Why is it that when I finally gave a guy my number on here he screwed me over? Even just as friends?

We talked once on the phone, after talking on the internet for about a week, then he "promised" that he wasn't just a guy to take a girl's number and not talk to her. Then, he never calls me back. He never has the decency to even tell me that we're not even going to talk as friends anymore.

I'm not trying to complain, it's just I know you guys will understand over anyone I tell in person.

But, I'm strong! I removed him from my friends and I'm not looking back! I hope it doesn't happen to all you wonderful women on here!!

Best of luck for me and all of you! :)

Oh and p.s. thanks for listening to me rant :)

Just don't give up hon, your beautiful and apparently he was blind.

hunt him down...take him to the shop...put his n**s in a vise...give him an axe...then light the shed on fire...lol

Sorry to tell ya this but thats how it goes with this online thing...ppl come and go!!Good luck with the next one!!

Thanks myrrdin! You're too nice, and Willy - sounds like a plan! lol!

thanks hawaii, I figured.. but it always seems the one you're talking to is "different"... people can be blind, huh? Oh, sweet emotions!

well it's a matter of not losing faith in the male population
not of all are like that
u seem sweet don't let him to break ur heart

maybe it was the thrill of the chase.....then he got bored when he "had" you.......

Yes..i was "blind" too many times...LOL..so i learned my lesson...

you're very welcome }B-)

well some times yes i have numbers but they eather have kidds or are working or i get bussy and i cant be on the phone 24/7 with some one i like it dose not mean im out trying to score every women on the plant its just some times we get bussy some times we need to step back and lets things take there corse i hat pushy women its a turn of for me ok enough said

Dang, if I was only lucky enough to meet some one as nice as you seem to be and get your phone number, I would call you.

I am not sure why that guy never bothered to call you after talking to you for a week.

But if it was me I would have at leasted called.

Oh well guess that's the differences between some guys and others guys.

If it is someone you are interested in, and care about, a person can make time. Even a few minutes of hello hope everything is well can make a huge difference in showing you care.

alls i can say jess, his loss bigtime.!!!

yo i all ways call at lest once so i can hear the voice and see whats up and hope it gose on but no luck it dont

I totally agree dean, I think people who badger people are annoying and it's totally understandable when someone is busy. It's sad because he told me that he would call me "today or tomorrow" and I waited both days. I then called him the day after, and he still hasn't talked/messaged/emailed me. This was three days ago.

And gypsy, I'd 100% believe it's about the chase. Some people just like knowing that they're liked or wanted by someone. Which makes it hard for us true people to find the "one".

And John, you will find someone nice, everyone does in the end :)

thanks hawk - you guys are too nice!

xo

Yeah your most likely right Jessicann.

I guess in due time.

I will never be able to understand that kind of behavior.

I mean, why are we here? ("Here," in the generic sense.)

I would like to think that there is an automatic, inherent assumption that these kinds of sites are, at the most basic level, designed to allow people to interact, to get to know each other, to talk, to listen, to make friends....and, if things go well, maybe even to meet in person at some point.

It seems fairly simple to me. "Dating site" implies at least the POSSIBILITY of dating, right?

But -- for some -- it seems more like a way to screw with other people.

It's sad, and pathetic, and totally counterintuitive -- but then, I suppose we're better off when we can identify these people and remove them from our lives....

Don't let it get you down. Not everyone is like that. There are some real people on here....