I've been on this site for awhile now... I found one guy! One!!! Who lives in England :( so I can't count him... But very one who messages me is older or middle eastern or not at all what I'm looking for... Am I setting my standards to high? If so is it considered settling for less? I've been in some rally relationships and decided I wasn't going to settle for anything less that what's perfect for me... So far I'm have zero luck... Any suggestions?

I'm not settling for nothing less...than everything.

Aim highhhhh....Go for the full meal deal~.




#The Whole Package

you have a couple of choices, as i see it... you can wait for the "perfect" guy and be alone till then...

Or, you can go out with less than perfect guys and have some fun and free food till you meet mr. perfect...

the longer you wait, the more your standards will change...


and maybe, just maybe, the not so perfect guy will turn out to be perfect...

good luck to ya

Sorry Moe , Curly or what ever the last of the Three Stooges name was the longer you wait the more convinced that you are doing just fine on your own. For a while yea you wonder just how long you can keep it going on your own then suddenly you realize that you still have a place in the world, begin to relish your freedom, and not having to babysit some guy who is not worth the aggravation more often than not. Guys think they are such a catch but after their self life gets a little out of date you are more in need of a nurse and a muzzle and who wants to spend their golden years doing that?

I just spit my coffee..laughed so hard came out my nose...lmao..

It's been a year since I was seeing someone but 2 since I had a relationship/boyfriend... I'm fine on my own and have done a lot more independently but still rely on guy friends to help me with plumbing and fixing the lawn mower haha but I just miss feeling appreciated and I miss snuggling and the before u fall asleep conversations ... I learned not to take the small stuff for granted and now it's the small stuff I miss the most :(

#Heartfelt

In order to have a high standard, you need to be searching for a Melmacian to be your significant other.

Yup... They seem right up my alley!!

If a Melmacian is what you are searching for, then you have excellent taste.

see, this is what happens when you don't date and wait for mister perfect... lonely old woman with nothing but cats for company...

personally, i could care less who anyone dates, but since this is an open forum and everyones opinion is usually welcome, i put my two cents in...

date, don't date, means nothing to me... just have another drink and talk to your cats...

There, I corrected it for you.

yea, cats are a plus for you...

I have 2 cats... Uh oh... I'm on my way :P

Me too

feed them to Dodo and get a puppy

Maybe don't specifically look for a relationship prospect but just for someone you don't mind hanging with a bit. The more you get along the better potential, but the best long term relationships tend to kind of sneak up on you, it never looks that good coming out of the gate.
What looks good coming out of the gate is almost always a con.

Hey im bella im 25 and lesbian what if i found a woman here now its all odd now and she makes me feel horrible i havent done nothing to her. Im awake cant sleep...and top everything else going through i got oddness with her. I feel like a robot...im very good girlfriend to her ...i feel lonely n trap in dark place..:'(

Preferences are a personal thing. The more picky you are, the harder it's going to be to find what you're looking for though, obviously. What if he's older than you're looking for but you really like other stuff about him? I've met women that weren't really within the age range that I might consider to be ideal and got on pretty well with them. I had a preference for slimmer women until I met someone that wasn't exactly slim and now I'm not so fussy about that. Now I'm starting to feel that having fixed ideas about what I want isn't so great and it's better to just be open to the idea that somebody completely new and different could come into my life and knock my socks off. It's happened before.

You do have to ask yourself how it could work with someone I think. That's what I tend to do. You have to be realistic about it. That's my advice. Don't be too picky but be realistic.