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@ rebelgeek Cheers that was wonderful speech  Cheers!
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Edited by
isaac_dede
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Here is the issue if you are fwb do you hold any allegiance to anyone other than your body parts...I believe not so you can acquire more fwbs which you can because you have no loyalty to anyone which leads to stds.....I'm not buying that it's a form of choice it's actually a form of lazy people trying to get other people in their team.... People that value relationships so much shouldn't get divorced either, they should stick through it thick and thin that way they can say they are living by their values.... But often the values of individuals are different, and some people may at some point have their values changed/altered/upgraded/downgrade/ or any other type of change, whether for better or for worse, and make a CHOICE on whether or not they want to live with those values it doesn't mean they are worth any less or more than the person sitting next to them that has different values than their own |
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Here is the issue if you are fwb do you hold any allegiance to anyone other than your body parts...I believe not so you can acquire more fwbs which you can because you have no loyalty to anyone which leads to stds.....I'm not buying that it's a form of choice it's actually a form of lazy people trying to get other people in their team.... People that value relationships so much shouldn't get divorced either, they should stick through it thick and thin that way they can say they are living by their values.... But often the values of individuals are different, and some people may at some point have their values changed/altered/upgraded/downgrade/ or any other type of change, whether for better or for worse, and make a CHOICE on whether or not they want to live with those values it doesn't mean they are worth any less or more than the person sitting next to them that has different values than their own Being in a married, so called monogamous relationship doesn't mean anyone has more or better values than another. There are married people who stay married for a variety of reasons that have nothing to do with maintaining a relationship and everything to do with maintaining appearances. Monogamy is not exclusive or sometimes even part of marriage and relationships. Being married or in a relationship lowers your risk but does not exclude people from std's. I have a friend who was married for ten years. Her husband was the only guy she ever had sexual relationship with. For all his preaching and holiness, he was cheating on her and she ended up with an std. Thankfully, it was the kind that can be treated. I have another friend who saw nothing but the worst side of marriage growing up and was also sexually and emotionally abused. She doesn't believe in marriage and shies away from commitment. Yet she had a fwb and they were monogamous to each other for at least four years. So in these two cases, who had the so called better morals and values? It's easy to judge what a person doesn't know. even though fwb is not for me, it's also not my place to condone or condemn. It's each person's individual choice and only they are the ones who are accountable for their own actions. |
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Here is the issue if you are fwb do you hold any allegiance to anyone other than your body parts...I believe not so you can acquire more fwbs which you can because you have no loyalty to anyone which leads to stds.....I'm not buying that it's a form of choice it's actually a form of lazy people trying to get other people in their team.... People that value relationships so much shouldn't get divorced either, they should stick through it thick and thin that way they can say they are living by their values.... But often the values of individuals are different, and some people may at some point have their values changed/altered/upgraded/downgrade/ or any other type of change, whether for better or for worse, and make a CHOICE on whether or not they want to live with those values it doesn't mean they are worth any less or more than the person sitting next to them that has different values than their own Being in a married, so called monogamous relationship doesn't mean anyone has more or better values than another. There are married people who stay married for a variety of reasons that have nothing to do with maintaining a relationship and everything to do with maintaining appearances. Monogamy is not exclusive or sometimes even part of marriage and relationships. Being married or in a relationship lowers your risk but does not exclude people from std's. I have a friend who was married for ten years. Her husband was the only guy she ever had sexual relationship with. For all his preaching and holiness, he was cheating on her and she ended up with an std. Thankfully, it was the kind that can be treated. I have another friend who saw nothing but the worst side of marriage growing up and was also sexually and emotionally abused. She doesn't believe in marriage and shies away from commitment. Yet she had a fwb and they were monogamous to each other for at least four years. So in these two cases, who had the so called better morals and values? It's easy to judge what a person doesn't know. even though fwb is not for me, it's also not my place to condone or condemn. It's each person's individual choice and only they are the ones who are accountable for their own actions. I completely agree, |
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Our society is built on self entitled people who lack moral judgment....this is what fwb is really about .. .
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This is situation hilarious.
One person who says her religion is "Christian - Other" favors FWB. Another person who says her religion is "Atheist" is opposed to FWB on moral grounds. It is like a person claiming to be a vegan is eating a steak, while another person claiming to be an anti-vegan is eating a salad.  |
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Our society is built on self entitled people who lack moral judgment....this is what fwb is really about .. . Spoken like a person who has no real argument and simply wants to be mightier than thou. News flash you aren't and if you actually paid attention most of us Are saying fwb is not our thing but instead of condemning we are defending their choice and their right. No one said you have to practice fwb no one even said you have to agree but you do need to show respect. As a once famous bunny said "If you can't say nuttin nice don't say Nuttin at all" |
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Folks, this thread has obviously ran its course.
Some people aren't opposed to FWB because it doesn't conflict with the set of morals that they strive to live by. Some people are opposed to FWB because it does conflict with the set of morals that they strive to live by. Granted, what people say about their morals doesn't necessarily match what they do. Now, instead of continuing this bickering ...  ... how about we all go over to Zee's Pub and settle this over a pint. |
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9 out of 10 surgeons say that vegan women actually DO love meat....errrr....I mean FWB's.
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This is situation hilarious. One person who says her religion is "Christian - Other" favors FWB. Another person who says her religion is "Atheist" is opposed to FWB on moral grounds. It is like a person claiming to be a vegan is eating a steak, while another person claiming to be an anti-vegan is eating a salad. May I point out 2 things. 1: a true Christian knows only god can judge and if he/she judges another human they are sinning. 2: it says Christian-OTHER emphasis on the OTHER part.... here's what I was taught. Christian is not a specific religion it is simply a person who believes in an almighty god and Jesus. |
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9 out of 10 surgeons say that vegan women actually DO love meat....errrr....I mean FWB's.
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This is situation hilarious. One person who says her religion is "Christian - Other" favors FWB. Another person who says her religion is "Atheist" is opposed to FWB on moral grounds. It is like a person claiming to be a vegan is eating a steak, while another person claiming to be an anti-vegan is eating a salad. May I point out 2 things. 1: a true Christian knows only god can judge and if he/she judges another human they are sinning. 2: it says Christian-OTHER emphasis on the OTHER part.... here's what I was taught. Christian is not a specific religion it is simply a person who believes in an almighty god and Jesus.  I fully disagree with you, but this forum is the wrong forum for me to elaborate as to why.
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Sat 06/28/14 09:05 AM
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This is situation hilarious. One person who says her religion is "Christian - Other" favors FWB. Another person who says her religion is "Atheist" is opposed to FWB on moral grounds. It is like a person claiming to be a vegan is eating a steak, while another person claiming to be an anti-vegan is eating a salad. May I point out 2 things. 1: a true Christian knows only god can judge and if he/she judges another human they are sinning. 2: it says Christian-OTHER emphasis on the OTHER part.... here's what I was taught. Christian is not a specific religion it is simply a person who believes in an almighty god and Jesus. the ONLY thing you have to do to be a Christian is accept that Jesus is your savior and the chosen son of god and be baptised as a public declaration in his name ( I think St Peter would waive even that if there was no one to baptise present)....that's it. the rest is all a matter of ones particular leaning within that faith.   sorry oh BTW - loved the vegan / steak analogy....I will never look at sex the same way again lol 
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This is situation hilarious. One person who says her religion is "Christian - Other" favors FWB. Another person who says her religion is "Atheist" is opposed to FWB on moral grounds. It is like a person claiming to be a vegan is eating a steak, while another person claiming to be an anti-vegan is eating a salad. May I point out 2 things. 1: a true Christian knows only god can judge and if he/she judges another human they are sinning. 2: it says Christian-OTHER emphasis on the OTHER part.... here's what I was taught. Christian is not a specific religion it is simply a person who believes in an almighty god and Jesus. the ONLY thing you have to do to be a Christian is accept that Jesus is your savior and the chosen son of god and be baptised as a public declaration in his name ( I think St Peter would waive even that if there was no one to baptise present)....that's it. the rest is all a matter of ones particular leaning within that faith. sorry oh BTW - loved the vegan / steak analogy....I will never look at sex the same way again lol Again, this forum is not the right forum to go into specific details about any faith. A debate about the particulars of the Christian faith should take place in the Christian Singles forum. |
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9 out of 10 surgeons say that vegan women actually DO love meat....errrr....I mean FWB's. years of repression caught up with them 
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Faith has absolutely nothing to do with FWB.
Always the same crap being spewed over & over. As if their learnt methods should be everyones gospel... pffft  Horsechit!
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Morality has nothing to do with religion...I'm an atheist but I know what is right or wrong....You may disagree with me about fwb but in the end what I say is right.....
If one of can tell me the success rate of these so called fake relationships then I will stfu......
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You may disagree with me about fwb but in the end what I say is right..... If one of can tell me the success rate of these so called fake relationships then I will stfu...... Wait! What? I'm positive you're not trying to say that if we have a different opinion than yours we're wrong... right? 
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You may disagree with me about fwb but in the end what I say is right..... If one of can tell me the success rate of these so called fake relationships then I will stfu...... Wait! What? I'm positive you're not trying to say that if we have a different opinion than yours we're wrong... right? Same difference... |
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