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Topic: desirable
panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Sun 04/27/14 12:39 PM
Followed by the appropriate response, of course.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45417	Sun 04/27/14 12:58 PM
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no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sun 04/27/14 01:03 PM
.. for me the first thing is their hair. . .. .. .. this is a little more like it.. ..

BrandNewJourney Joined Tue 02/25/14 Posts: 6055	Sun 04/27/14 01:48 PM Edited by BrandNewJourney on Sun 04/27/14 01:52 PM
I know it's been done before, but there's a lot more who have joined and are in the forums. So just curious. You see someone of the opposite sex whether it's at a mall, restaurant, grocery store. There's just something about them you find desirable. How do you approach them? And what is it at first that attracts you to them in the first place? I'm pretty shy but it's the eyes and smile if he makes eye contact I won't hesitate to say hello. That is a tough question for me really. Grant it smiling eyes are a huge weakness for me I won't lie. If that smile goes from his lips all the way to his eyes...yea well... That however is not what makes me try to contact the man though as I usually don't see that first. I really cannot explain what does or does not draw me. I just feel it deep inside of me. Something whispering in my ear telling me this one. Do I act on that impulse? Not normally, I find it difficult to approach a man first, even if everything in me says I should. If he makes the first move then yes I will respond in one way or another.

thewildone67 Joined Mon 04/21/14 Posts: 33	Sun 04/27/14 01:59 PM
I know it's been done before, but there's a lot more who have joined and are in the forums. So just curious. You see someone of the opposite sex whether it's at a mall, restaurant, grocery store. There's just something about them you find desirable. How do you approach them? And what is it at first that attracts you to them in the first place? I'm pretty shy but it's the eyes and smile if he makes eye contact I won't hesitate to say hello. A quote comes to mind... All The Desirable Things In Life Are Either Illegal, Expensive Or Married

dianagalaxy Joined Mon 04/28/14 Posts: 9	Tue 04/29/14 07:38 PM
As for that I initial draw... I like to see men that are relatively big - tall or muscular - that makes me think I'd feel safe and small and girly next to them. Another is a nice scent - but not overdone. Clothes don't have to be any particular style - but preferably the clothes fit properly (please no sagging or too tight). A nice smile that doesn't seem snarky or judgy. As for the approach ... I am way too cowardly and self - conscious to even try. Do wish I could find my bravery some days.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 04/29/14 07:42 PM
I know it's been done before, but there's a lot more who have joined and are in the forums. So just curious. You see someone of the opposite sex whether it's at a mall, restaurant, grocery store. There's just something about them you find desirable. How do you approach them? And what is it at first that attracts you to them in the first place? I'm pretty shy but it's the eyes and smile if he makes eye contact I won't hesitate to say hello. A quote comes to mind... All The Desirable Things In Life Are Either Illegal, Expensive Or Married or all three

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 04/29/14 08:44 PM
I typically walk up to that person and begin to mumble my words. It'll sound like the Swedish Chef from the muppets, and usually the girl just laughs and then calls me adorable. I know I am in then.

Bigmoc Joined Mon 04/28/14 Posts: 3	Wed 04/30/14 03:08 PM
Just start a conversation about ANYTHING, confidence is the main thing, if you don't have it, just blag it!

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Wed 04/30/14 05:08 PM
I have never approached a male,, but confidence is that 'thing' that draws me,,,, but the kind of confidence that's sprinkled with compassion, respect, and humility not the kind that's arrogant and cocky,,,

hellsboy007 Joined Tue 04/29/14 Posts: 992	Wed 04/30/14 05:08 PM
Maybe smile

Whozurdaddy Joined Mon 03/24/14 Posts: 101	Wed 04/30/14 08:56 PM
A girl got my phone number from the tag on my dog's collar once. I'm thinking about getting a T shirt printed. What are you going to put on that shirt Tawt? "Have you seen this dog" ? or "Would you like to see my dog?" .