I love my girl very much. But I want love another girl too as I think some gaps still need to be filled. If I stop due to my first love it means love is limited. Its restictive. Can we love more than one

then you don't love the 1st girl as much as you think... or your just a pig...you decide

Oh well come on we r in relation since 4 years I always care n respect 4 her I always Give her prefrence. I forfeit my needs to fulfill her needs

ok, a pig... thanks for the clarification...

Well no it's not limited,because it's supposed to be an expanding bond for the self with someone else. From the way your 1st sentence goes, you're just not ready for any kind of commitment to one person for a long period of time. That's also an emotional development thing and a mentality thing more than it is anything else.

Usually the cut up of "there's two people I like equally" normally means that a person with the traits from both people you like is the one for you. (So the answer usually is "neither person" and you haven't found the right one yet.)

Otherwise if you're using emotions to legitimize cheating or trying to get a 3some going then you're running off a carnality level that's revolving around "you" not them. Love has this deal of "respect and understanding" where you'd hold the person up equally to yourself(At the least).

So if you're bored in what you've got going on, do the right thing and explain where you're at so you can axe it. This way everyone moves on without as much trauma. Since you're the person who knows about this the most (cuz if the person your with did, this would be more like "MY girl broke up with me" somehow) be real about things and set them right. Don't be one of those ***** who makes us all look bad and creates needless damage for her to clean up.

One thing you may want to do is sit down with yourself and discern "love" from "strong lust urges". Then ask yourself which applies to you in regard to the people you're talking about. Another ting to ask yourself here is, "Do I love who I'm with or have I grown accustom to my set up and am I looking to cling to that?".

And your ok with her being with some other guy.Or is that a one way street your on?

Love is limitless in my opinion. It would appear that you prefer polygamy over monogamy in your relationships, your preference. I could only ever find happiness with one person in a relationship, I just would not want anyone else and she would need to feel the same.

you wanting to screw around has nothing to do with love.. I think the word you're looking for is lustfull.. Urges.. otherwise known as can't keep it in your pants syndrome....lol. douche... oh yes welcome 2m2.. join . us on. blah blah blah blah...

NOt clear whether you're talking about sex or love.
I think it's possible to love more than one, but that does mean your current partner can also love more than one. If to you it's a prerogative for men to love more, than you're a pig.
If you genuinely feel that to be monogamous is or can be restricting to people in general, you have matriarchal views, nothing wrong with that. Provided you're open about that and your partner can live with it.
If she can't, a true loving man won't go there. And then you indeed have to compromise yourself, but you'd do so out of love. If you can't do that, well, then you should question how much you actually do love your partner.

Well that makes you a great guy then does it.
Selfish, self centered, ignorant, creepy, shall I go on

No wonder women think most men are scum. Chances are you're bored in your relationship and you want the spark, excitement, and rush of feelings that comes with finding someone new. If you truely, TRUELY loved your girlfriend, no other women could tempt you away nevermind actively trying to find another. You are obviously not as in love with your girl as you thought.

Everyone gets comfortable in relationships, but when I truely love a girl, it transcends the relationship and it becomes so much more.

Yes.

OMG...how funny....^^^^^


I vote.....Just a PIG..

this ^

if you loved her you would not want anyone else. And no what you are suggesting is NOT OK unless she agrees to it, or you break up with her.

I vote he is just a PIG!! One of those guys women complain about.

http://aynrandlexicon.com/lexicon/love.html

you have cut yourself in two,Old Son!

I also vote ... Just a Pig!!!

There, it's unanimous

Your definition of "love" leaves much to be desired.

I really feel sorry for your girl. To be in a relationship with a man that is so disrespectful of her. PIG, as referred to many times in this thread, is quite an understatement. You are the type of person that makes us as women put a shield up. She has invested 4 years of her life with you and now that you are bored you want more. Chances are you should have thought about what you really wanted 4 years ago. You really make me want to vomit!!

it's not love your feeling its lust... you definitely don't know the meaning of the former.. think about this, what would you think if its the other way around?