when they havent given u a reason not to..Like that saying "innocent until proven guilty".

Rock's photo
Fri 08/08/14 07:51 PM
Jealousy is a game for the immature, and the insecure.

A 'loving and caring' spouse should have enough class and dignity,
to not play such games.

Rina74's photo
Fri 08/08/14 08:53 PM

Men are equally capable of jealousy .. Just manifests in a different way :-)


Ya, they are good at hiding it lol..

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