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Topic: Can your friends TAP THAT too?
AthenaRose2 Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 6972	Mon 06/30/14 09:50 AM
Nobody has better access to our significant others than our friends. How do you deal with "in your face" flirtations between your partner and your friends? If "off limit" lines are crossed and your friend taps a piece of a$$ from your partner do you easily forgive them both? Seek revenge? Or move on from them entirely? To answer my own questions... Hell NO! if I'm really into the relationship I have with my partner that shiiit won't fly!!! To me it's a serious sign of disrespect if my girlfriends flirt with my man in front of my face, but its even more conniving if they try to get away with it behind my back. Then, if I catch them together in the act, or find out about it after the fact I'm SO DONE with the BOTH of THEM! I don't seek revenge other than to ultimately cut ties and move on to a better class of individuals I can trust and respect. I don't even get into guys who claim to love me but then at every opportunity they're talking to other women for nothing more than to get their attention. Or they're talking to other women about me to get their advice. To me, my man doesn't need to talk to any other woman besides me to figure out where I'm coming from with him. What I find really ballzzzeee is when women pretend to be my friend just to get information on me to run back and tell my man behind my back. To me a woman that stabs me in the back like this is no friend of mine, and again I cut ties. There are definitely lines I won't let others cross and I don't cross these same lines either. There. You gave my answer.

AthenaRose2 Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 6972	Mon 06/30/14 09:53 AM
I need to see how the man responds first to determine if I can trust him , sometimes its harmless fun. On the other hand I was faced with a situation where I just came out and said"are you two f...ing eachother your acting guilty you cant even look at eachother ...I trust my intuition he's in the past. So you're saying that its cool if your trusted galpal flirts a little just so you can see if your man will bite... and once you deduce he's a keeper then... Yeah, I hate that scenario when you're all together and the two of them go to great and obvious lengths to ignore each other, when just two weeks earlier they were good friends too. It's like WTF PEOPLE are you serious!!! Get on outta here with that two timin' crap... No its not cool not even really a test.just observing the situation . Gotcha!

1j9b6c5 Joined Wed 11/05/08 Posts: 3954	Mon 06/30/14 09:53 AM
Under these circumstances the only "tapping" allowed is double-tapping. Aha! I punned, or was that a double entendre?

AthenaRose2 Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 6972	Mon 06/30/14 09:56 AM
Under these circumstances the only "tapping" allowed is double-tapping. Aha! I punned, or was that a double entendre? Is that going back for seconds? Or tit for tat?

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Mon 06/30/14 09:57 AM Edited by Leigh2154 on Mon 06/30/14 09:58 AM
My friends can tap my guy on the shoulder anytime they feel like it...Move any further south on a regular basis and we are going to have a conversation about touchy feely ...All three of us...

1j9b6c5 Joined Wed 11/05/08 Posts: 3954	Mon 06/30/14 09:56 AM
I feel my guy can do what he likes in a relationship with me. He can flirt or do whatever else he wants with whoever , I don't control his life. But the real question is...Is that something I can accept? The answer will always be no....and if he's lucky, he'll get a break up at BK. Gotta love them whoppers... The men I always seem to gravitate toward have the same expectations to possess me, so I say turn about is fair play. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDUjeR01wnU

1j9b6c5 Joined Wed 11/05/08 Posts: 3954	Mon 06/30/14 09:59 AM
My friends can tap my guy on the shoulder anytime they feel like it...Move any further south on a regular basis and we are going to have a conversation about touchy feely ...All three of us... Awesome! Violent threesome.

1j9b6c5 Joined Wed 11/05/08 Posts: 3954	Mon 06/30/14 10:00 AM
Morning (((Leigh)))

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Mon 06/30/14 10:02 AM
My friends can tap my guy on the shoulder anytime they feel like it...Move any further south on a regular basis and we are going to have a conversation about touchy feely ...All three of us... Awesome! Violent threesome. Morning (((Leigh))) @ violent threesome... Morning ((((( J )))))

1j9b6c5 Joined Wed 11/05/08 Posts: 3954	Mon 06/30/14 10:06 AM
My friends can tap my guy on the shoulder anytime they feel like it...Move any further south on a regular basis and we are going to have a conversation about touchy feely ...All three of us... Awesome! Violent threesome. Morning (((Leigh))) @ violent threesome... Morning ((((( J ))))) @ violent threesome + =

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24709	Mon 06/30/14 10:07 AM
Hides in closet with camera.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45399	Mon 06/30/14 10:44 AM
Well, as you know, I am attached to the biggest flirt in the galaxy. However, 'absolute trust' are not just words. The feeling goes deep. No issue :-)

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Mon 06/30/14 10:45 AM
Hides in closet with camera. Just so you know, the closet door is remote controlled..

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24709	Mon 06/30/14 10:48 AM
so is the dild.........oh nvrmnd

1j9b6c5 Joined Wed 11/05/08 Posts: 3954	Mon 06/30/14 10:49 AM
Hides in closet with camera. Just so you know, the closet door is remote controlled.. Plus you're too late. She's already smoking a cigarette. Oh yeah, I'm da man!

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Mon 06/30/14 10:49 AM
Well, as you know, I am attached to the biggest flirt in the galaxy. However, 'absolute trust' are not just words. The feeling goes deep. No issue :-) :)

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24709	Mon 06/30/14 10:51 AM
Well, as you know, I am attached to the biggest flirt in the galaxy. However, 'absolute trust' are not just words. The feeling goes deep. No issue :-)

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Mon 06/30/14 10:57 AM
My friends wouldn't be my friends if those kinda thoughts crossed their minds. Also if she is flirting with someone else then i must not be the one for her so i'd move on from that relationship.

AthenaRose2 Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 6972	Mon 06/30/14 11:00 AM
I feel my guy can do what he likes in a relationship with me. He can flirt or do whatever else he wants with whoever , I don't control his life. But the real question is...Is that something I can accept? The answer will always be no....and if he's lucky, he'll get a break up at BK. Gotta love them whoppers... The men I always seem to gravitate toward have the same expectations to possess me, so I say turn about is fair play. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDUjeR01wnU Wow! That's a whole lotta don'ts. How endearing is that? Sounds like being single and free is the way to be...

AthenaRose2 Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 6972	Mon 06/30/14 11:02 AM
My friends can tap my guy on the shoulder anytime they feel like it...Move any further south on a regular basis and we are going to have a conversation about touchy feely ...All three of us... Sounds nice and friendly to me... until strike three...