Sex no strings just sex what's wrong with that?

just the question i would expect from someone so young---''wisdom comes from life experience''---as you get older you will understand and arrive at the correct answer---

Nothing if it's what you BOTH want!

If she doesn't want that and you are texting/emailing/ calling.
It's stalking and harrassment!

... right now sex strings no strings..
. candle light no candlelight.. dinner first no dinner at all.. your place or min ... bed no bed. couch no couch.. on top on bottom.... yes sex no string..hmm.... that's the perfect kind of sex... it allows you to express yourself a little more openly.. you can let loose on the other person so to speak... now I'm not talking about just picking somebody up randomly... it has to be somebody you trust.. you both understand one another... want to fulfill each others needs... in a safe manner...... weekly rendezvouses.... And know how was your day,. how is work... we don't speak of the mundane... our everyday... just us the two of us..... our desires our passions... spending a pleasant day together... then hours in bed.... and then leave each other and go back to our .. everyday life..... sounds perfect to me...

Its a personal choice. Not overated. Sometimes people want to be comitted to a person and sometimes not. And its nobodys right to judge if thats what you are looking for Op.

Sex is guaranteed in a relationship. But if you're single and you're no good at chatting to women then you really will know what it means to burn in hell!

I don't think their over-rated. For me, I have to know the guy wants me fully, not just to use my body. I admit I've had one or two fwb's, but then realized how special that DIDN'T feel, compared to an exclusive committed relationship. I think a male friend I had a crush on, influenced my fwb decision, as we were constantly around each other, and when you have a huge crush on a guy, you're so besotted with him, that you don't see what else is available. I think relationships are a very special thing. And anyone is lucky to be in one. Never take it for granted.

There are no guarantees of any kind!

Shy_Emo said it best. The opportunities are there for many of us to have a fwb-type of relationship. I want more than that.

The intimacy when you're with someone who cares as much for you as you for him/her is unbelievable! It is mind-blowing! Add amazing sex to that and... holy smokes! That's the passion I'm looking for!

I wouldn't actually start an Fwb's with an actual friend as that would be too weird. I know i said that i did in another thread..just called it that but we met the agreed on a fwb situation ( i think he finally stopped calling lol)
To each is own but doesn't surprise me that more an more people want this

I like the whole chatting and getting to know each other thing and the passion. You can't have real passion and not get atatched. Well, I can't anyway.

Hey, if you have the $$$ to pay for it, then I won't try to stop you.

Would you like to elaborate Dodo or am I smelling a sexist remark?
If so then I have something to tell you

Prostitutes are in the business of providing the sort of thing that the author of the OP wants.

So, if he has the $$$, then he can get what he wants without playing games with someone who isn't a prostitute.

Ahhh OK , I wasn't sure how to take that

I'm taking what their giving. Which seems to have some little strings. But not really.

lol....at some times a young man is very selfish and wants to know why others (in this case women) will not bend to his needs

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we don;t care about your frickin' needs. learn to care about ours and we will learn to care about yours... and make your needs a little more interesting ... the type of man or woman who wants NSA probably would not interest me

I'm just looking for a dependable (Woman) to change my "Old- Man-Diaper" then wipe my chin as needed(preferable with a different cloth) when i'm 90!!!! Oh what a Woman that would be!! Otherwise i'm not wasting my time!!

From the TV show Mad About You

Paul: Just like that: bing, bang, boom?
Jamie: At this point, I'd settle for the boom.
Paul: You don't want the bing and the bang?
Jamie: I did when we started.
Paul: And now?
Jamie: I'm over it.
Paul: You're a very complex woman.
Jamie: You don't want the boom?
Paul: 'Course I want the boom. Guys ALWAYS want the boom. We only made up the whole bing and the bang just to get to boom.

However put that idea in your head?
if you think that sorts your problem, get a mail-order bride from the Philippines or Russia or summit.
But trust me, it's no guarantee at all.
You know what hell is? Sleeping next to someone you love and want and not getting it.
Been there done that, got the effing T-shirt. If it ever happens to me again, I'm putting him on a Viagra diet,
No wait, if it would ever happen again, I'm packing his bags and chuck them out the window. And him as well.