Guys and gals, what would be your dream date. Where to go, what to do. What would make it memorable?

short-story form.........dinner, entertainment, nightcap and then back to my place....

i'm sure there will be a tome or two to follow...

Moonlit beach, soft breeze, and what sweetness the night brings

lovely

For a first date just something simple, maybe dinner and conversation to see if we click and go from there

My dream date would be to meet somewhere neutral, restaurant of caf� for a cappuccino and nice afternoon, chit chat etc.
Getting there, we looking each other in the eyezz and Wow! It's him! The one I've been hoping to find! And it's mutual, he feels the same way. Magic and sparks! I can see him thinking "It's her!"
We really click, enjoy each other's company so much that we have lots of drinks while we talk, look each other in the eyes, go for a romantic walk, later on have dinner in a nice, cozy restaurant and we say good-bye for the night with a wonderful, loving kiss that turns passionate. He gently lets go of me, says goodnight, walks to his car. I open the door, turn around to wave goodbye, butterflies in our tums, impatient to meet each other again and take it from there ...

That would be my dream-date!

Was going to say there that I don't really care where it is but that might avoid the problem of having to spend all day cleaning my house like I did the last time I invited a woman back here.

In the past all of my best first dates have been very informal. I told you before about going for a walk in the park and then back to my place for a game of pool. It's not that I'm cheap but going out to dinner and stuff like that tends to be more fun or romantic with someone that I've been seeing for a while. So is going to the cinema or going to see a band I think. For a more outdoorsy sort of date there are some nice beaches here on the east coast or we could go up the hills. I do quite like the idea of taking someone to the village where I grew up and going for a walk through the nature reserve to the beach which is quite quiet there and gays actually go there, so it wouldn't really bother anybody if I took a woman there for hanky panky.

Hummm a nice motorcycle ride grab a bite to eat on the way could be burgers I don't care take them to go find a place by the lake to sit and talk... Lots of talking and laughter is what makes me happy....end it with a kiss that will keep you coming back for more...

It would be memorable if my date didn't try to turn me in for the reward money.











Oh, wait. Did I say that out loud?

i will cross the bridge when i get there

I'm actually undecided about that. I never want it to be too typical, or predictable. As long as he enjoys it, then I'm happy. I'm never sure about going to restaurants for a first date, because it kind of bores me. I'd rather be doing some sort of activity.

My dream date would be in good company, doesn't matter where

oh nice mrs chrystal fairy I would like to be in a date with you.email me

One dream date would be an impromptu jaunt to the beach at midnight... Hoping we arrive before sunrise...

I mean, I've had some memorable dates over the years and a few crap ones. Dream first date is obviously when you really click with someone, so that's more about the lady than where we go. For me it's best to meet someone on my own ground, rather than going to some strange place, which avoids a lot of hassles and I see it as my job to put a woman at her ease, which is easier to do when I'm somewhere familiar and comfortable for me.

"Neutral" would be me meeting her in the town. I know a nice cafe where the service is terrible, which gives us plenty of time to chat and get to know each other but although that chicken wrap thing that I had there was very tasty it gave me the runs and it wasn't that I had a bad pint because they only have bottled beer there. Don't want to be racist about it but I don't know if these Turkish chefs wash their hands properly when they go to the toilet and someone told me that they use their thumbs instead of toilet paper but maybe that's just when they're in the desert, although when I was staying in a seedy hotel in Amsterdam there was one in the room next to us and he didn't even bother to flush the toilet.

...hmm.. let me think..ohh. I got it.
. . . I guess the same dream date.
. I always have..

I have been thinking this one over a bit pkh.

I have had some good dates, I have also had a couple that were absolutely amazing and will never be forgotten, but have yet to have a man give me my dream date.

This may seem old fashioned to some but for me this has never been done and something little but what I would want at least once in my life.

I would like him to show up at my door with one flower, (if he knows me he will know what one it is), to pick me up for the date. Opening the car door for me each time. He would then take me to a movie and a quiet dinner in a nice secluded restaurant. What happens after that would depend on who it is and the shared connection.

Wow, so you're a pleaser??? "As long as HE enjoys it, I'm happy"
You gotta be kidding me? Hadn't taken you to be a pleaser.

let me preface this by saying it is a dream date, not a first date....I think DREAM dates should be reserved for those we are already dating!

So here is my dream date....would be to Travel to Durban, SA and ride the Big Rush swing...

Here is the link.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7u1SpSF0n7w

Or travel to Dubai and go to Ferrai World...home of the world's fastest Roller Coaster!

Either one of those and I'm good.

No, that isn't exactly what I meant. I just don't want to end up going to the same old place, every time I have a date. I like it to be spontaneus. I like to do all sorts of different things. I like to switch it up.