How do you get over being shy to talk to a beautiful woman without being
drunk??

Build up ur confidence....Shy is just a excuse.U dont like rejection is
what shy means...so what if u get rejected..the saying goes,if u dont
try,youll never know...

try it a bunch of times sober, you may be nervous the first couple times
but if you go through with it completely you will get over it.

It takes time. once you do it a few times you won't be shy at all.

You don't. Being shy wasnt a shopping option when you were in the
developmental stages. Lol. Just be yourself and confident, the rest
will just fall into place. Besides, you dont have to be the one that
makes the first move, just be sure you're not appearing stand offish.
Good luck.

DON'T GET DRUNK...GO BURN ONE WITH HER AND YOU WILL HAVE A FUNNY
TIME,GOOD TIMES....HAPPY TIMES....

lol fkn hippy

music and weed soothes th nerves...

OR it could just put you to sleep lol

just say hi and watch them shake

Stretch90568, I remember feeling that way when I used to dance, the way
I got through it, was practice, practice, practice. It's unfamiliar to
you so it's a little scary. Things we have'nt done before, at first we
feel uncomfortable, but after a while with practice, like I said, will
eventually feel like is thats what I was afraid of, it's nothing now.
Now, it will be familiar to you and now you will be able to help someone
else with the same thing. It's that just great! We live and learn, if
we're open to it. Just Green Eyes

think of it as a job, ok! it's part of your job to be friendly & greet
who ever comes around your or that you want to talk to. Even if you walk
past you make eye contact say Hi! maybe even coment on something, (nice
hair, trippy eyes,kewl song) anything that will get a responce back..
practice on other people even guys or couples so its safe ground at
first...

It is called the inner game, or mental makeover. There are lots of books
out there on dating, and or audio CDs which help you not change who you
are, but change how you see things. I can suggest a few of these so
called dating gurus. David Wygant has a really good book called always
talk to strangers, and evan marc katz has a good book on internet
dating. Both of these books you can get on amazon, and don't think of
these things like faults, but learning to use your unique gifts in a way
that is more attractive to the opposite sex. A few ideas I will give you
are to be more proactive in your social skills, have a positive self
image, remember that is is your journey not everyone elses so don't seek
reassurance from family or friends. Enjoy the adverture of dating,
knowing there is no pressure or time limit. Be comfortable with
yourself, and don't let fear stop you from what you want. Set goals,
relax, and pay attention to how people may percieve you.

Don't think of her as a beautiful woman that you want to take home with you. Think of her as just someone to talk to for a couple of minutes.

what is there to be afraid of? it's not like you have to cut off your finger and fedex it to your grandma if you get turned down.