Actually, most of the women on here bore me as well. It's like I don't have much in common with them or something. I've met a few that didn't bore me though. Yay, forty five years and I've finally found out what my type is.

"al" women are not boring, "sam" of them really rock!

There aren't enough women on here. An average looking woman will get no less than twenty messages a day from different men. Wouldn't that be nice! Although having lots of girls messaging you at once would complicate thing because you can't please them all. They see you're online and not responding. And when you do it's only a one-liner because you don't have enough time or patience to put much thought into it. It can get tiring. There's the answer to your question I think.

Women are the players on dating sites. If you leave they don't care, they got hundreds of other guys that are eager to get with them.

And the fox is correct. Those grapes are sour.

Not sour fur ball, just truth.

thinking like that should get you 100s of weman.thay really go for the peeed off at the world out look.

Oh well. I prefer goth chicks anyway.

Well, what the he(k do you expect? That wallpaper behind you is rather off-putting!
Apart from that adventurous women probably wouldn't be looking to find a man on Mingle (or any dating-site) and/or be in the great outdoors enjoying adventures.

.. hello.. are we even on the same site.. I have yet to come across a single boring woman yet... perhaps it's the. person who is trying to engage them... is not interesting them self..hmm.

Where have all the women gone, long time passing?
Where have all the women gone gone, long time ago?
Where have all the women gone gone?
Interesting men have picked them everyone.
Oh, when will the poster ever learn?
Oh, when will the poster learn?

My experience has been much different.

Most of the women just don't say very much on these sites in my experience. The exceptions are one or two from the forums that have plenty to say for themselves but aren't actually on here for dating and live too far away anyway. It doesn't particularly bother me. I'm happy enough to just get to know them in person and the ones that are actually on here to meet guys don't generally waste a lot of time with the emailing. That's my idea of an adventurous woman.

RedMist has a point. Most of them just sit on here saying very little about themselves and the conversations can be quite one sided. We're supposed to try to impress them and talk them into a meeting but the truth is that they make up their minds if they're interested in dating you quite quickly, or they are just time wasters that you will never get anything from apart from emails.

I have not had this problem at all. My only problem is the distance between us.

Well sorry to say, but if you expect to find serious love (or sex for that matter) on this site when you're not American and / or not willing to relocate, you're not being particularly realistic.
Plus the general vibe on here doesn't entice friendly, open communication. I remember when I first got here, I didn't know what hit me. I'm used to spiritual (= respectful & friendly) fora, when I posted something here, I got slagged & slated. Then I was told by a mod I had to grow thicker skin, and that's what you do, if not, you won't be (last) here for long.
So few here get to see the real me and I think that goes for many ppl. And sure it can be like that on other dating-sites as well, that's why I wrapped up my memberships there. I'm a member of a DS for higher educated ppl and 2 spiritual DS.
So nice finger-pointing saying women aren't interesting, unfortunately the same goes for most men here. "Who wants to marry me?" or "I want to have sex" and "I can't get any" should get serious interest and replies? The first should simply buy a mail-order bride and the latter two should join a sex-site.

What she said!!!!!

You Go Girl!!!!

Hi Crystal!

Crystal is a good example of my distance Dilemma.

I don't know Crystal. If you ignore the forums (and most people do) it's still a dating site with at least some genuine people that come on here because they want to meet somebody. The forums are a sideshow.

I guess that you came on here because it's an international site and now feel disillusioned about that but after my experiences on other sites I didn't come on here with any intention of wasting time trying to talk to anybody that lives outside of my area and that hasn't worked out too badly. For most guys it's all about just getting the date and it doesn't make a lot of sense to spend ages messaging instead of just meeting for a simple date and seeing how that goes. I don't set a lot of store in the messages. You can do that with someone that's got all of the education and writing skills and find them really uncommunicative and guarded when you meet them and then you can get ones that don't write much at all that are really outgoing and talkative in person. What I noticed when I first tried dating sites was that a lot of them are quite happy to chat away with you and tell you their story but when you live too close for comfort they're less friendly. I could sit on this forum all day flattering and flirting but what's the point of that? What I'm seeing mostly on this forum is just a lot of people that only talk the talk, or seem to be just dipping their toes in the water by doing a bit of virtual dating with people that they will almost certainly never meet because they aren't actually ready to date anybody. If they were, they would be doing that and they wouldn't have much time or inclination for forums about it.

When you decided to type this, was it you, or your hormones? I remember being quite a randy teenager, and I used to think I wanted every and any guy. As it happened, I was just going through the motions that teenagers do. My question is, why not just join sex sites? If adventure is what you're looking for, then you and other members will have that in common. But you seem to beating around the bush.

Hi Ouizee!



Owww

Tawt: Disillusioned? Dating and DS are a learning curve. If you've been here for years and still haven't learnt the drill, still believe you can find love here, sorry pal, wake up!
Each DS has its merits, although some seem to have none at all. Not unlike finding the right pub/club for you. You gotta test them to find out. And learn. If you don't learn, you won't get anywhere (in life) really.

Regarding the OP:
CrystalFairy is correct. Be a man and admit what you want, then take the proper steps to achieve your goal.
pissing and moaning about it will not result in success.
it seems to me that you either want to stir up an argument, or are looking for sympathy. You will get neither from me.