No man bashing here guys... Just observations from my online dating experiences and since , I'm not into Chicks.. as great as WE ARE.. I can only speak from the straight female side of things!

Married men, posing as single men:

1. He only wants to text!
2. Always an excuse as to why you can't call him,like whenever.
3. Keeps pointing out that he lives with his SISTER!

NEXT
Wolves posing as sheep:

1. He feels a connection with you, but you've only been " textng" for 15 mins?? hmmmm
2. You are Beautiful, Sweetie, Gorgeous... which you very well may be, but in his case.. he just can't remember your name!
3. Wants to come over and cuddle tonight... reminder, you have been texting for 15 mins!

Anyone else have any signs or warnings, we need to watch out for??
Share em..

its nice to see someone with there eyes and ears open---there are some really great guys out there they are very often overlooked because what they have to give is in there hearts---so do not give up---

The use of clever disguises always makes me suspicious.

LOL.... but to clarify, Make up.. hair extensions and fake nails don't count as clever disguises, Right?

Its not just the men who do this...women do it as well.

My point exactly, my good man!

Help your brothers out! Tell em what to look for!

.. I understand the point you're trying to make..
. but I'm a recently separated father.. I asked my lady friends to text me.. so my boys don't over here our conversation... but I usually say text me before you call me.. so I can. go and be private somewhere... and as far as calling me whenever... sure but not while I'm at work... are trying to spend time with my kids.. are driving... are asking my sister why she hasn't changed the sheets . on my bed..lol..

Yes the pet names right away hmmm is right. So he lives with his sister insist you talk before you waste anymore time I did that and he was suppose to be from Tennessee turns out Nigeria and of course you know his grammar etc

See, now what makes me nervous about you NO1, Why text before she calls? If you're with your kids, Surely your kids have heard you talk on the phone before? If a woman calls, you can say... " I'm with my kids allow me to find a private place to talk"
A man needing a " heads up" before she calls... screams married/ or girlfriend. I'd change this up if I were you babe

DAMN, NIGERIANS!!!

I'm kidding!! Please, No ( more) hate mail people of Nigeria!

You are right though... insist on talking before the " texting" gets anymore detailed.

I've wasted many a minutes on fakers! Who has the time..

.. what part of recently separated. did you not read.. I just need to guard my children.. their mother is still there mother.. I wish not to change that image in their heads right now... and I try not to delete.. I might alter but I rarely delete... people can think what they want..

I get recently seperated. I get not wanting to sound all giggley on the phone with a woman.

I get it... I respect it.
What I DO NOT GET... Is text before you call?

How the HELL would your kids know it's a female on the phone, unless you say " Hey kids, I'm talking to a woman... be quiet please"

Guard your children, it's what you are suppose to do.

BUT at the same time, Allow the woman to protect herself.
text before you call... SCREAMS I am married.

Hey, don't take my word for it... Ask other women

Mmmmm....
My big red flag is grammar and people who are in a rush to skype or email etc..instead of staying on mingle.

. well..teebee.. you have never talk to me on the phone.. maybe you should talk to some of the women I have talked to on the phone... pretty hard to cover that phone conversation up.lol.... my children are used to me.. making very polite business professional calls... they understand that... not who is daddy calling.. baby.. let's have dinner tonight.. oh you naughty naughty girl..lol..

i got an email from a "woman" in Texas, Nigeria... or was it Nigeria, Texas? ... oh well, either way, that was an easy one to spot...

Somebody in the military asking for money. Don't fall for that.

They say they love you and ready for marriage after only a couple emails

Well, of course you can't talk like that in front of those impressionable little ones!

But I maintain" Hello, Lisa... I'm with the children now, allow me to call you back"

Maybe it's JUST MY EXPERIENCE, but men who say " text me 1st"
are up to something... SO, being the woman that I AM... would naturally call FIRST just to see who answers!

Jus sayen

.. well in that case here's my number.#######. I will definitely be the one picking up the phone.. unless you get my voicemail.. and in that case that's my secretary... she sounds hotter than she really is.. but don't tell her that..lol

.. oh yeah and if one of my boys answers.. don't say is your daddy at home... ask for Mr PhD... are just say I'm looking for no one...lol

Helpful hint, many scammers come from countries that actually use the metric system. I was writing to a woman I thought was an American. She (or he, who knows really?) Asked me about the weather. Since I thought she was American I answered 39 degrees. Here's what I got back, "Yes, it's very hot here too." They thought I meant Celcius, which would mean it was 102 degrees in Sweden, in March!!! I think that would definitely make the news. Dead Swedes all over the place!!!

Also, if you are like me, 50 or over, and a 30 yr old, who is gorgeous, writes you a short message, with bad grammar, be extremely suspicious. Ah, male vanity it will be our undoing. If they ask for your email address in test coupe of messages so you can exchange full names. Be suspicious, they may identity thieves. If you just feel something is off, trust yourself. Also, you don't know the person, they are not your friend, they are by your family. You don't owe them anything. If you don't trust them, don't communicate with them.

If you get a message from person at were times, think about it. I got a message from a lady, who said she was 36, her picture looked like someone who was 26. Her profile said she was from Colorado. When she messaged me it was currently 2:30 in the morning in Colorado. Well, maybe era's night owl. But her newsagents short ad the grammar was bad. No way I was replying.