Congrats newg78, you've been one of the luckier ones. :)

Darwin says,

"it is only natural to be selective"

easier for a girl to find

Define "decent"

Decent--

One who doesnt have a fine line between love and hate.

eventually that line will get crossed

Eh, I've never found it easy to find a decent guy, so I disagree that it's easier for girls.

“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket- safe, dark, motionless, airless--it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable.”

You are young yet, and going by your profile you have ambitions - concentrate on those and the right young lady will come along. One thing I have found is, we can have an idea of what we think we want and then suddenly someone comes along, nothing like we imagined and changes our outlook altogether.

Give it time, never give up!

oops forgot to mention the author of that quote: C S Lewis.

My advice to you is that normally girls your age want to play the field and that is perfectly fine. I had no desire for a relationship until after turning 23 because before that no one was taking me seriously. You have to put yourself out there more than women do because we get hit on sometimes when we really don't want to. If a girlfriend is what you want your search is going to be long and hard but at least when you do find her you will appreciate her knowing what you had to go through to get to her.

I agree with Katydid, but with a slight modification.

It is easier for a girl to find a guy than a guy to find a girl but most guys arn't decent and the ones who are tend to be in places like this looking for someone special.

As far as advice goes, relax enjoy life and let love come to you. Forced love is doomed from the start because it isn't truelly love.

people complain but to no apply themselves. I see one of two things you can do. You can either go out and hit up every girl you think is cute, and I mean get out of your house and walk the town, or go of town (I mean really, as this point, how bad do you really want it?). Or you can be patient, love yourself and let things happen.

lol random

Hey it's true. People are only really sick and tired when they are sick and tired of being sick and tired. At that point you decide wether to put up with it, or change something. Make a break through. You are the master of your own destiny, you have control and if you wanted it bad enough, you could make it happen.

Or try to respect everyone, and you will see, get to find a descent girl