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Topic: What do you think Mingle ladies? You too guys.
teebee79's photo
Wed 04/23/14 12:32 PM
I've been asked to go to a baseball game.
I don't particularly like baseball, I'm a football and basketball girl! Go Eagles... Go Sixers

Trying to live a more authentic me, I feel compelled to tell this guy that I Do Not Like baseball, but I like him.
Does this sound too forward...considering this would be our 1st date!

Guys... how would you react if a girl went to a game with you but wasn't all that interested in the game?
Would you have preferred her to tell you, " I don't like the sport but I would like to hang out with you "

soufiehere's photo
Wed 04/23/14 12:39 PM
If I liked him at all, I would enjoy the time spent
with him, no matter where it was.

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Wed 04/23/14 12:41 PM
Well, for the first date I think you should both be comfortable. I really don't know if I would not go, as I have never been put in this position.

What I do know, is that if he is passionate about baseball, you will be surprised when you see this passion.

I know that the first time I saw passion from a man, about something he really loved, it was a huge turn on for me. I soaked in everything about him as his passion for it radiated throughout his entire being.

teebee79's photo
Wed 04/23/14 12:52 PM

Well, for the first date I think you should both be comfortable. I really don't know if I would not go, as I have never been put in this position.

What I do know, is that if he is passionate about baseball, you will be surprised when you see this passion.

I know that the first time I saw passion from a man, about something he really loved, it was a huge turn on for me. I soaked in everything about him as his passion for it radiated throughout his entire being.


Oooh, BrandNew... when you put it like that bigsmile

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Wed 04/23/14 12:53 PM


Well, for the first date I think you should both be comfortable. I really don't know if I would not go, as I have never been put in this position.

What I do know, is that if he is passionate about baseball, you will be surprised when you see this passion.

I know that the first time I saw passion from a man, about something he really loved, it was a huge turn on for me. I soaked in everything about him as his passion for it radiated throughout his entire being.


Oooh, BrandNew... when you put it like that bigsmile


Oh, trust me when I say it! blushing

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Wed 04/23/14 12:55 PM
Well personally.. I like baseball, and its definitely much more fun to watch/play in person..
If you don't like baseball, have been to a game before to experience it and know you don't like it.. just tell him, but also tell him you'd be interested in something else.. I mean weather is definitely a lot better now, so could be something else you could both do that you both like together.. (then again, im from Canada, so snow is just melted haha).

If you don't come off as a ***** when you tell him you don't particularly like Baseball, and would rather do something you both like.. i'm positive he'd understand and pick something else!

So, good luck :D

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 04/23/14 12:56 PM
Humm had a first date a few years ago it was at a gun range.. I don't own one and not into them but went and actually had a blast...

Even though I'm not a sports person at all.. Last guy I dated went to the football parties with him anyway.. Even though I most likely only watched about half the game had a few beers and enjoyed the crowd and the time spent...

And yes he did know that I was not into sports but was willing to go and make the best of it...whoa

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Wed 04/23/14 01:00 PM

I've been asked to go to a baseball game.
I don't particularly like baseball, I'm a football and basketball girl! Go Eagles... Go Sixers

Trying to live a more authentic me, I feel compelled to tell this guy that I Do Not Like baseball, but I like him.
Does this sound too forward...considering this would be our 1st date!

Guys... how would you react if a girl went to a game with you but wasn't all that interested in the game?
Would you have preferred her to tell you, " I don't like the sport but I would like to hang out with you "


If I liked him, I would go and try to enjoy the game "through" him....Enjoy sharing his enjoyment...You never know Tee....It's kinda like how we adults enjoy Christmas morning watching our kids open their presents......flowerforyou

teebee79's photo
Wed 04/23/14 01:01 PM

Humm had a first date a few years ago it was at a gun range.. I don't own one and not into them but went and actually had a blast...

Even though I'm not a sports person at all.. Last guy I dated went to the football parties with him anyway.. Even though I most likely only watched about half the game had a few beers and enjoyed the crowd and the time spent...

And yes he did know that I was not into sports but was willing to go and make the best of it...whoa


Football!! I love... I hope he gets tickets to that!!

willing2's photo
Wed 04/23/14 01:01 PM
If there was a good chance of getting lucky, I'd even pretend to like going shopping with her,














once.

teebee79's photo
Wed 04/23/14 01:03 PM

If I liked him at all, I would enjoy the time spent
with him, no matter where it was.

this is what I'm hoping soufie :thumbsup:

He is hilarious and fun to be around... so, I'm hoping that translate at a basball game lol

dreamerana's photo
Wed 04/23/14 01:10 PM
Hi. Having fun is about the way you interact with a person. That being said, if I was asking someone to a first date, I would try for it to be at a place that was mutually entertaining.
You might be happily surprised and have a great time. If you've never been to a live game, it's much more interesting than when you see it on tv. But it will give you insight as to your date. Have fun. Wish you the best.

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Wed 04/23/14 01:34 PM


If I liked him at all, I would enjoy the time spent
with him, no matter where it was.

this is what I'm hoping soufie :thumbsup:

He is hilarious and fun to be around... so, I'm hoping that translate at a basball game lol

You should go for it then. If you get bored you can always smother him with one of those gloves they wear

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Wed 04/23/14 01:35 PM
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Wed 04/23/14 01:36 PM

this site is pretty lame

someone please stop the world, I wanna get off

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Wed 04/23/14 02:06 PM

this site is pretty lame


Don't let the door hit you where the good lord split you.

Argo's photo
Wed 04/23/14 02:06 PM


this site is pretty lame

someone please stop the world, I wanna get off

ding ding ding....next stop, ground floor, de-activation center and all exits...

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Wed 04/23/14 02:09 PM


this site is pretty lame


Don't let the door hit you where the good lord split you.



:laughing:

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Wed 04/23/14 02:14 PM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Wed 04/23/14 02:15 PM

this site is pretty lame



Some people just don't deserve to wear Inksmokin

#Trill

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Wed 04/23/14 02:15 PM
The first date should be a venue or activity everybody enjoys.

As honesty is a basic ingredient of any interaction, speak up.
If you're not at all into that game say so, if it's that you're just not comfy with it for the first date say honestly that for a first date you'd prefer .....xyz..... followed by asking "what do you think"?

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