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Topic: crush on you
realcarebear Joined Sat 12/07/13 Posts: 6876	Wed 03/12/14 05:33 PM
.. Awee. Scooby. take up door to door sales.. then you'll really get used to rejection.. proof no more fear of. rejection.. will never reject you here though.. here is a Scooby Snack for you..lol I used to sell Rainbow Vacuums. So trust me I'm used to hang ups on phone, slammed doors, and even told to go F- myself for trying to sell the dang things. hahaha! Omg! My mom bought one!!!! the rainbow vac! That brings back memories! Haha!

cococabeza Joined Fri 12/13/13 Posts: 590	Wed 03/12/14 06:38 PM
I think you should reveal a crush 90% of the time. Better to know than wonder...

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Wed 03/12/14 06:41 PM
.. okay let's say.. someone is crushing on you.. but you don't feel anything.. should you spend time with them.. making them feel good.. because honestly you know they're never going to.. have a shot with somebody like you again... and then let them down easy... are just crush them right off to start...hmm.

hellsboy Joined Tue 09/17/13 Posts: 2549	Wed 03/12/14 07:33 PM
Glenn Close? Think movie "Fatal Attraction"...stewed rabbit...and Michael Douglas... Stewed rabbit???

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Wed 03/12/14 08:08 PM
Glenn Close? Think movie "Fatal Attraction"...stewed rabbit...and Michael Douglas... Stewed rabbit??? ((((((Hellsboy))))))...Not you, never you!

LowRange Joined Sat 12/28/13 Posts: 665	Wed 03/12/14 08:15 PM
I say you are brave , I once had a crush on my boss after 5 years of silence I couldn't take it no more I quit my job.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Thu 03/13/14 01:22 AM
I rarely do, but I have regret it before for sure.

Destinysyours Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 269	Thu 03/13/14 06:14 AM
I can agree with you Jack!

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 03/13/14 06:46 AM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Thu 03/13/14 06:48 AM
Not me, I'm used to rejection Leigh. It's part of the reason I'm working on me. I am also used to rejection but I am not convinced that working on "me" is something I would do. I may not be happy being someone that I am not. I'd rather be alone than do THAT.... I could probably be more open tho to those who have rejected me before but are interested now. but I tend to carry a little grudge in those situations. (no lectures please....it is just an honest observation)

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 03/13/14 06:49 AM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Thu 03/13/14 06:49 AM
Glenn Close? Think movie "Fatal Attraction"...stewed rabbit...and Michael Douglas... Stewed rabbit??? yum! anyway, I think it's best to keep a crush to oneself unless you have some reason to believe the other person is interested in you

Destinysyours Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 269	Thu 03/13/14 07:13 AM
I think once you reveal it, it takes the excitement away. And why did they kill the thread with that Glenn Close crap? Total NERDS!

specialfriend222 Joined Sat 11/05/11 Posts: 3	Thu 03/13/14 08:42 AM
I agree, you will never know until you try.

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4745	Fri 03/14/14 07:54 AM
If you have a crush on someone is it ever a good idea to reveal it to the person? You should ask for a date as soon as possible, they can only say no. There is little point in hankering after someone who is not interested in you in my opinion.

royce777 Joined Sun 04/22/12 Posts: 1	Fri 03/14/14 07:56 AM
No, never.

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Fri 03/14/14 08:02 AM
If you have a crush on someone is it ever a good idea to reveal it to the person? Mmm, I guess it could be a good idea, if done.. subtly. But you always have to be prepared for the onslaught :-) In thats why you never ever do.

Destinysyours Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 269	Fri 03/14/14 12:50 PM
My crushes are on celebrities. ..I have not come across anyone in real time that makes me cooo when i see or hear them. This celebrity I will see next week... I meets with lots of celebrity figures in case you were wondering.

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Fri 03/14/14 01:12 PM
I have no problems letting someone know I'm interested.

Destinysyours Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 269	Fri 03/14/14 01:16 PM
Having a crush and being interested is too different things to me.

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Fri 03/14/14 01:18 PM
Having a crush and being interested is too different things to me. I guess I don't have crushes then. Cause if I like someone like that I let em know. I don't see a point in doing otherwise. Why wonder about the coulda shoulda wouldas in life? I mean is it really so fun having an unrequited love interest?

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Fri 03/14/14 01:20 PM
My crushes are on celebrities. ..I have not come across anyone in real time that makes me cooo when i see or hear them. This celebrity I will see next week... I meets with lots of celebrity figures in case you were wondering. not really...