Hey bella, so what you're saying is she's really p*ssing you off.

So tell her not us, wtf?
You're the liar and the fool when you stay with someone who you don't like once you get to know them, which is another way of saying you don't like the way they treat you when you're together. That means you don't like them as a person. So why lie about it anymore?

Also, glad to hear that it only gets creepy when they're over fifty. I was starting to worry that all of these young girls that I've been blowing kisses at were thinking that I'm a perv.

I think toddlers beauty contests in supermarkets takes the cake on creepy.

Yikes!!
That statement had even more bitterness than this new brand of coffee I'm trying out this morning.

My coffee was smooth compared to the statement you refer to so I agree.

You'll have better results if you don't depend just on this site (or any other site), combine it with looking in the real world. I hope you find what you want; there's nothing wrong with wanting a certain type of guy, the only drawback is, most of the time someone else wants him too...

Good luck to you.

Good advice Paint!!!

Coooooool!!! I love my coffee while reading the most entertaining exchanges that occur on these date site forums! It is more fun than chasing scammers offline. Good luck finding the "perfect" person. With luck you'll find an honest one and live happily ever after even with the cats, nurses and whatever else life throws at you!....Signed,
The "old geezer" (fast approaching 50 and don't care!)

Awww thanks everyone for the advice :) I don't really get out often so I guess I do depend on here lol but don't people say that love will find u when ur not looking ??

It's never found me, so I wouldn't know. I'm sure you will have much better luck though.

A train won't hit you if you are not on the tracks!

Here's the real deal. Join the forums on Mingle. They are fun, like this one, and over time you will make real friends. Maybe you'll meet your match and maybe not. But hedge your bets and put yourself in a situation where you CAN meet someone if they happen to be there. Take your kids to the park or Church or wherever ... but put yourself in a place where some guy (maybe with kids too) can meet you. Do a little research. You are cute. If you show interest so will they.

Good advice Metalwing.

Comes from being old!

Yes she is in start she was proud and happy and making me feel loved, beautiful who iam how iam and was soft and lovey dovey and now it sucks because i have to text her n try to talk to her and i she doesnt talk she will talk to her friend who is my roomamate like nothing be w.e she is ingore me tell me im asking two many? S and she just doesnt reply just a k for everything like ahe is less interested n me but she loves me and all stiff she says only about her her space n alome time n just got this way we live closer to eachother and she geta mad quick and stuff not like i dont get trigger happy be mad as and ish and im good girlfriend to her i cook her w.e she wants im the chef i rubn her feet n back amd etc all about her spoiled n being selfish and we went alot of places time during xmas n new years she posted it on fb made me feel good bc never had gf treat me right made me feel good not like im ugly or nothing or *** im good and she start erasimg stuff being funny ..makes me feel like im worthless not worthy be treated like a queen for once n the start she was great we were like a 1 hr away now we are like 5mins away switch she wanted me closer i moved like omg this sux and i felt so good let out .....and we talk about it for 3 days nothing changed .....i bearly sleep i habent felt hungry i wanna habe a child with her and stuff lile omg ...my life has no purpose

are you serious?
if you talk for 3 days and nothing changed, maybe you should have said/done something different...

i don't think there are to many people that can take that much whining about how you want them back... just leave her alone, and don't tell her you want her back every time you talk....

put her feelings first, not yours...

Moe!!! U be sweet. We both know u can be ((hug)))

i'm always sweet

Hey FOUL! Granted it is and opinion but how is it ok to say that someone who is alone is some how "Too picky" as if that is a bad thing or if they have basic standards of what will make for a good relationship and or marriage. Some of us know exactly what it takes to have a happy relationship (because we have been blessed with them) and don't feel like messing up our lives getting involved with problem people.

Or that they actually find out living alone is ok, even great at times, when your life is viable and happier than if you settle for ( and granted I should have said "SOME" guys) that turn out to be a royal pain if you discount yourself? And or heaven forbid just accept someone because they are not as bad as some and you won't end up old and alone. A myth since I know plenty of mature people who live alone but are far from lonely and certainly far from not having a "private" life.

Believe me I have seen plenty of people who say oh well I have been single "too long" and panic and hook up with anything that will have them and sure enough they are way more miserable than us that continue to date and have friends and a quality life as a single person.

And no I don't have cats and I don't consider myself particularly bitter even if the reference to the Stooges went over too sarcastic but saying that to someone who doesn't just knuckle down and accept being insulted as part of the stereo typical scenario of what bitter people who are NOT picked sometimes project on people who CHOSE to be single rather than settle with someone who resorts to insults when you disagree with their premise and offer and alternative one why some people don't see staying single as failure is pretty comical.