Topic: FWB
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Thu 06/26/14 08:56 PM
Wait you have sex with your wife that's just called a marriage........:laughing: :laughing:

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Thu 06/26/14 08:57 PM



it takes two to tango.. it is not a one way street.. plenty of women. what
fwb..


What's the success rate on that.....


I was also wondering which plenty of women he was referring to? I think it's important for guys to remember too, that they could lose out on some really good women with this nonsense (and vice versa)


This is a sure fire way to catch the crabs.......:laughing:

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Thu 06/26/14 09:04 PM


Wait you have sex with your wife that's just called a marriage........:laughing: :laughing:



My late wife and I had a great sex life together. bigsmile


Awww that's sweet.........flowers

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Thu 06/26/14 09:06 PM

Wait you have sex with your wife that's just called a marriage........:laughing: :laughing:



My late wife and I had a great sex life together. bigsmile

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Thu 06/26/14 09:15 PM
sweet girl What nonsense are you referring to..?...
. 2 consenting adults having sex.wow.
. and I know plenty of men.
. that have.fwb.. so it takes two to tango.. ie plenty of women..
. there are. friends with benefits.
and then there are hos with benefits

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Thu 06/26/14 09:20 PM

sweet girl What nonsense are you referring to..?...
. 2 consenting adults having sex.wow.
. and I know plenty of men.
. that have.fwb.. so it takes two to tango.. ie plenty of women..
. there are. friends with benefits.
and then there are hos with benefits



Neither sounds beneficial.....it's just people who are emotionally unavailable trying to get an easy fix.....I have never had to stoop to that manner....men are and always been easy to obtain.....using a logo as fwb just states that people aren't willing to put out the effort in knowing others....I'm old school and will never change....the amazing part of looking for a SO. is going through the terrain called dating and letting nature take it's course....I don't want to skip any steps for another's convenience ......

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Thu 06/26/14 09:21 PM
god forbid you have sex with somebody and don't marry them.
our move in together.... pull yourself out of the 60's..omg..lmao

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Thu 06/26/14 09:24 PM

god forbid you have sex with somebody and don't marry them.
our move in together.... pull yourself out of the 60's..omg..lmao


whoa

God forbid individuals having standards that work for them.

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Thu 06/26/14 09:27 PM
I come from an African family....my parents have been together for 40 years ....my uncles and aunts have all been married and no divorces I believe in morals and values.....I also value my body and I won't give it to a man who doesn't value me,...that's one thing about fathers if they a great father to their girls they teach their girls to respect themselves and not let any man dupe you into believing in such rhetoric as fwb.....I'm too valuable and too strong for that......period....

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Thu 06/26/14 09:30 PM

I come from an African family....my parents have been together for 40 years ....my uncles and aunts have all been married and no divorces I believe in morals and values.....I also value my body and I won't give it to a man who doesn't value me,...that's one thing about fathers if they a great father to their girls they teach their girls to respect themselves and not let any man dupe you into believing in such rhetoric as fwb.....I'm too valuable and too strong for that......period....


:thumbsup:

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Thu 06/26/14 09:37 PM
Edited by Dodo_David on Thu 06/26/14 09:37 PM
Each person responds to the FWB question according to that person's standards for judging right and wrong.

I am not telling others here to judge according to my own standards.
My standards are for me. Your standards are for you.

ltlwing's photo
Thu 06/26/14 09:41 PM
I call it settling till something better comes along.I prefer being alone,rather than being someones...PTM....play thing momentarily!

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Thu 06/26/14 09:45 PM
exactly individuals their own standards!!!..
. you have a wife you have a husband.
you are both friends..
you work nights she works days.
you never see each other..
except on weekends..
you have sex or make love..
sounds like friends with benefits to me...lol..... well apparently..
. some are confusing.. hooking up!..
with friends with benefits..hmm.
just my individual opinion..lmao.

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Thu 06/26/14 09:47 PM

exactly individuals their own standards!!!..


Well, it sure is wrong to ridicule any single adult for having the desire to refrain from sex outside of marriage.

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Thu 06/26/14 09:57 PM
same thing.. but for having sex..lol

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Thu 06/26/14 09:58 PM


I think the point is why end up in a situation that will eventually lead to one catching feelings......women have emotional sex it's our nature so regardless of what you may think a woman will interpret it different....


As for me I value myself to know that in that type of relationship I don't thrive in ....I like myself too much to cheapen myself to some fwb thingi......and really fwb is just a cop out of not putting in the work and effort....it's for the lazy and emotionally unavailable......nothing about it is positive.....


Gee, I thought it was for men who want free prostitutes.
There is much about you Humans that I still don't understand.


Isn't it also wrong to ridicule single adults for having the desire to have sex outside of marriage.
What did I read earlier about hypocrits?:wink:

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Thu 06/26/14 10:43 PM
Fwb....
Sex without responsibility.
A personal choice for those who choose to. No choices for the often unwanted babies that can create.

I often think people who post some of these questions are looking for ideas to justify a choice already made before putting the question out there.
I skimmed through several of the posts on here and there are a variety of ideas.
Some talk religion. Others morals or values. Others are free thinking. We can all say what we would or wouldn't do in order to impress others. Nobody knows what goes on in a person's life in the outside world.
In the end, the people who choose to have fwb or not are the only ones who have to live with the outcomes of their choices.

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Thu 06/26/14 11:02 PM
Edited by isaac_dede on Thu 06/26/14 11:03 PM
i don't think i'd consider someone 'stooping' to any level, in a FWB situation, i would rather think they know what they want, and they are ok with getting that, regardless of what society thinks about it.

It use to be common practice that men had a wife and many concubines as well, but they were supposedly given close to the same respect as the wife/wives but i wasn't living then.

i think fwb is just this generations version of concubine, some may attach a negative connotation to that word, but other's may not.
If the woman and man have no problem with it, then i see no problem either.


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Thu 06/26/14 11:36 PM
Edited by no1phD on Thu 06/26/14 11:38 PM
so is there more than one..fwb..?
. what I am gathering is.
that there is..#1 the get off on each other.. and that's it..fwb
there is #2the man or woman..
cheating with somebody..fwb
and then there is..#3 two single people that just enjoy each others company..fwb
....
.. are there any other types?.....
. I am always referring to..#3.fwb
.. I am truly naive. in this dating world.lol

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Thu 06/26/14 11:55 PM
Lol what a mess....:laughing: