I am English, began chatting to a young gay man from Lahore in Pakistan, sexy talk at first but it has got rather serious and I hope to get help to understand.
Gays are murdered in Pakistan. He dares not tell anyone and lives a totally closet existence. His english is poor and my Urdu non existent. Help me understand why he feels unable to contact the many gay men from Lahore on here.

He probably wants to keep his head on his shoulders

Not everyone is into being tortured, Curious....

Because in some regions it is viewed in a very negative light.

In that specific region, it most often leads to death or torture...So they don't say anything.

It's cuz there all Jihadist and would rather be closet gay and let all there fellow men think they're perfect candidates to go suicidalist and Go boom for supposedly 72 virgins. Just nobody told them if they were male or female virgins

he might just be exercising Common Sense,judging by the anti-Gay Legislations passed in several Countries recently,and the overtly anti-Gay attitude toward Homosexuality in Islam!

First of all, he's not "gay", he's homosexual. "Gay" means happy and carefree. Ya just can't go around stealing words and changing their meaning.

Second, homosexuality in not socially,or legally acceptable, everywhere.

That is what I was thinking.

the gay police...

Well, aren't you the voice of hate mongering.
It IS socially and legally viable in many places
including this country.

People said the same of slavery, but we managed
to overcome that hideous concept also.

yeah,it might be catching!
Be afraid,be very afraid!
Just hope your feet don't fail you now!

I think you're right Kic ...I bet the condescending smack on the pee pee is what threw people off ...I know lots of gay people who prefer to be called gay as apposed to homosexual ....and what they are called is not the topic (or the issue) of this thread....Anyhooooo, I agree with Pink...

That really hurts

i think he meant that there are countries out there where gayness is outlawed...
Russia has weak anti gay laws, while in some Muslim controlled counties, they execute people for it...

I see posts saying islamic states are against gay. and i ask, is christianity in support either? when God created man, he did'nt create ADAM AND STEVE, he created ADAM AND EVE. it only amounts to rebelion against God. ofcourse, a female could love a fellow female the same way a woman would love her daughter. but going into a romantic and sexual relationship is crossing the line and i say that should not be supported.

Thats if you belive in god of course

Would it be "hate" if I said you had to deal with gravity? Saying there's no gravity doesn't mean you get to fly to work.

And slavery can hardly be compared to homosexuality. People were not enslaved because of their behavior, but rather because of their skin color, which is something totally beyond their control.

Homosexuality is the only... "class" of people that are defined not by who they are, BUT WHAT THEY DO. And no you can't compare them to Jews, (and I apologize for snatching that last bone away), because Judaism is a religion (behavior) and Israeli is a ethnicity (class)

The law is the law. don't like it? Try to get it changed, or move to where it doesn't matter.

Would you cry if we deported all the pedophiles to the Middle East where it's legal to marry the 8 year old of their choice?

why mention pedophiles in a post about gay people.
you are obviously homophobic and i read somewhere that a lot of homophobic people are actually hiding away from their feelings, so they put up a front to disguis it.
ring any bells

Ya know what? My eyes have been opened!

Let's bust that door down!

LOVE IS LOVE!

Support Patrick and Susan St�bing, a brother and sister couple that have had 4 children together. (3 of which are deformed.) (Google is your friend.)

Support the guy that wants to marry the sheep of his choice.

Support child marriage! After all: "Love is love", and no one has the right to tell someone who they can and can not love!

Happy now?