Not asking for any advice this time. Just need a spot to let off some
major steam. Please feel free to make any comments if you'd like...: )

My son who is friends with my ex's little bro informed me yesterday that
my ex and his new girlfriend are going to the Halloween party this
weekend. The same party that I have been going to for the past 5 years.
The same party that I took him to last year but we ended up leaving
early because he didn't know anyone and wasn't enjoying himself. The
same party that you need an invitation to get in. Actually the
invitation part never seems to stick so that's irrelevant but
anyways.....

Why on earth would he be going now? To make me jealous of his new girl?
To stir some shit up?

And to make matters worse. UGH!!!!!!!!!! He/they are planning on wearing
the same costumes as me and my date. And to find out, he got all bent
out of shape when he found out what we were going as. Claiming I stole
the idea. I don't fucking think so dude. I was the one who came home one
day well over a month ago with a print out of my costume telling him
this is what I was gonna wear. That is when we were still together. We
were gonna go as a couple. 2 mafia gangsters. Anyhow, we broke up and so
of course, we aren't going together. But that doesn't mean that I'm
gonna change my fucking costume. Why should I? It was MY idea that I had
planned over a month ago. I know I said that already.

I hope to God that they don't go. Actually I could care less if they do.
I will enjoy myself and party with my friends as I always do and pretend
they aren't even there. But if they do go, I swear they better come
wearing something else. That's gonna be so fucked if they come wearing
the same damn thing. I guess we're just gonna have to get there first.

I've never had an ex give me this much shit. I hate the SOB! I broke up
with him and so what. Is this payback or something.

I still need to vent but I guess this will have to do.

I understand your need to vent.
Got an ex boyfriend that doesn't acknowledge our daughter together, and
ex-husband that won't keep a job to pay his child support on our
daughter together and his son with another woman.
I understand the need to vent.

Hope you start to feel more like yourself after all your venting is
done.

:)

OHHHHHHHH, Girl just make sure Ya'll get there first and your costumes
are kick ass lmao add some features to them get creative and when they
walk in the door with there's well it will look like they took your
ideal specialy since you will be telling all you have been working on
yours for a couple of months before they even get there. lol Make sure
ya get ya a big black purse from the thrift store and fill it with fake
money and beads and ever so often walk around throwing paper money in
the air telling all you want to share your riches from the last heist ya
did. I know they want think of that lmao

HAVE A GREAT NITE AND SMILE THAT SMILE AND JUST LAUGH LIKE
HELL HE WILL BE TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHY YOUR NOT PISSED!

hi, hazeleyes
I hear ya girl, I agree with txs.
and you said that last time you whent with him
you had to leave because he didn't know anyone there
remember that, and you know what to do if they come to the party. you
don't know if he is just trying to
give you a hard time, but because you never know
go and have fun like you never had before


morena

"TXS" makes a very good point on this and just do your best to have fun
without th S.O.B.,,,also get a plastic"Tommy-Gun"
squirt gun...paint it flat black...and if he starts to piss and moan
about your costume...SHOOT HIM!!! to soak his ass and cool his jets,you
will get some laffs and will be th better for it!

OMGosh, I so love your idea TXS. Thanks a lot!!!
I do in fact need to go the thrift store to get some things for my son's
costume (he is also going) so I will definately make sure I get that
purse and some fake $$$$ and jewelry.

I can't wait!!!!! This is going to be so much fun!!!!

So... you don,t like it...take a pill...?
Why do you care...both of you have moved on... but last week you were
considering going back to him, and now you can,t handle being
replaced... past out already...?

ohh yeaaaaaa!!!!!!!

No I wasn't considering going back with him. I ain't that stupid. I was
merely saying how I felt. Didn't at all mean I wanted him back. I don't
want him back.

I have moved on. Just wondering why in the hell he has to come on to my
turf when he didn't have fun on it last year.

HUMMMM, my mind works overtime lol actually thought of that after
thinking about the Bonnie & Clyde movies lol they were the famous ones
and always dressed very classy

Well stop venting...be the Woman...! Walk up to him and her with a Big
ole smile and a sweet greeting and enjoy the party..!

Consider it done Ontario. :)

Hummm remember that Ontario next time you want to vent
hummm what is good for he goose is good for the gander

And don't come back and say HUH?

huh?


LMAO

HUH?...me 2...lol

LMAO

I GOT IT? OK, Take a pic of him to a screen printing shop and have his
pic put on a cloth bag up-side down, (so when u put it over your head
it's right-side up.) Now dress in a man's hand me down suit, with rips
and holes and stain's then have a little sign on front and back that
says, total loser, JERK,
(HE MAY GET THE HINT) Just a nice idea for-ya, LMFAO???
Hope your holloweenie party is a smash, don't let HIM get ya spirt? Be
cool, and happy about YOUR night, later. :) :)

Dress up as a floor bouncer and when he gets there, throw him out.
LMAO

HUH?

I have an Idea, and I am being sarcastic. Get a big, oversized Condom.
Wear it to the party and when people ask you what you are, you can tell
them you are being you ex. "A DICKHEAD"

Sorry T-Girl... I can,t be the Woman.