Topic: Consign to the Friend-Zone?
Duttoneer's photo
Sun 02/16/14 02:02 AM
What is the maximum number of dates with somone you would expect to have without having that first passionate kiss and buttock squeezey? If it does not happen within this time frame do you feel firmly in the Friend-Zone and believe any chance of romance has become a complete lost cause?

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sun 02/16/14 03:27 AM
I don't pressure a guy into anything. I don't put a time limit on when he should kiss me or start making love to me. I like him to feel sure it's the right time for him. No pressure.

indignus's photo
Sun 02/16/14 03:35 AM
I love the friend zone, its a great way to start. If you are able to be friends and then fall in love after you already know each other really well then you'll have something real that will last and be based on each others friendship instead of sex. I'll never understand why people enter into a relationship and then try to get to know each other...

ridewytepony's photo
Sun 02/16/14 04:22 AM
Edited by ridewytepony on Sun 02/16/14 04:24 AM

ridewytepony's photo
Sun 02/16/14 04:23 AM

I love the friend zone, its a great way to start. If you are able to be friends and then fall in love after you already know each other really well then you'll have something real that will last and be based on each others friendship instead of sex. I'll never understand why people enter into a relationship and then try to get to know each other...

Haven't you ever bin horny! Ideally that would be the best precursor
for a relationship but its meant as "friend zone" not friend "zone".
To answer the Question, I would say by date three your out or your chances are narrowing fast. the younger the woman the shorter the time frame I think but will mainly be specific to each one.

TawtStrat's photo
Sun 02/16/14 04:25 AM

I don't pressure a guy into anything. I don't put a time limit on when he should kiss me or start making love to me. I like him to feel sure it's the right time for him. No pressure.


I'm kind of like that with women but if the sexual chemistry isn't happening and if it doesn't look like it's going anywhere romantically I will give up on them. No point in beating a dead horse.

indignus's photo
Sun 02/16/14 04:29 AM


I love the friend zone, its a great way to start. If you are able to be friends and then fall in love after you already know each other really well then you'll have something real that will last and be based on each others friendship instead of sex. I'll never understand why people enter into a relationship and then try to get to know each other...

Haven't you ever bin horny! Ideally that would be the best precursor
for a relationship but its meant as "friend zone" not friend "zone".
To answer the Question, I would say by date three your out or your chances are narrowing fast. the younger the woman the shorter the time frame I think but will mainly be specific to each one.


Ty for the correction webster, but I said what I meant. In my opinion being horny only confuses people, lust and love can feel very similar. I'd rather get to know who she is and fall for that rather then just be with her for her lucious body

Duttoneer's photo
Sun 02/16/14 06:37 AM
Thanks everyone for your comments. I guess it does depend on what you want. I have enough friends so I am only really interested in finding a potential partner therefore I would only date someone I was romantically attracted to. In consequence, if after 2 or 3 dates there was no passionate kiss and embrace, not necessarily sex, I would conclude the lady was not really interested in me in the same way, as a possible partner, in which case I would be looking elsewhere.




lionsbrew's photo
Sun 02/16/14 07:41 AM
Edited by lionsbrew on Sun 02/16/14 07:43 AM
Two weeks. If I'm dating a woman and theres no hanky panky within two weeks I am pretty sure shes just not into me and I move on. I know it might seem shallow but a woman usually knows early on if you're her type or not and if I'm not her type whats the point of continuing on.

soufiehere's photo
Sun 02/16/14 09:52 AM
Well geez, I always get jumped immediately.
This works ;-)

hellsboy's photo
Sun 02/16/14 09:53 AM
I dont believe in counting. .. depends on my chemistry with her

metalwing's photo
Sun 02/16/14 09:54 AM
I thought all relationships started off with buttocks squeezing!shocked shocked

Duttoneer's photo
Sun 02/16/14 10:00 AM

If there is no kiss by the second date, I may not do a third. I once went on 8 with no kiss, and had to tell him I couldnt date him anymore because I felt we were in the friend zone.


Thanks for your comments, that was definitely perseverance.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sun 02/16/14 10:25 AM

I thought all relationships started off with buttocks squeezing!shocked shocked


spock laugh


So did I, when I was a teen

no photo
Sun 02/16/14 12:10 PM
White ppl dosent have gud relationship on life. As soon as they pick up the partner. That much soon they leave.
Relationship is like this with white ppl. Girls love dick rather than a man.

Mississippigal2003's photo
Sun 02/16/14 12:13 PM

I love the friend zone, its a great way to start. If you are able to be friends and then fall in love after you already know each other really well then you'll have something real that will last and be based on each others friendship instead of sex. I'll never understand why people enter into a relationship and then try to get to know each other...
AMEN!!!!!!!

no photo
Sun 02/16/14 12:17 PM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sun 02/16/14 12:17 PM

Two weeks. If I'm dating a woman and theres no hanky panky within two weeks I am pretty sure shes just not into me and I move on. I know it might seem shallow but a woman usually knows early on if you're her type or not and if I'm not her type whats the point of continuing on.


seems plausible but I think for me anyway, it would also depend upon how much I see of him in that 2 weeks and the context of those meetings.

For me as long the communication is ongoing and he is not dating others, I will continue to see him. most guys like to get busy pretty quickly though so after a couple of dates if he hasn't kissed me I'd kinda wonder....what

Oh, and I don;t mind the friend zone either as I would prefer to start from there too