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FLIGHTPHOENIX's photo
Sun 01/26/14 11:32 PM
Why is it that some guys thinks it Sweet to call you Dear.... Like Really....
what are some words that creep you out...... :wink: :tongue: waving

Romanticmike52's photo
Sun 01/26/14 11:44 PM
I often call women 'Dear", because I love women, nothing wrong in that at all, most women appreciate being called that - with a nice smile back to me.

jacktrades's photo
Sun 01/26/14 11:58 PM
Edited by jacktrades on Mon 01/27/14 12:00 AM
I think its the content that's important.Are they being dismissive or affectionate.I have often used nicknames Honey, Sweetheart, Baby, but those are when I'm in a relationship with them if its a woman that I'm just friends with or a fellow employee then I call them by their name. I believe there is a line between personal and professional.

FLIGHTPHOENIX's photo
Mon 01/27/14 12:28 AM

I often call women 'Dear", because I love women, nothing wrong in that at all, most women appreciate being called that - with a nice smile back to me.
hi Mike yeah if your in a relationship with a women yip it sweet to be called Dear.. but come on when your just getting to no them... i'm no animal.... DEER....DEAR ewwww :wink: flowerforyou

Romanticmike52's photo
Mon 01/27/14 12:29 AM
I can agree with you, you have to be careful who you say these thing to, in a job it would be a no no, at times it could be hard not to tho lol

Romanticmike52's photo
Mon 01/27/14 12:30 AM
What would you like to be called? surely not anything gross? lol

Romanticmike52's photo
Mon 01/27/14 12:32 AM
Well I certainly haven't had any women object yet

FLIGHTPHOENIX's photo
Mon 01/27/14 12:33 AM

I think its the content that's important.Are they being dismissive or affectionate.I have often used nicknames Honey, Sweetheart, Baby, but those are when I'm in a relationship with them if its a woman that I'm just friends with or a fellow employee then I call them by their name. I believe there is a line between personal and professional.
hi jack hows it going.... thumbs up thanks my friends :wink: flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

FLIGHTPHOENIX's photo
Mon 01/27/14 12:36 AM

What would you like to be called? surely not anything gross? lol
bla,bla,bla Mike ha,haha well i'll be the first my friend to objected lol funny

Romanticmike52's photo
Mon 01/27/14 12:38 AM
Okay, fair enough, I respect that.

FLIGHTPHOENIX's photo
Mon 01/27/14 12:57 AM

Okay, fair enough, I respect that.
oh Mike your sweet stay true my friend ur a awesome...guy.....

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Mon 01/27/14 03:58 AM
Edited by Leigh2154 on Mon 01/27/14 04:28 AM

Why is it that some guys thinks it Sweet to call you Dear.... Like Really....
what are some words that creep you out...... :wink: :tongue: waving


Good morning (((((Phoenix)))))flowers ...I think all of us love to be addressed by our name...When my email begins with Hi Leigh, Leigh, Hey Leigh I am immediately more positive about it, more willing to respond, and feel warmer and fuzzier toward the person writing even if I don't know them (especially if I don't:tongue: )...There are five names that, when used to address me in online mail, will get no response (unless I know the personsmitten :heart: )...They are Dearwhoa , Auntielaugh laugh , Baby:angry: , Sexyill , and Beautifulslaphead ...Sorry "dude", you're out...smokin ...Addressing a person by their name is, for me, a sign of respect....

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Mon 01/27/14 04:25 AM


Why is it that some guys thinks it Sweet to call you Dear.... Like Really....
what are some words that creep you out...... :wink: :tongue: waving


Good morning (((((Phoenix)))))flowers ...I think all of us love to be addressed by our name...When my email begins with Hi Leigh, Leigh, Hey Leigh I am immediately more positive about it, more willing to respond, and feel warmer and fuzzier toward the person writing even if I don't know them (especially if I don't:tongue: )...There are five names that, when used to address me in online mail, will get no response (unless I know the personsmitten :heart: )...They are Dearwhoa , Auntielaugh laugh , Baby:angry: , Sexyill , and Beautifulslaphead ...Sorry "dude", you're out...smokin ...Addressing a person by their name is, for me, a sing of respect....


waving :thumbsup: :thumbsup: flowerforyou

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Mon 01/27/14 04:29 AM



Why is it that some guys thinks it Sweet to call you Dear.... Like Really....
what are some words that creep you out...... :wink: :tongue: waving


Good morning (((((Phoenix)))))flowers ...I think all of us love to be addressed by our name...When my email begins with Hi Leigh, Leigh, Hey Leigh I am immediately more positive about it, more willing to respond, and feel warmer and fuzzier toward the person writing even if I don't know them (especially if I don't:tongue: )...There are five names that, when used to address me in online mail, will get no response (unless I know the personsmitten :heart: )...They are Dearwhoa , Auntielaugh laugh , Baby:angry: , Sexyill , and Beautifulslaphead ...Sorry "dude", you're out...smokin ...Addressing a person by their name is, for me, a sign of respect....


waving :thumbsup: :thumbsup: flowerforyou


waving Morning ((((Missy))))...flowerforyou :heart: drinker

FLIGHTPHOENIX's photo
Mon 01/27/14 04:06 PM


Why is it that some guys thinks it Sweet to call you Dear.... Like Really....
what are some words that creep you out...... :wink: :tongue: waving


Good morning (((((Phoenix)))))flowers ...I think all of us love to be addressed by our name...When my email begins with Hi Leigh, Leigh, Hey Leigh I am immediately more positive about it, more willing to respond, and feel warmer and fuzzier toward the person writing even if I don't know them (especially if I don't:tongue: )...There are five names that, when used to address me in online mail, will get no response (unless I know the personsmitten :heart: )...They are Dearwhoa , Auntielaugh laugh , Baby:angry: , Sexyill , and Beautifulslaphead ...Sorry "dude", you're out...smokin ...Addressing a person by their name is, for me, a sign of respect....
Nices (((((Leigh))))) An good Morning I hope you have a Awesome day :wink: flowerforyou :thumbsup: :heart:

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Mon 01/27/14 04:15 PM
Unless a guy knows me personally, I don't like names like "dear, sweetie, hon," etc. I think it's getting too personal and familiar too quickly and it's impolite. If he doesn't know my name, he can call me Ma'am, Ms., Miss, whatever, but to just assume he can call me by an affectionate name is rude.

zzzippy56's photo
Mon 01/27/14 04:47 PM
at this point the only one that gets sweety or honey is my daughter..

zzzippy56's photo
Mon 01/27/14 04:50 PM
ah still a horrable pic. ill have to redo it again...oops

dcastelmissy's photo
Mon 01/27/14 05:10 PM
Yeah, these kind of words are nice spoken by someone who knows you, but in an IM message or an email from a first time contact, they are a nuisance and irritating as well. I immediately block them.

soufiehere's photo
Mon 01/27/14 05:16 PM
Hate it, hate it.
And if your mate says 'Yes, dear'
I thinks it's curtains.

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