Topic: NO LUCK
bigone62's photo
Mon 02/17/14 05:31 PM
I have been on here now I would say for 2 months and in that time I have found out many things and the truth is not one one them are good.
First thing is that when you turn 60+ nobody what's anything to do with you, be it male or female sure they look at the profile that's all.

The second one not only do they not say anything because of your age but just throw in a little bit of a handicap and that is a sure thing of chasing men or women away. I know this because it has happened to me many times even before I came to this site. If people would start to look beyond the things that are in front of them and look at what is inside the person they just may find that special person they have been looking for.

Trust me because you have a handicap of some kind or your age is getting there that does not mean that we are dead, I did not ask to get older it just happens. I also never asked to become handicapped, before I was run down by a drunk driver I like others had a job. Because of a person who got behind the wheel of his pick-up I am left to suffer the rest of my life. I don't want pity I just want to have a life for as short it is or for as long as it is others like me ask only for the same thing we are still human.

soufiehere's photo
Mon 02/17/14 05:45 PM

I have not seen any 'over 60' prejudice here.

Everyone is handicapped in some fashion, few
blame that for their predicaments.

You are married, so why would you expect anyone
to invest romantic time in someone already
spoken for?

The way to get to know people (and they, you)
is to enjoin the forums, I see you have not
utilized that in your 2 months here.

Upbeat people make better headway :-)

HoneyFly's photo
Mon 02/17/14 06:20 PM
;) Best of luck Bigone62!

Hope you'll find what you're looking for!

Really meant that mate!

Take care!

jemare's photo
Mon 02/17/14 06:24 PM
And here I thought this was going to be a thread about the large lottery that everyone is trying to win...when will I learn?frustrated bigsmile

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 02/17/14 06:26 PM
Everyone is guilty of looking for a certain things in a person... But honestly one can not expect anyone to want to even start to get to know someone if they will not even show themselves...All I can say is be honest who you are from the beginning and those that take to you will those that do not you do not need around....

bigone62's photo
Mon 02/17/14 08:23 PM
I have not been married in the last 6 years I was in a relationship which ended one year ago I have tried changing the stats and it keeps coming back up.

soufiehere's photo
Mon 02/17/14 09:06 PM

I have not been married in the last 6 years I was in a relationship which ended one year ago I have tried changing the stats and it keeps coming back up.

Go here: http://mingle2.com/user/edit_profile
The marital option is on the right side, be
SURE to click the 'Update My Profile' link
on the bottom left:-)