WHY IS IT THAT MEN (YOUNGER) THINK THAT OLDER WOMEN ARE MEAN TO THEM AND THEN GET NASTY WITH US?

I'm sorry to hear that...

I haven't had that happen to me and if it did I didn't pay attention to it...

on alot of the post is what I am talking about and in some IM's they think we should bow down to them or something

Don't let them ruin your Spirit Doll...

i think older women ROCK!!! but am not young either 40<<<<

Older women have always been wonderful to me. The two people I get along with best at work are two women, both older than me. Sometimes, I do feel sorry for them trying to keep me in line. They are two of the best friends I have right now .

honestly i rather have a older women but thats just me.. they can better understand me

lady...

I used to get IM's from younger men. I don't even bother anymore. You can always change your setting...and BLOCK them so that they NO longer bother you. That's what I would do. Don't EVER let them bother you...the bottom line is...it's NOT worth it.

Hey stevil you can bother me any time.

Hi My Friend...Ladynluv2be


Well, in alll truthfulness , I have found...
That SOME , (not all mind you)
don't get your feathers ruffled
any one of my younger Male friends
who have been so mature and respectful
This is not directed at you...


This is intended not towards anyone in particular,
because I don't want to step on any toes,
but if the shoe fits...wear it.....


We all can be immature at times...
I am not perfect...
Shall I engrave that in stone....

It's just that some younger men
are extremely immature, insecure
and have very flimsy egg-shell egos
and can't handle NO for an answer...

I hear guys telling me all the time that age doesn't matter ...

Maybe with their limited life experience & mentality it doesn't.

but we older women and men know better...
especially when we have kids older
than the young men wanting to date us....

I don't need or want a boy toy...

And I have enough kids and grandkids
who rightfully call me Mom and Mommy

I'm not here to be someone's older woman fantasy
or teach some youngster how to make love....sheesh

or how to be a full on real decent person or impart any of the things that have taken me a lifetime of experience to learn...

WE all need to go down our own road
of hard knocks and learn life all on our own... :


so, they need to get over themselves....

and quit trying to blame us
for their forever adolescence ...

I am here to be so much more than
somebody's older woman fantasy

AMEN!AMEN!AMEN!AMEN!

hi Rapunzel

nice wording & well put

charles

Never had that problem.
The youngins in here have been very polite to me...

Well put Rapunzel!!

Thank you .....thank you...... thank you.....


Wher is the curtsy emoticon

The Feisty

(but ohhh, so often right on)

"tigress of righteousness "

I have no problem with younger men. They proposition me then they sober up and realize that "hey this longhair character is a guy". Then they hide for a few days because they don't want anyone to know they were hitting on a guy. Read the profile retard: says MALE. Means penis, facial hair.

that was too funny LHB. I had one very nice young man want to get to know me better, but I was not comfortable with our age difference. But he was always very polite to me when we talked on the phone. I will always consider him a friend. Very good job Rapunzel, well put

frequently have ladies in the 20 to 35 year age group write me, I am flattered to say the least, but I just don't see myself going there after all what I want is a partner for the rest of my life. I know these young ones are not it, they would soon get bored and start straying.

I haven't had a problem on this site, but in the past I have gotten a lot of "oh I just LOVE older women"..

Most of them wouldn't know what to do with us once they got us!

Most tell me they want some one who is experienced and can teach them a few things. LOL learn like I did