Yes, you are young but age, to me, does not matter when you feel like you are ready for that someone special. And, yes, there are still decent girls left you just haven't found the one that fits you. It is good that you are so picky. Your chance for success in a relationship is that much greater. I can't tell you how many "frogs" I have dated but I am not about to settle for less than what I and my children deserve and neither should you! I know it is hard but do try to be patient.

Rx- good luck! being picky isn't a bad thing it shows you know what you want and going to wait for it. You will find who you're looking for just takes time.

Queene- I second you on that one!

But you're young bandit. You have plenty of time to save up your money for alimony.

I AGREE SASSY MOM

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I've learned, and this is coming from another young one, that when you're really just happy with yourself and NOT looking particularly then that's when the good one's show up. It's because as humans we look for people who have confidence and just love themselves. So my advice is to just hang out with some people, make friends on here and before you know it you'll be talking to a girl.

At least this is what I've experienced. Good luck!

Dude one of my freinds says "man, you need to settle down and get married. You don't know what your missing." I said "what am I missing? Divorce, child support, alimony, counselling? If I want to live in a cardboard box in the park I might just do that what's it called oh yeh marriage.

Alimony man!

Well, I'm not Young, and I dont care who ya are, It's tough to find a Nice girl....one who wants to have fun enjoy life be monogomas and take what life deals in stride. Man I wish that woman would just find me,and tell me I'm hers. the online dating things just takes Way Way too long.... Most men dont have the time or energy to be diddling with emailing back and forth for 6 weeks to find out that she likes cats....

Biker you have a really sad look at marriage and on having a lasting relationship

haha mac i like your view on things, sassy and lori have very good points to, maybe it is a good thing

When I was a little boy sitting on my grampas knee he said to me "grandson lemme tell you a little something. There will be a time when you are a little older. You will be with a lovely respectable young lady in a moment of passion. Before you stick your thingy in her I want you to ask yourself 'am I fully prepared to have my life completely and utterly destroyed by this person for the rest of my life?' If so proceed to stick it in. If you are not prepared don't under any circumstances stick it in." grampa was very wise.

yeah cuz we all know that women dont do stuff liek that cuz theyre the fair sex

greedy selfish twits the lot of ya!!!

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theres good gurlyz and bad gurlyz, (mostly bad)

and mac is right, u knowe that divorce courts always let guys get slaughtered, even if the wife was a slut or spent all his money wenever she got a chance on more clothes and makeup and shoes

im not getting married without a damn good prenup



and if she doesnt sign it then too bad no marriage for her

I think I'm gonna go find a nice Blues or Jazz pub, find a group of ladies together, then spot the one in the group that I want to get to know and wait for her to go to the restroom(they all go to the rest room) then walk over to the rest of the ladies get to know them a bit, and when she gets back to the group....I'm instantly introdused.....Budda Bing Budda Boom

im not losin half of wat i manage to earn and get i have to sum gold digging tramp

nice 1 mac i think i could use sum pointers from ya

i cant even manage a "hi"

amen....good luck 2 u,u will find someone...don't rush it.u never know when ur dating one of those girls u may find the one thats what dating is all about have fun.

to find a desent girl

go 4 hours west of Vancouver


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Nope. Got a great outlook on marriage and relationships. Just a rotten sense of humor. I'm not going to candy coat the subject and jump on the pity solicitation bandwagon. Oh but bandit you are young you will find someone. Uh uh. I'm going to have fun with it. Does anyone see the comments showing the differences between men and women? The women sound like hopeless romantics (nothing wrong with that) and the men are humorous realists (nothing wrong with that either).

u got a good sense of humor man!

i like to think i do too i love makin ppl laugh