I wouldn't be angry or hurt.

I have a great imagination.

I could picture her nekkid, lickin a lollipop pop while pulling my pud. Man, I hope pud is fkin PFKING!

You are so easy.
Love ya, kiddo!

Sorry, but you have been scammed in real life in my opinion, in the same way as a scammer works on line, and this started online, they say all the right things, give you a sob story and take your cash. Their stories will appear more credible when you are in real life and not in cyberspace. Don't carry any bitterness over in to your next relationship, scammers are scammers on and off line, just move on and good luck.

She wanted a role model for her kids, you wanted sex? She needed money, you offered her it and wanted sex? Sounds like you two were using each other? If you wanna keep yer money in future get yerself an inflatable doll and your only outlay will be for a puncture outfit!

I had one doing a similar thing. I mean, she was pleading poverty, giving me sob stories and saying that what she needed at the moment was friendship and support. I refused to send her money but did say that as I had asked her out, I would pay for drinks and dinner and help with her traveling expenses etc. She did want sex but she told me that she wasn't ready for anything serious. So yeah, we had a good time together and I was hoping that in time she would be ready for a proper relationship. She led me on to think that she did want that too and when we were on the phone one time (I had to pay for all of the calls of course) she made me speak to her kid, which was a bit awkward but encouraging I suppose. She refused to meet my family though and we had a bit of an argument about that.

So anyway, I have no problem with offering a girlfriend drinks and stuff when she's a guest in my house but the whole thing got ridiculous and she kept trying to drag me into shops and I even bought her cigarettes. I began to resent it but sure, I had said that I would take her out and show her a good time and I chose to do that. It couldn't carry on the way that it was though because I was feeling a bit used and she seemed to feel a bit guilty about doing that and I tried to get her to sit down and have a proper chat about it because I did want to keep seeing her and I did want a relationship and not just sex. She didn't want that though and it ended with her telling me that I was getting too serious and she couldn't give me what I wanted. I really tried with that woman and she hurt me but it's her loss. She needed a guy to help her to feel better about herself and the sex and romance was what she wanted. I enjoyed that too and it made me feel better about myself because I hadn't had a girlfriend for a long time and was still hung up on someone else. We both were. Looking back on it now, I'm not angry and I feel nothing for her, one way or the other. I happen to know that she's doing it again and saying that she wants an "honest guy" to have fun with but nothing serious. She even contacted me again but I told her to bugger off when she started giving me crap and telling me that she had been honest with me and that it was just me getting too serious. The woman wasn't right in the head and even though there was passion, she wasn't emotionally available and with someone like that you get sucked in and they hurt you unless you are just an emotionally crippled user like they are.

Tawt, i've been out with some women with kids, that think that they're doing me a favour by saying that we can be a family, etc? It cuts no ice with me though, as at the same time they've tried to use me as a glorified cash machine. Must think we're all stupid, eh?

Desperate people do desperate things...?....Wait, lazy people...?......No, wait......morally bankrupt people ?.....or could it simply be the only thing they know how to do, use people ?.......Feelin bad for the kids...Morning Jon, Tawt!

lol

ya, in tryna sounds self righteous he kinda gives it away (pun intended)

llarsson you're a heartless bull

Most women are beautiful but not all of them are good marriage materials.....sorry just be on guard next time....wish u all the best

The same could be said of men. Most women are loving and very nice people.
I rest my case your honour.

And if anyone should know, it's Funky Frankie ...Out of the mouths of babes.....

Actually, that woman was full of self loathing. She told me that I had made her feel better about herself and that she was trying to be a good person. At least I didn't end up feeling like I could have treated her better, like I did with my ex. My ex had been quite a demanding woman. She didn't expect me to spend lots of money on her and she once told me that she was a "cheap date" but she did complain quite a lot about me not taking her out enough, or not really wanting to. I took that woman out to nice places because it was what I wanted to do. I didn't just want to stay in the house and have sex. I wanted us to be like a proper couple. What bothered me about her keeping coming here with no money in her pocket was that she was hanging about with this other guy all the time when she wasn't seeing me at weekends and I thought that she was probably spending her money on stuff that she was doing with him, instead of just waiting until the weekend, so that she would have cash left and we could have a good time together without there being this situation where I was feeling like a bit of a mug and she was feeling guilty about taking advantage of my generosity. Turns out that she was gambling. I think that's where it was going. I think that she was doing that "for the buzz", as they say because she did hate the way that she felt about herself and she told me that she also shoplifted and that's something that people do for the buzz and the feeling that you get when you get away with it and don't get caught. I suppose that her fling with me was the same. She wanted the excitement of having casual sex with a man from the internet.

She was damaged goods and I suppose that it's true that when someone really doesn't like who they are they can't actually handle somebody else liking or loving them. She wouldn't really talk to me about her feelings when we were together but she kept emailing me and saying how happy I made her feel. It was like a little game that she was playing. It ended when she sent me a message asking me how I felt about her and if I liked her as a person. I said yes and some romantic stuff because I thought that that was what she wanted and I did actually like her and I did have feelings for her. Then she gave me the crap again about how it was just a casual relationship and that she didn't want anything serious. I was just completely fed up with her coming out with that when she was leading me on and she was giving me all of this other jazz about how she hoped that things would work out between us, as if that was something that she had no control over.

I had one date and she was ready for me to fix her vacation home, organize a list of "honey dos", and sell me her gumbo pot for $150. She never got another date.

but did you get sex?

Well then, don't brag so much the next time!

so that answers my question...

I actually cut the date a little short!

I bet she is still singing this song!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0S13mP_pfEc