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Topic: you're disappointed in the.." bedroom"
no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 06/02/14 08:53 PM Edited by no1phD on Mon 06/02/14 08:56 PM
okay you have now gone on more than three dates.. you have gotten to know them.. and you like them. . you're starting to let yourself think. Hmm.. could this be..the.1. . but they disappoint you in the bedroom.. now what do you do???

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Mon 06/02/14 08:59 PM Edited by kc0003 on Mon 06/02/14 09:03 PM
practice makes perfect! ok, ok, if you really felt that way before than perhaps it is worth testing the waters again. could be many reasons the first time was less than great.

pkh Joined Sat 05/26/07 Posts: 14961	Mon 06/02/14 08:59 PM
I don't even know how to answer that, it would really suck if you thought it was the one and you didn't connect there, good question have to come back for this one. ...I di know you stay you figure it out somehow

AlienSleeperCell Joined Mon 02/17/14 Posts: 51	Mon 06/02/14 08:59 PM
throw them to the lions or have them beheaded... jk

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 06/02/14 09:00 PM
practice makes perfect! .. okay you've practiced a few times now.. but you're still disappointed..hmm

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45403	Mon 06/02/14 09:05 PM
practice makes perfect! .. okay you've practiced a few times now.. but you're still disappointed..hmm If one could not teach them, to be better, what does that say about you?

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Mon 06/02/14 09:08 PM


Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Mon 06/02/14 09:08 PM
practice makes perfect! .. okay you've practiced a few times now.. but you're still disappointed..hmm If one could not teach them, to be better, what does that say about you? You took the words right outta my mouth, sistah! If one or both aren't willing to express their desires & to really listen...chances are they're hardly "The One"...

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 06/02/14 09:11 PM
practice makes perfect! .. okay you've practiced a few times now.. but you're still disappointed..hmm If one could not teach them, to be better, what does that say about you? .. well one might say.. it is hard to teach an old dog new tricks.. ... but seriously .. so you would take the time to try to teach them.. and if they're not a good student..hmm.. they don't follow instructions well... r do their homework... .

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Mon 06/02/14 09:12 PM


soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45403	Mon 06/02/14 09:19 PM
well one might say.. it is hard to teach an old dog new tricks.. ... but seriously .. so you would take the time to try to teach them.. and if they're not a good student..hmm.. they don't follow instructions well... r do their homework... . Of course I would teach them, if I loved them. Though, I might hold them back a year or two :-)

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Mon 06/02/14 09:25 PM
Try more foreplay. Erotic massage, for example. A woman cannot have good sex unless she is relaxed, and aroused at the same time.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 06/02/14 09:33 PM
well one might say.. it is hard to teach an old dog new tricks.. ... but seriously .. so you would take the time to try to teach them.. and if they're not a good student..hmm.. they don't follow instructions well... r do their homework... . Of course I would teach them, if I loved them. Though, I might hold them back a year or two :-). ..

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Mon 06/02/14 09:41 PM
If all else fails

Ladythelma Joined Sat 03/22/14 Posts: 596	Mon 06/02/14 10:02 PM
Try more foreplay. Erotic massage, for example. A woman cannot have good sex unless she is relaxed, and aroused at the same time. good one

Argo Joined Mon 11/11/13 Posts: 12416	Tue 06/03/14 12:05 AM
oh, so thats why all that rope was coiled up in the game-room...~uh huh

BrandNewJourney Joined Tue 02/25/14 Posts: 6055	Tue 06/03/14 12:25 AM
. well one might say.. it is hard to teach an old dog new tricks.. ... but seriously .. so you would take the time to try to teach them.. and if they're not a good student..hmm.. they don't follow instructions well... r do their homework... . There is homework involved Seriously this comes to mind.... How will I know if you don't tell me? This also comes to mind.... 20 years of sexual frustration! If no communication exists in the most intimate moments is there communication at other moments? Express your concerns clearly even if you have to paint a picture. Tell her what you desire and ask her what she desires.

HoneyFly Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 1962	Tue 06/03/14 12:27 AM
well one might say.. it is hard to teach an old dog new tricks.. ... but seriously .. so you would take the time to try to teach them.. and if they're not a good student..hmm.. they don't follow instructions well... r do their homework... . If she says : "My dog ate my homework!" Ask her what's his name.

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Tue 06/03/14 12:46 AM
Communicate your concerns, a lack of this will come back to haunt in years to come.

AthenaRose2 Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 6972	Tue 06/03/14 12:52 AM
okay .. you like them. . you're starting to let yourself think. Hmm.. could this be..the.1. . but they disappoint you in the bedroom.. now what do you do??? move on to the next candidate... if at first you don't succeed...