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Why no smile?
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I have one pic for general body shape style the other photo is my face.
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Why no smile?
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Yes creepily too.
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Why no smile?
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Can someone tell me why people put up profile pics that are fuzzy, far away, and not smiling?
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How to trust?
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I agree it is probably more about trusting myself, maybe I should have expressed myself better. I was forced to be very non-confrontational. I wasn't really allowed to have opinions or even feelings of my own. If it wasn't what he thought it was stupid or crazy or not normal.
So, maybe I should have said ... how do I trust myself to be true to myself and not cave in just to avoid confrontation or judgement? |
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How to trust?
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It takes a very long time to trust again, give yourself time to learn to love yourself first and to move on Trust what again? What were you trusting in the first place? That somebody owed you something when you opened your legs for them? That's just not how it is. Well, I trusted my husband not to abuse me or my kids... didn't your mama ever teach you that if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all? |
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How to trust?
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.. okay I want you to climb up on that platform over there... walk over to the edge... now turn around with your back facing me.. fold your arms across your chest... now when I say three you fall backwards and I'll catch you... okay you ready... One....two... thr...... hang on a second... OUCHHH..THAT HAD TO HURT.. didn't you hear me say hang on a second...  .. I'm sorry get back up on the platform and this time I'll catch you... I promise you can trust me...
Not that funny. Try again. Harder |
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desirable
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As for that I initial draw... I like to see men that are relatively big - tall or muscular - that makes me think I'd feel safe and small and girly next to them. Another is a nice scent - but not overdone. Clothes don't have to be any particular style - but preferably the clothes fit properly (please no sagging or too tight). A nice smile that doesn't seem snarky or judgy.
As for the approach ... I am way too cowardly and self - conscious to even try. Do wish I could find my bravery some days. |
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Pay attention. Understand your partner - their thoughts and motivations. Appreciate them and show it in ways that mean something to THEM.
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How to trust?
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If you've been in a long term abusive relationship, how do you know who and how to trust? Especially when you're trying online dating for the first time!
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