why is it I message someone but they never reply to me or no one evan talks to me

Problem=inattention.
Fix=forums, that is what they are here for :-)

No response IS a response...so pick yourself up...dust yourself off...& start all over again...

Just do what I do, talk to yourself.
The really strange thing is, I sometimes disagree with myself.

Make-up sex.
All I'm saying'...

Here is a possibility:
Your profile says, ""Looking for new fren", and nobody knows what a "fren" is.

Been down that road MANY times in my life. You just have to keep trying!

Don't be jealous that the voices talk to me.

PUPPIES!!!!

A puppy was born this morning

I'll go with this

It's because it's the internet and it's just easy to ignore people without feeling that it's rude. I saw a thing about it on TV the other night where they went out on the street and told random people to do a sort of mutual matching thing like they have on these sites but it was face to face and the people doing it did feel a bit bad when they said no to someone that said yes to them.

Welcome to the twenty first century and online dating where people can trot out platitudes like, "No reply is a reply" without thinking that it's rude or antisocial.

Among popular gals its not tenable to respond to four to seven hundred men a day to reject them. Not being able to accept that people only choose to respond is part of this process so if you are not comfortable with your perceived rejection you can a) ignore this advice, b) get a counselor and work through rejection issues, c) accept others non response d) whine more on the forums for convoluted feedback such as this and obviously others too!!! The internet dating scene is not for the passive, vulnerable or socially inept as others will prevail...

I think this is a common issue on these dating sites.

it is called parameters..
. must be local.
must not smoke.
must be a certain age.
must be a certain sex.
if you do not fit in any of these..
what would be the meaning of responding to your message..
just to tell you I don't want to respond to your message...hmm
so by not responding.. you can assume... the person does not wish to engage in conversation.. with you..
. try not to take it personal ...
. you are a square peg.
that will never fit into their round hole..hmm.. that's slightly turned me on a bit..
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No worries your just in a slump, maybe add a little information about yourself on your profile and keep posting on the forums. Your comments and views may draw someone with similar interests.Good luck to you sir.

Do what I do; ask to see their boobs. That's sure to get some kind of reply, even if it's no reply at all.

Great comments. I agree with them all. Very funny!
Here's a worse situation than yours - when you do receive lots of responses, get chatting with people, and then they just stop...huh:

I do understand where you're coming from, but apparently you haven't been on the receiving end of hateful, raging emails after POLITELY replying with something to the extent of "Thank you for your interest but after reading your profile, I really don't think we have anything in common"... I am absolutely positive that I'm not the only person who has received such "fan mail"...so perhaps you can instruct some of us on how to reply politely so that we don't have to "trot out platitudes like 'No reply is a reply' without thinking that it's rude or antisocial". I/We await your wisdom...

Remember the sales tatic, for every seven no's you'll get a yes. Remember the no's are just a step closer to yes.