You are talking too?
I came online with good intentions and hoping to present myself as an honest woman.
But there are a few who get their kicks out of duping people. Some may present themselves in a way to guarantee tbat a person will be attracted and then blow it all up in your face and admit who they really are later..if thats even true as well.
It makes me feel sick (literally) knowing that someone can spend time..sometimes lots of time chatting with you and then they admit they are fakes or admit that they used you to write a book or something stupid like that.
Would you ever trust that person again and anything they say?
I wouldnt..I was decieved once and once is enough.

I hate liars and it's almost impossible to tell who you're talking to online untill you actually meet them in the flesh. I'm always honest when talking to people online even if it's not what they want to hear. You can only really find out if who you're talking to is honest if you actually meet them in the flesh and get to know them.

But there are some dodgy bastards out there that's for sure who like to get there kicks from pretending to be someone there not. That's why I'm gutted there isn't anyone on here from the westcontry that haven't been online for a month or more but hey ho it's a laugh on here if nothing else.

I am here for the forums mostly as I too don't seem to see anyone from my area. I'm just very leary of doing long distance. I did it once, talked to a guy everyday for months until i flew to see him..he wasnt at all what he represented himself as. I just wont bother anymore. Ya just neva know who is on the other end

"Do You Really Know Who"

Sure, I met him back on planet Melmac.

That sucks sorry to hear that. Yeah you have to be careful I don't think I would have the bollocks to meet someone miles away because of what happend to you. At least if you meet someone local and they turn out to be a fuc#tard you can always do one and you're not miles away from home.

I feel the same as a man i get women asking for money or selling dirty pics or just rude disrespectful idiots.
All i wanted was some good company online when your bored or wanna chat.
I don't expect anything more than be yourself & be respectful.....is that to much to ask..!

Apparently it is too much toask these days. One of these days soon i will be done with all this online dating crap. Its a pointless waste of time i think

my biggest problem is i always like the ones that are "out of my league" and pass the ones that would be good for me by... not sure how it applies here, but it must mean something... i have found out if they are to good to be true, then it ain't even close to being true...

your a great person, don't be disillusioned... there's a great guy out there for you..

Thankyou for that

I am sorry you went through that Candi.
You just have to keep your guard up and you will find the right guy.

I think if there is going to be an interest or chance at an offline relationship developing, its wise to first skype or do some type of on screen communication to get a better idea of who you will meet so you don't feel they 'misrepresented' anything


otherwise I suggest just enjoying the journey of getting to know people and understanding they probably wont reveal everything up front , if at all, and some may take longer than others,,,

That's what makes it so rough and difficult for the legitimate people.

Oh I am fine. I just wanted to hear some stories and see how much you all would tolerate?

I have found that I tolerate less as I get older and more experienced but I also dont want to lose who I am

Msharmony, you can skype all you want but seriously thats not even enough. Theres so much more that a person can lie to you about off cam

Sounds like we were talking to the same person recently, Candi.

Thats why I am here for the forums only..Enjoying Mingling with the nice ones

Storm I know who you are referring too but I didnt talk to him much and yes he seemed to get his kicks here. But he inspired me to start thinking about these kind of dodgy people online and others that I have had the misfortune of meeting.

Beware of Wolves in sheep's clothing too harsh you think?

Why should you think that they're ' Out of your league, ' Moe? I don't think that anyone is out of my league? Used to think that years ago when I broke up with my sons mum, but realised shortly after that it wasn't the case mate! Take the chance, as you never know?

They don't call it the "World Wide" web for nothing you know.

There are all kinds of people in the world, some are good some are not so good.

Ive said it once, I will say it again...
Always take a chance.

anything they can lie about online they can lie about in person,, UNTIL you take the time to get to know them, spend time in different situations and environments with them,,,