Here's a question would you stay with some one that continues to go on sex sites to have virtual sex?I dated a woman bipolar depression figure ok this would be ok sense I don't judge any one as apartner at the time you and your mate would be truthfully and honest not get sneaky behind each other's backs so I discovered that she was on a few sites one called red light 3d nothing but sex and perverts when I confronted her she smashed her pc flew of the handle this was hurtful and I was stun I mean why would a person put them on these sites ?The risk on them alone there lot of sick peeps but we where dating why go online for sec if I gave it to her pretty messed up I spoke to a few women caught there men doing crap like this they threw them on there *** .People wondr why some people have trust issues .

.. I don't know. I'm new to all this cyber stuff.. but what I can figure out.. its just make believe really.. at the end of the day. you close your laptop. turn off your phone.. and walk away.. so if your partner needs.. turning on through this format... big deal... we men have been looking at magazines of naked women for years.... smut books... is this truly any different... yes there's someone on the other end... but at the end of the day they close their laptop... shut off their phone... and walk away... and probably don't give it another thought..... you watch porn you turn on your TV .. what's the difference... it is just visual or audio stimulant... no touching no penetration... just where your mind wants to take it... so the question is... what is she not receiving from you..... and that's all I got to say about that...ps.. its just make believe don't take it too serious man... go read a Playboy...jk

.. well of course blondie.. but the OP made no statement that his lover partner.. was cheating in reality.. it only becomes real when you go off site... and that can happen anywhere at anytime.. site are no site.. you might say sight unseen....

i'd ask her if she could get me a free lifetime membership to the site

I'd probably ask her why she was doing that. Either there is something you're not giving her, or she has some sort of sex addiction. The fact she did this as a bipolar, doesn't surprise me. Bipolars are known for having hyper-sexuality as a symptom. It can rear it's ugly head easier when they're drunk. But how drunk? If it makes you feel uncomfortable, you might want to take a break from her.

i just looked up the redlight 3d.it's a game (kinda like the sims but only about sex).that is freakin awesome!

Oh.. trust and honesty are very important.. if it becomes an issue then there's must be something wrong or maybe discontentment..

No... hang my head in shame... give me 10 minutes I'll be right back...lol.... hands on research required.. now where did I put that KY jelly...lol

Really.......only 10 minutes..........Hm

Totally agree!!

.. I don't webcam.. I don't Skype... and text sex.. we have to get to know each other first. trust each other.. and then its epic.. AND THEN THE PHONE sex... I will melt your phone...ohhh..mmmm...yesss.ohh.yesss.mmmm.. moaning to myself softly.. as I draw little circles in the palm of my hand..ohhh...ohhh..�.OOno1

oh my snickers to self

or you just have to want to see boobies as much as i do

I would not be ok with online sex chats! one, he is hiding it from me...which means he feels secretive about it. Two, how do I know it will end with just talking? That's exactly how affairs start..just talking at first.

Sorry for the typos on my cell we are no longer together her actions caused that to be destructive and acting like a crazy person way to much this was a while ago but you have to think these sites you have to watch everything you never know who on the other side of that screen. We have child molestation killers rapest you name it even cops who pretend to be some one else .That's the reason behind this behavior you have no idea what to expect .

Bipolar has a high and a low the high they become sex addiction etc on a massive high don't come down the point is when I was with her she was doing this behind my back given out her cell number flirting with different men one popped up on her computer called her love names she offered him a blow job again sorry typing on my phone I make mistakes so sorry

Ty tee for that comment your right .

Can you send me the link please

I think what is key is the 'sneaking' and her reaction.

IF there is honest and open communication about it and it is strictly an enhancement to fantasies,,,it wouldn't be something to cause me to leave,,,

if there is REAL TIME contact or promise/intent for REAL TIME contact,, that is a deal breaker


This particular person seems to have had a reaction which, by itself, would send me running another direction

I cant do the unpredictable violent outbursts,,, life is too short at this point,,

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