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Topic: when a man is too busy
skylady2020 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 57	Mon 02/17/14 02:51 PM
I'm about to make a wild, extreme and severe relationship rule: the word busy is a load of crap and is most often used by ********. The word "busy" is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. It seems like a good excuse, but in fact in every silo you uncover, all you're going to find is a man who didn't care enough to call. Remember men are never to busy to get what they want.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45349	Mon 02/17/14 02:54 PM
So, what's the new rule?

skylady2020 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 57	Mon 02/17/14 02:58 PM
If a man claims to love you but he is too busy that cannot show that he cares quit the relatiobship because he doesn't love you.He will only waste your time and cause you pain.

skylady2020 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 57	Mon 02/17/14 03:01 PM
Souf to quit such relationship or never accept such guy is the rule

skylady2020 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 57	Mon 02/17/14 03:06 PM
Klc I can't be in a relationship with a man that is too busy to care about me. I just want to your opinion on this.

HoneyFly Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 1962	Mon 02/17/14 03:09 PM
I'm about to make a wild, extreme and severe relationship rule: the word busy is a load of crap and is most often used by ********. The word "busy" is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. It seems like a good excuse, but in fact in every silo you uncover, all you're going to find is a man who didn't care enough to call. Remember men are never to busy to get what they want. Or too tired to call!

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Mon 02/17/14 03:10 PM
Klc I can't be in a relationship with a man that is too busy to care about me. I just want to your opinion on this. Busy means different things to different people. How much busy is too much for you? I dated a girl a while back who called me every hour and just wanted to chat endlessly. I told her I was too busy. I was.

LowRange Joined Sat 12/28/13 Posts: 665	Mon 02/17/14 03:17 PM
If a man loves you I would think he could make time to say something once a day .

skylady2020 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 57	Mon 02/17/14 03:22 PM
Klc you got me wrong I'm busy too.I mean a guy that is preaching love to you so that you accept to his girl friend but he will never call you through out the day. A man that can stay days without hearing from you. Yet claim love too much.

skylady2020 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 57	Mon 02/17/14 03:26 PM
Low you are right a man that really cares will create a time to reach out to you a least onces a day

larsson71 Joined Fri 09/20/13 Posts: 2204	Mon 02/17/14 03:55 PM
I'm about to make a wild, extreme and severe relationship rule: the word busy is a load of crap and is most often used by ********. The word "busy" is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. It seems like a good excuse, but in fact in every silo you uncover, all you're going to find is a man who didn't care enough to call. Remember men are never to busy to get what they want. What kind of attitude is that to have? I've had people phone me when im up working on a roof in a gale? Not going to hear much there, eh? When i'm working, I just like people giving me space to work. If the phone starts going every couple of minutes, I switch it off, as I have money to earn and peoples wages to pay. When I come home after work, then you can talk to me about anything and everything, but the daytime is run my company time!

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Mon 02/17/14 04:12 PM
I don't mean to be rude, but if you feel this suspicious if a guy tells you he's busy, is there any point in having a relationship? It sounds like you stopped trusting men.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45349	Mon 02/17/14 04:13 PM
Souf to quit such relationship or never accept such guy is the rule Ahhh. On the one hand, he may just be super busy. Then again, who has not time for love?

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 02/17/14 06:53 PM
Klc I can't be in a relationship with a man that is too busy to care about me. I just want to your opinion on this. I agree....if he's too busy he is just not that interested

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Mon 02/17/14 06:59 PM
Low you are right a man that really cares will create a time to reach out to you a least onces a day I totally agree!

allie0408 Joined Fri 01/31/14 Posts: 129	Mon 02/17/14 10:42 PM Edited by allie0408 on Mon 02/17/14 10:42 PM
I understand someone can be busy with their own activities and such but if it's like the usual thing then girl by all means move on. Don't give someone that doesn't care about your time the benefit to dwell on your thoughts. Move on and dedicate time for those that do want to be there. If someone wants to be a part of your life he will always find time to be with you.

manjot0154 Joined Tue 02/18/14 Posts: 3	Tue 02/18/14 04:15 PM
i think never

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 02/18/14 04:18 PM
it depends ,, some men have busy jobs, and busy lives, and they may not be the 'checking in' type I think a good morning or good night regularly is not asking too much, but there may even be periods where it doesn't happen EVERY DAY as long as that's the exception and not the norm,,,,i wouldn't take issue

badguy1 Joined Wed 03/03/10 Posts: 73	Tue 02/18/14 05:31 PM
Ill tell you like this: If a woman is too busy for me, im gonna make myself too busy for her too..

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Tue 02/18/14 05:58 PM
When you do talk to him do you go on and on about this and other things that you think makes him a crap boyfriend? I've had to deal with that from a woman and although I did take her calls every night, they just became annoying.