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Topic: when a man is too busy
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Tue 02/18/14 11:46 PM

When you do talk to him do you go on and on about this and other things that you think makes him a crap boyfriend? I've had to deal with that from a woman and although I did take her calls every night, they just became annoying.
It's the clingy, needy ones Tawt, that's the most annoying? When somebody phones me, I don't expect the phone to be going again every 2 minutes from that same person, with text messages thrown in also between calls? Phone me, yes by all means, but let me run my business also, as bills and workers salaries don't pay themselves and I ain't gonna meet other women while working up on a roof either? Just glad that the lassie that i'm with now understands that and knows that once work is over, she's got me totally when i'm home!

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Fri 02/21/14 01:37 PM
Busy happens. Inattentive to the point of neglect is a valid concern. If you care enough investigate. Talk it out. If he cares enough he will be responsive. Otherwise it would seem you are both better off.

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Fri 02/21/14 03:48 PM

it depends ,, some men have busy jobs, and busy lives, and they may not be the 'checking in' type

I think a good morning or good night regularly is not asking too much, but there may even be periods where it doesn't happen EVERY DAY

as long as that's the exception and not the norm,,,,i wouldn't take issue


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