that type of thing is a chemical imbalance......not her fault.......not his fault.........

There are many types of depression........mine being chronic.........then there is depression which is usually caused by some sort of event......then there is manic.....bi polar etc etc.....too many to list but most are caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain and not the fault of the person.

There are many degrees of depression like their are many degrees of LOVE.
So many different people can ALL find A FIT in there IF THEY ARE "BOTH" WILLING!!!!!
Many peop;e can GIVE their LOVE MORE than another,,and THROUGH that love they CAN MAKE LIFE WORK,...
But MANY people do NOT have ENOUGH LOVE in them to MAINTAIN
"THAT relationship...
And the depression that one may have could be so mild that BOTH their LOVES will ALLOW THEM to over look and DEAL with the others BAD TIMES, and make it all GOOD....

Good Lawd....what the F--- is wrong with some people???

Depression...more than half of the free world is on anti-depressants...they prescribe them for kids these days!!!!

If a person has a pink ribbon in their hair shall we dump them?

If a person discloses they take headache pills for migraines lets dump em!!

Oh dear blonde eyelashes!!! Dump em!!!

Oh no!! One blue eye, one green eye......yep...dump em!!!



Oh hang on....is this where I get to whine people are no damn good, and I cant find a single person to date?



Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...............

Was my sarcasm showing??

Hang on, I'll tuck it back in...

YOURE right..........just about everyone I know is on some sort of anti depressant.....most shouldnt be on them......some should be....alot has happened to them...

PEOPLE ARE NO DAMM GOOD????????????

AND YOU CAN'T FIND A DATE??????


OK,,,WAIT A MINUTE,,Im GOOD, AND I'LL ASK YA ON A DATE..LOL

PROBLEM,,,,,SOLVED!!!!!!!!!

I have one friend.....who went out to dinner with friends and came home to her bf ....he hung himself in their bedroom closet with a pair of her nylons........the same friend her daughters father died of alcohol poisening........then her next bf died of hiv......

yep....I have had PTSD, a little too much of the world crowded in...sucks...

No anti-depressants though...I couldn't risk the dependency...however,

Counselling, counselling, counselling...exercise, no coffee,alcohol, no stimulants..for me, I find that self analysis and a good therapist who doesn't reach for the prescription pad, allowed me to process what had gone on...slowly and gently...and alternative therapies helped immensely...St John's Wort, and Starflower, Rescue Remedy and Bach Flower remedies.

support was what I needed, till I could manage me, and to also learn my limits..

I am not saying it is for everyone, Gypsy, as you mentioned, chemical imbalances...mine was cicumstantial...not chemical.

Here.......St.Johns Wort is so expensive its almost cheaper to go to the anti depressants......I hear ya on the PTSD,,,,Ive had that too in the past....which triggered the chronic....lol Id be in therapy for 50 years though.......

anyways this is too depressing to even think about!!!

My STEP-DAUGHTERS Grandmother was found by her REAL father at the age of 12 DEAD of a self inflected gunshot wound to her head..
My STPH-DAUGHTERS father when she was 17 years old, took a shotgun to his head and tried to kill himself, he managed to live JUST LONG ENOUGH for my STEP-DAUGHTER to SEE HIM,,that away ,, and to have HIS WIFE ACCUSED HER, that it was my step daughters fault,,,my step daughter then a year later tried also to kill her self,,she failed,,,and ALOT of sessions and meetings and meds, and I and HER mothers divorce, still WE DEAL with her now being diagnoised as BI-POLAR....
WHICH IS A COMPLETELY NEW ANIMAL OF THE MIND...

SO YES,,,I KNOW DEPRESSION THROUGH HER TEARS AND MINE THROUGH OUR LIVES BEING AND STAYING CONNECTED FOR LIFE....
I HAVE NOW SPENT A YEAR WITH HER HERE,,,and she is doing great,,,under all that she has going on inside and daily facing just good thoughts about LIVING...
She is now 27 years old and six children, only two of which she gave birth to... LOVE and LIFE WILL ALWAYS GO ON,,and SO MUST WE..I'VE SPENT 25 YEARS GIVING HER MY HEART AND SOUL.

Maybe that could be a dating pre -requisite...

Are you a qualified therapist...no? Dump em!!!

Sorry Terry, we posted at the same time...that was for Gypsy..

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!! i TRY not to show my darkness.......there is always light to be seen!!!

I have all the shades...dark ...light...I hide none...what you see is what you would meet..


(maybe that explains why I am single...)

haha is there a happy and rip your face off pms emoticon here>>????

Hey Gypsy,

have you looked online for the St John's Wort? From another country? I am not sure what your allowances are like with bringing in herbal products through mail...but my galfriend buys a lot of her products online from O.S.

just a thought.

Oh thank the gods and goddesses I dont get pms...I would be the anti-zen...

Online......Im afraid I may get something like worm pills or something!!!

Anyways.....Im ok....not great but ok.....