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Topic: Do you TAKE the chance, or not?
AthenaRose2 Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 6972	Fri 07/04/14 02:13 PM
You've had a hot, hot romance, broken up and moved on. Then you see each other again by chance, your eyes meet and you KNOW THAT LOOK... Do you take another chance, even possibly cheating on who you're with just to have one more taste? Thinking maybe you didn't know what you had until someone else has it now?

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Fri 07/04/14 02:16 PM
You've had a hot, hot romance, broken up and moved on. Then you see each other again by chance, your eyes meet and you KNOW THAT LOOK... Do you take another chance, even possibly cheating on who you're with just to have one more taste? Thinking maybe you didn't know what you had until someone else has it now? Are you a glutton for punishment?

Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Fri 07/04/14 02:24 PM
In the 10 Commandments, it says we can do this... Just ask for forgiveness afterwords and everything will be back to normal...

AthenaRose2 Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 6972	Fri 07/04/14 02:42 PM
You've had a hot, hot romance, broken up and moved on. Then you see each other again by chance, your eyes meet and you KNOW THAT LOOK... Do you take another chance, even possibly cheating on who you're with just to have one more taste? Thinking maybe you didn't know what you had until someone else has it now? Are you a glutton for punishment? This isn't about me... I'm happily single at the moment and haven't had a hot romance in many many years...

isaac_dede Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 10632	Fri 07/04/14 02:48 PM
no to the h e l l no! my ex wife tried saying at the beginning of our divorce "I think we are the type that after we split up we'll get back together later in life" my response "once it's over, im over you" don't care if the chemistry is good, Especially no if im with someone. I don't choose partners lightly so chances are the one im with has just as good if not better chemistry than my previous ex

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21824	Fri 07/04/14 02:48 PM
Nope, there's a reason she's outta my life.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Fri 07/04/14 02:52 PM Edited by no1phD on Fri 07/04/14 02:54 PM
no thank you.. if somebody else's is having it.. I definitely don't want it. whatever that might be..

Pinkbunny43 Joined Sun 05/12/13 Posts: 26547	Fri 07/04/14 02:53 PM
Hell no...I would rather do this

Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Fri 07/04/14 02:54 PM
Perhaps the new partner will want to join in with the old?

Pinkbunny43 Joined Sun 05/12/13 Posts: 26547	Fri 07/04/14 02:58 PM Edited by Pinkbunny43 on Fri 07/04/14 02:58 PM
Perhaps the new partner will want to join in with the old? No thank you ... he took a huge step down.

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Fri 07/04/14 03:10 PM
I did that a few times. BTW, breakups aren't always about screwing around. I filed for a divorce in 2007. Had a court date and all was in the works. I changed my mind. Now, it will be a small battle. IMO. not worth it.

Tryztan Joined Wed 08/14/13 Posts: 273	Fri 07/04/14 04:46 PM
Hell no. They are an EX for a reason. Having said that, I can be civil and friendly around them (depending on how things ended)

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 07/04/14 05:37 PM
Anybody thinking of doing this deserve what's coming to them.

HoneyFly Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 1962	Fri 07/04/14 05:42 PM
To second chances!

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Fri 07/04/14 05:46 PM
All I have to do is see the broken things; How my finances have improved and How I will never see Pepto-Bismol in the same way again. I mean who else drinks a Pepto-Bismol and Vodka mixed drink? A teaspoon of Pepto-Bismol helps the Vodka go down (sung to a teaspoon of sugar helps the medicine go down). You know pink used to be one of my favourite colours.

Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Fri 07/04/14 05:46 PM
Anybody thinking of doing this deserve what's coming to them. A good time?

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Fri 07/04/14 05:50 PM
No. I learn my lessons and think about them a great deal before making decisions like a break up. I was never one to want someone just because someone else has them, but I understand that attraction. especially NO if I am tempted to betray who I was currently with. [/quote^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^this^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 07/04/14 05:51 PM
Anybody thinking of doing this deserve what's coming to them. A good time? More or less.

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Fri 07/04/14 06:00 PM
If the passion was that hot and it didn't work out, there was a reason why. To go back would be to belittle your own self worth. To think of cheating on your partner means you don't value the person in your life.

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Fri 07/04/14 09:22 PM
If the passion was that hot and it didn't work out, there was a reason why. To go back would be to belittle your own self worth. To think of cheating on your partner means you don't value the person in your life. Bingo! Who would want to cheat on someone they have found who has value? To be tempted to go down the old path again shows you were not ready to move forward and are stuck in a rut!