How would you over come the fear of making a comitment with another
person?

faith, strong faith

When you find out let me know.

NOW THERE'S A GOOD QUESTION? I can tell you that this is my NOW life's
issue? After giving ALL my trust twice? They failed me, so look over
doubts? Forget past experience's?
It seem's like every woman I've ever met or been with, at some point
THEY want commitment and to trust them with your heart?
I think that alot of woman (and men) have different signal's in their
brains, or a opener sense of individuality than what I have? This I
think allow's partners the ability to cheat without feeling extreme
remorse for their action's? I don't think that THEY (HEART,SOUL,BODY,
and all feeling's) can fall as deep as the other one, and I do not know
if it is how they were raised, what they seen as young children, or just
a wheel in the brain that for them, Cannot make a complete turn in their
head? But I know that there are alot that will keep their feeling's of
100% from you? When I give, I give all? And to try not to is just
kidding my self? WHen these other's give they can only giv-up 80% and
THEY THINK? it's there 100%.
So im left with no 100% answer to this life's issue of the heart, SORRY?

Faith and praying

Newguy,
Love that person and take it one day at a time.....

agree with you EFP.....

Thanks, Morena

One day at a time...man..."NewGuy",,,you ask th tough one!
had to scratch my head a lil' on it...but when you Trust...
th fear will leave your mind...M.

I have to say I'm always faithful until you fuck up on me then it's on
and your out of here lol.

Lots of TRUST and take it one day at a time don't rush it. For if it is
the real thing you will know.

you never will until you do it

Take it slow darlin, you will know when the time is right to take it to
that level. To many people rush into things and have to many
expectations. Get to know the person and you will know when it feels
right. Good luck ~

well some folks like me have been alone so long that I don'know if I am
ready to commit to a relationship or just be commited.
but I am learning and this is all I can hope for these days.
is a tough one for suer,,,good luck!let us know?

i made a comittment with my last girlfriend but the doctor recomended it
after she was caught running naked through the neighborhood talking to
her breasts...my fault, i thought you meant committed

<---- Just shakes his head and smiles!

there is an argument to be made that they committed the wron one
lol...guess i got away with one lol. i still write her letters though.

You not only have to trust them but you have to learn to trust yourself.
When you said "you'll know" Tx how does one learn to trust that
instinct? I THOUGHT it was the real thing before and was proven wrong in
the end. Now I worry that I might be wrong again, not only in how they
feel about me but if I'm even right in how I THINK they feel about me.

The only way to find out is ask!

What I mean though is if you REALLY want to believe them you can be
blindsided by your own desire for it to be true. How does one learn to
trust oneself in that case because you can let your emotions dictate to
you what you believe is real and what isn't. And if you analyze it too
much you just seem indecisive and might blow it anyway. A vicious circle
of caution and incaution.