Topic: Relationship between younger men and older women (cougars, m
marcusitaly78's photo
Sun 05/25/14 05:09 AM
I'd like to talk about relationship between younger men and older women.
They are called sometimes cougars, milfs etc.
What you think about that?
You already tried an did you like it?
personally i like Only to date older women.
let us know what you think!

pkh's photo
Sun 05/25/14 06:09 AM
I think younger men enjoy being with older women because we know what we want, we have experience in pleasing and are better lovers dont play mind games,were just more sexy and more mature. But falling in love with someone 20 years older I don't see that happening to many differences

lukay456's photo
Sun 05/25/14 06:30 AM
As much as i'd like to be in a relationship with an older woman, i have never been lucky to be with one. It is quite obvious that older women are more romantic,sexy, confident, independent and trustworthy. Perharps it is because they have more experience in relationship issues. They simply know how to make a man feel loved.

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Sun 05/25/14 07:57 AM

I think that when you are at the point of defining a 'population/group' as the interest for a relationship, you are actually just trying to get experience rather than being in a real and lasting/loving relationship.

I think if you are simply in love with someone in a different age range than your own, then, great. Go out and love who you love. Not fetishize them.


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Sun 05/25/14 08:08 AM

As much as i'd like to be in a relationship with an older woman, i have never been lucky to be with one. It is quite obvious that older women are more romantic,sexy, confident, independent and trustworthy. Perharps it is because they have more experience in relationship issues. They simply know how to make a man feel loved.


well, I know I do not take things for granted now like I did when I was younger. that sounds like part of what you are referring to. IDK if that's true for ALL older women tho'

like KLC said no group can be painted with the same broad brush. we are individuals, thank you

SeekforBride's photo
Sun 05/25/14 12:52 PM

I'd like to talk about relationship between younger men and older women.
They are called sometimes cougars, milfs etc.
What you think about that?
You already tried an did you like it?
personally i like Only to date older women.
let us know what you think!


Well, while I am approaching 50 years of age, I still get older women interested in me. Why? My hair! I have had grey hair since age 18 but slowly changed from dark brown hair to grey hair I have today in past 31 years. I had my first much OLDER woman as part of a blind date. I was 20 and she was 35! We only met once and that was it. Nothing happened. Just a dinner and a movie at the time.

Many women ever since that age thought I was 35 or 45 when I was 18 to about 30. Then age increased as I got older. Say age, 40, I was 50, etc. About 10 years older.

Never mind about dying. I tried that once because the younger ones wanted me to do that. It caused me headaches and allergy to the dye.. So, out it went 8 months later when I was 31 or 32. The older ones was disappointed that I dyed my hair but they were glad that I have grey hair back. The younger ones were disappointed.

When I was 23, at church, my brother told me about the ladies' feelings about me and they thought I was his father, not brother! My brother is 3 years younger than me! They thought I was 35 or 45.. So, I asked others outside of church, results were the same.

I tried to get my age or younger to wed to start a family but no. Because of appearance and women judged me, they are the ones lost out. But I was lost out too because to this day I STILL do NOT have children!

I did get married at age 40 because I gave up looking for my age and married an older woman who could NOT have children. However, I am divorced, I still like to have children.

Sorry for somewhat of a rant but appearances apparently are what women want these days so.. you know what? My advantage is to see how women judged me (and all other guys they do not want). They can not have my house, my money, my children, my trips, my memories, my future wedding, my this or that.. Too bad!

Now, only women are available to like me seemly to be Filipinas. They do not look for that. I know maybe many do want to come to the US however, there is one who does not want to come to the US. She is the one I think has good potential and she is merely 31 years old! And no, I did not find her on here, I found her in another site.

We will wait and see.. not officially gf-bf stuff. Just started to talk.. I am happy with that!! I never really wanted older woman. I never went beyond having a relationship except for my ex-wife. That is all.

By having said this, I am already perhaps blacklisted by women. Hahaha. Who cares!!

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sun 05/25/14 05:12 PM
Just read what the guy above me said, about some women found his grey hair hot. I think some men can pull it off. I think a certain british tv host (Phillip Schofield) looks quite hot with grey hair. And a few others. And I agree with KLC.

markc48's photo
Sun 05/25/14 07:53 PM
And so it goes the young guys date the old ladies for their money. And the young girls date the older guys for their money.
So what's new.

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 05/25/14 08:03 PM
I date for the *******

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 05/25/14 08:04 PM
laugh ^^^^^.....actually just put the "******" up there cause this subject bores me.:tongue:

dazdaza's photo
Sun 05/25/14 08:07 PM
Leeds uk anyone

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sun 05/25/14 09:26 PM
Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

dcastelmissy's photo
Sun 05/25/14 09:36 PM

And so it goes the young guys date the old ladies for their money. And the young girls date the older guys for their money.
So what's new.


I had an ongoing relationship with someone 9 1'2 years younger than me and money never ever came into the equation....so my guess, is it might be the case in some instances, but certainly not in all. Besides, aren't you the one who has so many girlfriends whom you use for ___? By your own admission by the way.

marcusitaly78's photo
Mon 05/26/14 09:16 AM
I think money doesn't count at all in that.
i think the most charming is that matures know what they want and they know what to do. Without filters or taboo

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Sat 05/31/14 02:42 AM
To me age difference is not a barrier in love,i can date any woman that i love irrespective of age(don't get me wrong not under age girls pls)

rajazz's photo
Sat 05/31/14 08:30 PM
Age is just a number ..,

Ejien's photo
Sun 06/01/14 03:17 AM
Age doesn't matter as long as there is love with each other.

anyscity2000's photo
Sun 06/01/14 05:27 AM
Age doesn't really matter. Some people believe older women don't give. You much stress like the younger girls do. And vice versa

UzBangs's photo
Sun 06/01/14 11:23 AM
dating older women/men is not a bad thing..
the thing is i fear to approch older women...
Because i feel so shy to do it...

Angeltripping17's photo
Sun 06/01/14 11:49 AM
I've been married twice both younger men. First 5 years second 8 years younger. It was never a conscious thought to do that I was attracted to them and vice versa. I think if you love them and they love you...age is just a number.