Now, mind you ...no names are included here...
So, in accordence with the rules,

I wanted to share this funny story &
I am asking for some feedback, please ...

And mainly the reason is to expose this poor quality of behavior from some of the lesser known mmebers online..
And to give you a heads up to the mentality...

Okay....Sooooo...
this is my experience

Let's say that you just posted some new photos in your profile.
Nothing too revealing, in good taste and excellent context...

and then soon afterwards you see a new person
who listed you as his Favorite..

He seemed okay so you send him a friend request
& a nice sweet note along with a thank you... .

But, then you get a note from him and it says,

Quote

"Do you have a photo?
( this is where he put his email address....)
hope you write my email and send a few photos,"
unquote
<now, this is the good part>
Quote "you may win a week-end with me,

(this is where he put his name) "

unquote

That did not rest well with me AT ALL...

Would it with you???

I thought that was sooooo funny
and very egotistical..

I didn't see him walk on water
and his profile says nothing of the sort.

I would love to have some fun and
hear what your response would be
to that kind of message...

I've already sent him a very powerful message, I think
in response to his lack of respect..
There is a response in my mailbox from him,
but I am not opening it, and I may never
I choose to let him stew for a while...
and think about his transgressions

I'll clue in with more details
if you personally email me and
I'll include a copy of my responses later on...

This is too funny...

hahaha lmaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaooooooooooo too funny!!!! Ohhhhhhhh the gall of that person!!!!!

welcome to the dark side.....there are idiots everywhere..

What you did'nt want a nice free weekend?

I just think its an inventive way of seperating himself from other possible suitors AND was meant as a joke... that is just my opinion though......

BUT having said that , I would never put a lady in that position and pretty sure that you had better know the person pretty good BEFORE you send something like that ... :)

Vanessa....

SOME men are idiots...plain and simple. Add him to your list. Some men can be very charming and attentive, he is obviously NOT one of them. Chalk it us as his LOSS and move your attentions elsewhere. That's what I would do...

Hi Rapunzel ,

We al know about first impressions. What some people fail to realize is that first impressions are just as important in the virtual world as they are in the real face-to-face world. You never get a second chance to make a first impression. From hearing this, my first impression is that this guy is a classless @$$. Forget him, and others like him.

yes, that would be funny if you actually chatted with this person......or have you???

It wasn't me! I am respectful and in good decor when mssging. Its when I'm in the community rumpus room I let my hair down and show what an idiot I am.

Wooo wooo!

good gawd ... would that actually work on anyone?

I probably would have replied with a nasty email and then blocked the person

If I knew someone well, I might make that remark, smartass that I am. Sorry for the total lack of class on the gentleman's (?) part. Sure you can handle it though. Guy is a lamb to the slaughter.

I would say delete him from your friends list just block him. No need to send a nasty message, not worth getting worked up about it.

There are Idiots every where. I wonder if he blind or just stupid.

BBBBBBBBBBBAAAAAAAAAAABBBBBYYYYYYY!!!! HUBBA HUBBA!!!

I had a guy on another site send me a note (first one) calling me n*pples!!! It was LLOOOOOOOVVEEEE!!!

You Guys and Gals ...You are soo funny...
Thank you for the responses...

Gypsy... ...really huh, the GALL of him...
No, I never chatted with the dude before...
saw him online a couple times, but that was it

Da Vinci... yes...I'm hip...
the dark side, who like Dracula...
can't handle silver crosses, silver stakes
opr to be exposed to the light of day...

That is why I think that those ill-intended
dastardly messages need to be brought
into the bright light of day..
Then we can expose them for who they are
and better prepare ourselves
to not fall victim to these human predators.

Ms. Teddy Bear.... Hmmm,
Gee, if I just played along with his game
and sent some revealing photos,
just think....
I could be in the sick company
of most likely, a married man
who probably does this sort of thing
to whoever will let him get away with it...

I think I'll pass...
I like myself toooo much
..
My wise Mom says that

" It is better to be alone, than in poor company"






I'll check back in soon ....gotta run for a bit


hugs and love....

Okay, Folks I am here...I'm back ..but not like The Arnold...
Our illustrious Governator. Governor + Terminator = Governator

Thanks for all the feedback....
I wish I could type as fast as I ...
Oh wouldn't that be nice...

Let me read all of this
and the personal emails
and I'll get back with you...

I had to take a break
my fine brave Knight
and awesome Soldier
was calling me
and I had to go

I wish I could type as fast as I "think and speak..."

Isn't that when you're supposed to use the 'net to hunt down particularly disgusting photos of people you wish you had never seen and send them from a disposable free mail account? :>