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.. well lately. every partner becomes a fantasy.. I don't want normal.. so I make the date a fantasy. . if that makes any sense at all.. if you're talking role playing.. like she dresses up like a librarian.. and I'm the nerd returning late books..hmm.. then I definitely share those.. This kind of thing is good when you can involve your present partner (role playing) Two important things to keep in mind is that certain fantasies may be something that person may never want to happen. Ofter these fantasies can involve multiples that may or may not involve you or it my be a spontaneous act with a stranger. I have been quite open in the past and by saying "just because you have a fantasy, it doesn't mean you want it to happen" it makes you partner feel safer about talking about theirs and open to yours. Sometimes they are just strange. I will tell you guys one from each of us, from my last relationship, but first, tune in for a word from our sponsors |
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I can only speak from my own experience, I too have delved into experiencing a lot of my fantasies, most were great! and repeated many times. Some on the other hand never measured anywhere close to my actual fantasy and are best forgotten.
Some of my, what I call my wilder fantasies, I prefer to keep them as that, as in reality it's not something I would really in all honesty, like to experience. I'm actually struggling to think of any sexual fantasy that I have that I haven't actually done and no, I'm not particularly into talking about it. I just do it. I'm open minded though and open to suggestions. Actually felt a bit flattered a while a go when a girl asked me to take her up the shiter and didn't mind at all when she said that she didn't like it because I'm bigger than her vibrator. |
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I of course have fantasies, I have no problem in sharing with my lover. I just would like it he would share his with me.
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Uh huh....sharing is caring
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Edited by
teebee79
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Wed 03/19/14 12:06 PM
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Yes sir... I ALWAYS share my fantasies.
However, if he sneaks out while I"m changing in the bathroom.. maybe, I should hold back on some things.. You think? |
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I can only speak from my own experience, I too have delved into experiencing a lot of my fantasies, most were great! and repeated many times. Some on the other hand never measured anywhere close to my actual fantasy and are best forgotten.
Some of my, what I call my wilder fantasies, I prefer to keep them as that, as in reality it's not something I would really in all honesty, like to experience. I know what you mean. I was talking to a friend of mine recently about how I went on a swinger site and it was kind of a laugh but not really for me. My friend reminded me how I had chatted with a married woman before and I said that it's maybe a scorpio thing but I have a bit of a tendency to have sex and then worry about the consequences later. I'm not really interested in married women but you can get into these cybering situations and she was kind of hot. I had an ex girlfriend that was into playing sex games and she would come round and ask me what I had planned for the night but the fact of the matter is that she was the one wanting to spice it up and all that I was planning was to get into her pants and maybe try different positions if she was up for that. Looking back on it now, I could have been more romantic about it and she told me that that was what she wanted but I'm maybe more about the passion than the romance and I feel like all of the setting the scene and the scented candles and all of that sort of thing is a bit girly and I just want to get down to business, so that in these situations, the woman plays a sort of teasing role and that can develop into a dynamic where it's about seducing and domination. |
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Hum...not sure, maybe but I'm the kind of woman I like to keep things for myself.
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Edited by
isaac_dede
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Wed 03/19/14 01:21 PM
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Yep i've shared them, and most have been fulfilled, and I've also fulfilled a few for partners in the past
Because what good does it do to keep them quiet? You'll never know until you ask |
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Edited by
NorCalSwe
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Wed 03/19/14 01:21 PM
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Always very open about fantasies with my partners. I think it's so important to discuss these things. It's terrible if you or your partner feel sexually frustrated, and if you don't tell them, how can they help you.
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Damn....um.....I'll be back in a bit.....
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I also believe if you are involved enough with someone to share your body with them, sharing your fantasies shouldn't be much of a stretch
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Always very open about fantasies with my partners. I think it's so important to discuss these things. It's terrible if you or your partner feel sexually frustrated, and if you don't tell them, how can they help you. Is the way I am...we're all different and I respect your's and everyone's here. |
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I believe in sharing your fantasies, roll play all of it. PDA I still have plenty of fantasies I'd like to fill even at my age
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A guy once asked me if we could play doctors and nurses, so I left him in the corridor for two days
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A guy once asked me if we could play doctors and nurses, so I left him in the corridor for two days |
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fortunately there is no age limit to one's fantasies :)
I believe in sharing your fantasies, roll play all of it. PDA I still have plenty of fantasies I'd like to fill even at my age |
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Agreed! - Complete open communication is the ONLY way to go in ANY relationship :)
Always very open about fantasies with my partners. I think it's so important to discuss these things. It's terrible if you or your partner feel sexually frustrated, and if you don't tell them, how can they help you. |
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LOL - Good one! ;)
A guy once asked me if we could play doctors and nurses, so I left him in the corridor for two days |
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